It’s RUNE JUNE at FemDom Fridays and we are RUINING your orgasms! If you aren’t aware, Becky pronounces “ruin” like “rune”. A few weeks ago, Ms Becky was hosting one evening and she had us play a game of “Ruin It”. In the game, we choose a card that has a word on it and we have to ruin that word. For example, the card says “threesome”. So, you have to ruin that topic in 4 words or less. It’s a really fun game but we could NOT get over the way that she pronounced “ruin”. In true FemDom Fridays style, we had to bust her balls over this. One thing led to another and RUNE JUNE was established. Now you can expect ruined orgasms all June. š„°
Ruined Orgasms are a delicious type of Orgasm Control
If you know me, you know that controlling your orgasms absofuckinglutely sends this Goddess into Domme-space. I love everything about orgasm control and that includes ruining your orgasms! I love to control your cocks, so naturally, I’m going to control your orgasms. But, what is orgasm control exactly?
Orgasm control is often referred to as edging or orgasm denial/delay. But there are MANY ways to control your orgasms. Your orgasms can be controlled by edging, tease and denial, tease and delay, coerced orgasm, ruined orgasm, chastity, mental orgasms (hands free orgasm). There are so many benefits of orgasm control but because it’s RUNE JUNE, we are going to focus on ruined orgasms.
What is a Ruined Orgasm?
What is a ruined orgasm? A ruined orgasm is when a Domme brings you right to the point of no return and then ceases all stimulation. This prevents you from achieving that feeling of a full release. It is so fucking frustrating for you but wildly satisfying for a Domme who is determined to ruin your orgasm. š
Ruined Orgasms for Everyone!
There are so many ways to ruin an orgasm! I asked the FemDom Friday Mistresses if they enjoy ruining orgasms (they all do!) and their favorite way to ruin an orgasm. Each Mistress had a different technique that they shared with all of us.
Krista
Krista enjoys ruining orgasms by catching you off guard and redirecting your focus. If you haven’t spent time with Ms Krista, then you should know, she is very good at this! Do not let your guard down around her. She is ten steps ahead of you and will have you on your knees quicker than a whore in a confession booth.
Becky
Depending upon how sadistic your Domme is, she may take it a step further and just abandon your orgasm. She does this by bringing you to the point of no return and ceasing all stimulation. This leaves your cock flailing around ā aching for more ā while cum dribbles out. You’re denied the mindblowing release you’re craving. This technique is so fucking satisfying to me! š
And, I am so not fucking surprised that my kinky, sadistic, and debaucherously sexy bestie, Becky also enjoys leaving cocks hard, abandoned, and frustrated AF. You can thank her for creating RUNE JUNE. She’s the reason you’ve had so many ruined orgasms this month, sluts! š But first, listen to her talk about her favorite ways to RUNE your orgasm. Yes, she gave two examples, she’s The Becky. š„°
Hunter
Next, Hunter shared her affinity for an abandoned orgasm but confessed that she feels the frustration of a ruined orgasm because it denies her the “money shot”. š¦š¦š¦ What else would you expect from a Mistress who has an entire blog dedicated to cum eating fantasies?! Depriving her of that money shot only deprives her of the ability to fantasize about how you’re going to eat that cum for her, cum slut.
Being the intelligent Queen that she is, Hunter figured out a way to get what she wants. First, she will ruin your orgasm. Then she will overstimulate the fuck out of your cock and coerce a full release right after. Hunter even shared a really funny story about a pet who had an abandoned orgasm just that afternoon! You can also listen to Hunter and Becky talk about ruined orgasms on Kinkology.
Meshelle
Meshelle shared that Ms Audrey taught her how to ruin an orgasm. How fucking awesome is that? The pet was into a bit of pain play too so you know Meshelle had a blast giving that pet a painfully pleasurable ruined orgasm. According to Meshelle, the sounds he made sent shivers through her thighs and into her knees. I bet he still dreams of how good it hurt too.
The technique that Meshelle is referring to is when your Domme brings you to the point of no return and then places her thumb or index finger over the tip of your cock. This blocks the cum from flowing out of the urethral meatus (the hole at the tip of your cock) and is pretty fucking uncomfy. It is also really hard to do on your own so if you’ve done this successfully, kudos to you!
Oh, the things you do for your Mistress, huh? š Good pet, now listen to Meshelle talk about how she learned how to give a ruined orgasm.
Kay Marie
The sexy MILF herself, Kay Marie heard you say that you wanted a ruined orgasm and decided you weren’t going to have any orgasm at all. š You can’t say she didn’t give you exactly what you were asking for either. š„ Her response was fucking badass in my opinion but then she shared the most hilarious story. She shared this same opinion on her blog a decade ago and it stirred up a bit of controversy amid the Empire halls from some submissives. I hope by now they have learned to do as they are told because Mistress is always right.
