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Yeah, it is. Good evening, audience. Hey there, Patty.
Hi, Addy. I hope I’m not completely butchering this name, but Arnon Neum. JayHodge88, baby.
Let’s see. Hey there, Prisoner. Hey, Mott.
Hey, DemiOwnsMe. Ooh, and hey there, GounetDoll. I love your picture.
That is hot. It is very sexy, those boots. Very nice.
Yes. I think GounetDoll might make a great cuffing season partner. Get into that.
I like it. Who doesn’t like that? Cuffing with those would be so nice. I love it.
Well, how is everyone doing this lovely Femdom Friday? I’m great. Girl, I need some of Miss Krista’s booze. Oh, it’s so good tonight.
Oh, and it’s cold. What are we having tonight? We are having Cuff the Muff, and I am going to post it right now in our little room, but it’s a hot beverage tonight. Yum.
Miss Krista, any beverage you touch is a hot beverage. Oh, thanks. Well, this one here is extra hot.
You heat this one up on the stove, and it is really, really good. Here you go. I can attest to that deliciousness.
It is so good. It’s basically two ounces of Crown Royal, two cups of fresh apple cider, tablespoon of maple syrup, and you garnish it with a cinnamon stick and apple slices. But what you do is you put the apple cider and the maple syrup and the crown in a little saucepan, and you heat it up first.
Oh. I love the Crown Royal apple. Oh, I do, too.
I love it in coffee. It’s so good. I haven’t had it with coffee.
Me neither. That sounds delicious. Oh, it is.
It’s good. Well, just to introduce everyone, welcome to Femdom Fridays. You can find us live every Friday at 9 p.m. Eastern Standard Time on the Enchantrix Empire Discord server, but you must be 18 or older to join, 21 and up to drink, of course.
Listen to the replay every Saturday on your favorite podcast platform. Now, Bestie, after sharing such a delicious drink, would you mind introducing yourself to our audience and letting them know where they can find you? Well, of course. I am Ms. Krista, and my blog is phonesexfetishblog.com. I also have a show tomorrow night called Kinks and Drinks.
Everybody is welcome there as well. And you can find me on X, Krista, and Chance. I’m also on Blue Sky, and I’m also on EE.
So pretty easy to find. So come find me. And if you have time and you want to have some really a lot of fun, do my little suggestions for my show, and I will promise you it’ll be hot.
Hell yeah, it will. I will be at that show tomorrow. I can’t wait.
I’m excited. Oh, yes. Lots of fun.
It looks like it’s gonna be fun. And I’m so glad you said that, Miss Demi. Would you mind introducing yourself, goddess, and letting everyone know where they can find you? Of course.
I am Goddess Demi, and you can find me at sensualcocktease.com. Oh, so sexy. Very sensual, indeed. Miss Hatley, we haven’t seen you for a minute.
Would you mind introducing yourself and letting everyone know where they can find you? Oh, well, thank you. I’ve been out sharing myself with the broader world for a little while. It’s good to be home.
I am mostly here. You can find me, finally, at IWillDominateYou.com, which is primarily the Adventures of Stravia at the moment. Who I adore.
I’m so in love with Stravia at this point. If you haven’t checked her out, go look. And you can find me at EE, of course.
I’ve been doing a question of the day, which most of you, I think in the audience, a good number of you, give me some really, really lovely responses, and I appreciate that. And I’m not on Twitter as much as I once was, because it’s sticky. It gets all over me every time I go in there.
That is an excellent way to describe it. Indeed. Welcome, everybody.
It’s good to be back. Thank you. Sticky is a good way to describe it.
I’m sticking my Twitter. Yeah. Miss Harper, would you mind introducing yourself and letting the audience know where they can find you? I am Harper, the most awesome person in the whole entire world, above literally, no, I’m not.
I’m just me. You can find me at FetishPhoneSexBlog.com. I also have, I have a podcast. Whore School is adult sex education, and I just got a brand new blog.
Whoreschool.net. Go look at it. It’s so pretty. I’m so happy.
It looks so good. So, yeah, that. And yes, I am also extraordinarily humble.
