Now that you’ve survived Yule, the Winter Solstice, and Christmas, it’s time to start thinking about next year. I know, boring and not the sort of thing you want to put a lot of mental effort into right now, but if you don’t think about it now then by this time next week you’ll already be behind. Of course, I’m not just talking about career or savings goals, when I remind you to set your goals and make appropriate benchmarks to track your progress. I’m talking about kinky goals!
Kinky Goals for 2026
Let’s set some goals! When we’re talking about kinky goals, they can be things like stretching how long you can go without masturbating or having an orgasm, or something to the other side of the game, coerced daily orgasms on a schedule X days in a row! You can look at your own fetishes and desires and then craft your goals with them in mind. After all, setting yourself a goal to never masturbate is silly if you’re asexual. Find something that will challenge you a little, and add some fun and spice to your life.
Kinky Fun Rewards?!
You can also set goals that aren’t themselves kinky, but use your kinks and fetishes as your rewards for meeting your goals. If you clean the bathroom every week for a month, you get to indulge yourself with sniffing your wife’s shoes! Or if you complete a half marathon, you can write on your face in Sharpie and plap yourself into a gooner daze. You set the goals, and then use your own kinky desires to motivate yourself to complete them. It’s perfect, because positive rewards and affirmations work really well to get motivated.
Tell Us Your Kinky Goals!
For the Femdom Fridays live podcast event on December 26, 2025 at 9 pm in our Enchantrix Empire Discord server, any really good comments here will be read on the air! Tell us what your kinky goals for 2026 are, and let us hold you accountable in the live podcast. What do you want to achieve, and what rewards are you planning to give to yourself? We want to know! And Femdom Fridays ladies, we can also set goals for ourselves in the coming year! How many ruined orgasms do you plan to hand out, or what kinky new toy are you going to use to reward yourself with?
Your Kinky Life Coach, Mistress Harper