Hadley
Hadley shared that she likes to delay orgams and enjoys the abandonment technique when ruining orgasms. She loves witnessing the psychological struggle that the subbie experiences when they are told to stop stroking and drop that cock. She can see that they really, really, really want to have a full orgasm but they don’t want to disappoint their Mistress. Hadley also mentioned enjoying the look of disbelief on a subbies face when they realize that yes, she is going to make them ruin that fucking orgasm for her! š„µ mmmm, the devilish giggles that Hadley made while talking about ruining orgasms has me thinking that you sluts are in for an amazing fucking ride! š„š„š„
Harper
Harper wasn’t able to join us for FemDom Friday but she wrote a blog about ruined orgasm techniques. And, because she is so fucking awesome, Harper recorded her blog for you to listen to below! You should thank her, pet. She also talked about ruining orgasms with Krista on Whore School a few weeks ago!
Me ā Demi š
Last, I shared my favorite ways to ruin orgasms and I love how RUNE JUNE challenged me to find new and exciting ways to ruin your orgasms!! I have always been a fan of the abandonment technique. The sensual cocktease in me quickly turns into a sadistic cocktease when I watch that cock pulsing and throbbing, just flailing about in the air while dribbling cum. mmmmm š
Like Hunter, I love having my subbies ruin their orgasm and lap up that bit of cum that dribbles out. And then I want them to RUNE it again…and again. It’s not always possible, but I fucking love that ruining your orgasm leaves you aching for more. Sometimes, your refractory period is shorter and you can have several ruined orgasms in a row!!
After Meshelle’s topic about impact play last week, I started to incorporate some post orgasm torment by flicking and/or tapping the frenulum as the cum dribbles out. This has very quickly become my new favorite way to ruin orgasms. But, I have a slut with a new flogger and I am so fucking eager to hear his grunts and groans when I have him use that flogger on my property after he’s ruined an orgasm for me. š
The Psychology Behind a Ruined Orgasm
Because she is such a sexy nerd, I asked Becky to talk about the psychology behind a ruined orgasm. She shared that there are two basic theories that she feels could be applied to the individual experience a ruined orgasm; acceptance & commitment therapy and somatic therapy. I love a woman with a huge fucking brain, don’t you?
Thank you bestie for creating this amazing new way to spend June! We really are a sadistic bunch, aren’t we?
Not only are we going to RUNE JUNE, we want to RUNE all of orgasms…well, at least the way you currently view them.
Don’t worry, we have a plan. š You are going to take the Pussy Free Pledge for us, then we are going to teach you how to properly worship pussy. Just know, we absofuckinglutely plan on ruining how you currently view pussy worship too. š
Harper is our host next week! You can find us on Discord at 9pm est Friday, June 27th.
We will not host a FemDom Fridays event on July 4th (have a safe and sexy holiday) but we will see you on July 11th with Becky as our host.
Make it a great week everyone!! š
Keeping you entranced and craving more until next time,
Your Sensual Cocktease Goddess Demi
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Absolutely LOVE this post!!!! Who knew there were so many variations / possibilities here?????
Still think “ruined” orgasms are amazing. They might even be better than the version I used to be allowed to have????ššš
š¤šš¤£ Your last ruined orgasm was fucking epic, my slut.
This was such a great time! Listening to all of the Mistresses describe their favorite ways of ruining orgasms was so hot! I have had so many ruined orgasms this month!š Ms Demi is certainly making Rune June a month to remember for me!š¤Ŗ I am sure that the rest of 2025 will be even more incredible!š„š„š„
You have had so many ruined orgasms this month! How many are we at now? And the month isn’t over yet, pet. š
As of tonight I have had 62 ruined orgasms this month Goddess Demi! š¤Ŗš„š
Good job, pet!
Iāve never experienced a ruined orgasm before. after reading this Iām definitely more open to the idea. Goddess Demi I can sense how happy this makes you. The impact play technique sounds intense. I would like to try this with your guidance.
You’re going to LOVE your first ruined orgasm, and every ruined O after, too! There’s something truly intoxicating about bringing a man to that point, and then pulling the rug out from under him, metaphorically. š
It is intense in the hottest way possible. I would love to try this with you! I love popping cherries! š
Informative and hot! The quote that sticks in my mind is from Ms. Becky, “I’m going to ruin your whole damn life with the pussy free pledge . . . “
pussy free and ruined? the perfect combination!
lol, I love that part too, Mary Fae.
This is an absolutely amazing post and the audios are incredible! My last orgasms were all ruinedā¦.Limpotent dribblesā¦ of abandoned orgasmsā¦ To the laughter of the woman who ruined it! Really, and retrospect I wish every orgasm Iāve ever had had been ruinedā¦ it would have been appropriate
oh dickless, you are fucking amazing! “limpotent dribbles” has me laughing soooo hard!! I can only imagine the devilishly sexy laugh that came from the woman who ruined it.
I should also addā¦ That for me now the best ruined orgasmā¦ Really the only ruined orgasm while in Chastityā¦ Is NO orgasm at allā¦ Denial
Kay Marie would love to see this!!!!
I’ve often said that my favorite way to make a man cum is with some hot and fun ruined orgasm techniques. Maybe it’s my sadistic side, maybe it’s reparations for too much bad sex foisted off on myself and my friends by men with more ego than dick… maybe it’s just plain fun!
I can totally relate to this.
This was the perfect send-off to Ruin June, Demi!