That’s true, too. The humblest. Yes.
The humblest. Not a hint of vanity anywhere. Exactly.
Everything I say is just the unvarnished truth. Girl, talk your shit. You should.
You’re awesome. That’s right. Fuck, yeah.
Own it. And I’m surrounded. I am not wearing boots tonight.
See, I was about to say something nice about you. But you had to. I had to butt up.
You had to cockblock yourself. I was about to say I’m surrounded by the most awesome women in the whole entire world. And the only reason I’m.
Except for Krista. Except Krista. Because she’s got boots for my bullshit.
I see how it is. Girl. You know Krista, she’s full in that sarcasm and ball busting.
Not me. Can’t let that moment go by. You’re awesome.
All awesome. And I would never say mean things about my, any of you. You’re all great.
I love you. Oh my God. The feelings are mutual.
We all love you too, Harper. Well, Miss Becky, would you mind introducing yourself? The Becky. I was going to say.
The Becky. I am Miss Becky. And you can find me at intelligentphonesexcalls.com. I like the clarity of my blog.
And then you can find my podcast Kinkology, the psychology of kink. You can find that on Cock Radio and, you know, all of your favorite streaming platforms. And yeah, that’s me in a nutshell.
Hell yeah, it is. And just in case nobody recognized who I am. I am your melodious and sometimes malefic goddess, Meshelle.
I will be your hostess this evening. And you can find me on themasterbatrix.com. And now we’re going to get into this wonderful topic. We’re going to be talking about cuffing season.
Does anyone know what cuffing season is? Are we all clear on that? Or would we like a working definition? Because I can give us one if y’all would like it. I would love a working definition, please. Yes.
Define our terms, please. Fontobulous. I’m going to take it directly from my teaser post that I did earlier this week.
Did I give everybody an assignment to read, by the way? Oh, you did? Or I did? Oh, you did. You gave everyone the assignment? Yes, she did. That’s my bestie.
Got my back. Trying to hook it up. Thank you.
Well, cuffing season officially started on the first day of fall. This is a season all about no strings attached fun, mutual pleasure, and getting to experience another person physically or in some sensual sexual form for a set amount of time. Typically, cuffing season ends when winter does.
So if you’re a good communicator who can fuck without catching feelings, a proud slut who enjoys flings, or someone experimenting with hookups, the time is right for sexual exploration. Is that a good definition for everybody? Except does it really need to end ever? You know what, that’s a good question. And no, it doesn’t.
If you and the other person are having a great time, you guys can work out those details, you know, as it starts to warm up. Or at least that’s what I’ve heard. I love that.
Wonderful. Well, if this was something, do any of the mistresses here engage in cuffing season? I know Demi does, but does anyone else? I’d be cuffing them every season. Hell yeah.
Yeah, it’s not like just a fall thing. I didn’t know that’s what it was, but yes. Fall on that dick.
Rebecca. That’s the spirit, though. A dick fall on me.
That is the spirit, though. Oops, he slip and fell right inside of me. It was strictly accidental.
That’s a shame. Over in the chat room for the show, Ivy said, I always took cuffing season to mean also monogamous, singular partner. How boring.
Is my assumption wrong? Not at all. If that’s how you like to get down, that’s how you get down. Some people have a rotation.
I know I did one year. I had a rotation. You got to have a rotation.
You got to keep it fresh. Variety is the spice of life. Bring me two of them.
A little strange. Maximize. Maximalism.
Sounds like there’s another question. Wait, is this like an established thing? That’s what Patty is asking. I thought it was like a talk like a pirate day kind of fun, but only a niche amount of people know about it.
This is like, yeah, it’s a thing. It’s a thing. It’s definitely a thing.
I did not know about talk like a pirate day. Now I do. What day is that? Could anyone tell me? What day is it? Someone put it in the chat.
Hi, matey. What’s a pirate’s favorite letter? R. R. R. R. R. September 19th. September 19th.
Well, we didn’t miss that. So much for that fun. We missed talk like a pirate day.
That would have been fun. We should do that next year. We should.
I think we should. and man, it’d be awesome if it fell on a Friday because we could just spend the whole episode. This year, so it won’t next.
All right, Jinx did. Well, no, I have some wood. I’ll knock on it, hold on.
There we go. Curse removed. Jinx removed.
Yay. Well, now that I know that there are some mistresses in here who also take part in cupping season and I’ll pose this question to the audience as well. But what are some things that you look for in a good cuff buddy? Just in case you guys need some inspiration.
The things I look for are people who like to watch the same things that I do because I love a little, what do they call it, Netflixing and chilling. Oh yeah. I love a little bit of that during cupping season.
Also somebody who has a decent taste in music. It doesn’t have to be exactly mine, but I like sharing playlists and stuff. And we’re gonna get to that too.
Let’s see. Somebody who has good neck and mouth skills because those are so necessary. And I love me a good sub who’ll let me engage in some fun femdom cock control.
But what are some things you guys look for? Big dick. I insist on having cock control. Big dick, yes.
That’s what I want for my cupping partner. That’s a good one. That should go at the top of the list.
Yeah. Not too big though, because, whew, but that’s just me. But Becky, I love that.
And what did you say, Hadley? Oh. I said I insist on cock control. And Demi and I have talked about this before, but I agree.
Like I’ve got, Demi’s got a minimum and I’ve kind of got a maximum. And those two things are like pretty much at the same crossroads. So, you know, one of us will have something to do with you.
I mean, I do have a bottom threshold too, don’t get me wrong, but too much dick is too much dick. Too much dick is too much dick. I mean, a variety of dick is nice.
I agree. Oh, a variety. Yeah.
Don’t get it twisted. I love a variety. Man, that spice there, there’s just some spiciness in there.
I love it. I want- Give me a small dick in that rotation too. I also want strong arms.
I want somebody that can, when it’s time for him to take control, I want him to be able to do that. However, I do like that cock control part of it too, to where he has to submit in order to be able to take control. Yes, girl.
Krista, you want somebody who can, with those strong hands? I want strong hands and strong arms. I got kind of, kind of got spoiled. I was with a Marine for many, many years and well, fuck.
I still fuck him every chance I get and he’s an ex-husband. That is such a sweet setup, girl. So your cuffing seasons are, you never have to worry about going cold on cuffing seasons.
Well, right now I have actually found a cowboy up here that I’m kind of having some fun with. Ooh, ride him. Yes.
Oh, yes. Cowgirl time. Cowgirl up, girls.
Save a horse. Oh, and just so you know, I also have a cowgirl that I’m playing with. I’m going to do.
Get it, Bessie. Yes, girl. And she knows how to rope and ride, if you know what I mean.
She be hog tying you the cuffing season, Krista. Well, she hasn’t branded me yet, so I guess that’s a plus. So early.
Yeah, it’s still early. We still got a month, huh? Well, it goes on until the end of winter, so. Oh, I thought you said it went until, I thought you said it went until winter.
Oh. It ends when spring happens. Oh, well shit, we’re good then.
Stay warm then. Yummy, yummy. I was about to say, this sounds like the kind of thing that y’all northern people do.
Yeah. I’m too far south. It’s hot as shit down here, and the idea of being like, yeah, come live with me for a while.
That’s why they make air conditioning. Girl, they don’t live with me. I send them home.
Yeah. I’ll put that out. They don’t get to live here, but you’re going home in the morning.
Sorry, bye, baby. Hell, morning, nothing. You’re going home as soon as I’m done with you.
I saw a post from one of the social media accounts that I follow, and she was saying, look, the hobosexuals are out in force. Yes. Because she shared a picture of some guy who on a dating app was like, so I’m currently homeless, but I’m looking for somebody because it’s getting cold out here.
Oh my goodness. That’s the guy I’m looking for. They’re not catching strays.
No. Yeah, yeah. No.
No. Her advice was don’t- Walk out on the porch and, you know. Right.
And she was like, don’t let them spend the night because he’s just gonna fucking move in with you and you’ll never get rid of him. Oh my God. Have you guys ever had that before? They’ve tried it.
No. They’ve tried it, but they never succeed. I have not.
Girl, uh-uh. I’ve had some attempts, but never, no. Hell no.
I don’t even like them to stay too long. I don’t like them to stay the night. Exactly.
Yeah, it’s like, go now. I’m done with you. Like the thought of- Like I said, when I’m done with them, it’s time to go.
Yes. How? Like the thought of cuddling and being held all night long and like, you know, all cozy. Like the thought’s nice, but the reality is not.
Sabby. I do the cuddling free. I do the free cuddling.
And then we do our business and then you need to get dressed, get in your car and go. Or truck or catch a cab. I don’t give a fuck.
Just go. You know, I gotta be real. I sometimes, if it’s, I’m good at picking the cuff buddies.
So for me, I wanna get it in, in the morning one more time, or maybe two, cause I wanna do it again when we wake up and then again in the shower. And that’s typically when I send them on. Yeah.
It’s a whole load. Yeah, I have to really like you. I have to really like you to say that.
And I love that part of it. You’re so cute. Here’s breakfast now.
You gotta go now. Have fun. I wasn’t saying that it had to be in the middle of the night.
I was just when I’m done with him, he has to go. Oh no, if it takes breakfast to get a guy out the door, he’s getting it in a to-go container. Well, I want them to see me at least one more time before they get on.
So that’s breakfast right there. I don’t know. I’m watching the chat.
I’m watching the chat right now and I don’t know if Harper can see it, but there’s some straight up Texas slander going on. Oh no. It’s not slander.
Texas is hot. It was 80 degrees yesterday. I mean, this weather has been bullshit.
Yeah, I was gonna say, if the slander hits the troops. Again, that’s why they make the air conditioning. Prisoner said, anybody who wants to live in Texas deserves to.
Hey, I’m thinking about moving away. I mean, I was born in Texas. You know, like I got family down here.
Right. But also it is really stupidly hot. The high today was 84.
There is high. So yeah, this is bullshit. This is absolute bull.
It’s not usually this hot in November. Fucking climate change. I grew up in the Keys in a little area that is actually the armpit of Florida.
So fuck, it was hot. Oh my God. Grassy Key is the armpit of Florida.
I’m gonna say it out loud. Grassy Key is the armpit of Florida. I will tell you that absolute worst place to live is Plaquemine Parish in Louisiana.
It’s right on the border with Texas and right across the border into Texas is Beaumont. I have so many relatives in Beaumont. Don’t live there.
It’s too close to Plaquemine. Just don’t. Anywhere other than there.
I had to write that down so I can remember that because wow, that is a scathing like no, don’t go here. Yeah. You could actually add Ouachita Parish as well to that, which is Monroe, which is where the Duck Dynasty people are from.
That is another just, actually that’s not the armpit. That would be the crotch of Louisiana. It smells like it too.
Hey, Bianca. Hi, Bianca. Bianca.
Hey. I’m so glad you could make it, girl. Yeah.
Well, I’ll pose this question to you, Ms. Bianca, and you can answer in the chat if you want to or not, but do you take part in cuffing season? Just let us know in the chat. I’m curious to know. Also, did anybody have any other qualities that make a good cuffing buddy for this lovely time of year? If you can hear me.
Yes, you’re reading my mind, Harper. I was just about to say that. Cook and clean and massages are really nice.
I love a good massage. Oh, God, yeah. And my cuffing season is up north.
And because of that, I want my cuffing partner to actually be able to ride as well because it is fun to go out, like to the cabin, and take a horse out there. So that’s kind of fun. Ooh.
That is a great picture. You’ll never get that kind of picture. What are the little lines for the booty? Is that a fart or is that hair? Is it stink lines? Stink lines.
That’s just the odor coming off of Louisiana and New Orleans. Oh my goodness. Or Nolans, as they call it down there.
Let’s see. Plaquemine is bright in the butt cheek crease. You see where that little bit where it says Houston? There’s a straight line right there.
That’s where Plaquemine is. It’s a butt cheek crease. Kitting Bull said Hurricane Alley.
Oh my God. That is great. That’s exactly what it is.
Well, I would be from right where the, probably where the little slit of the dick would be. That’s where I am. No, I’m at like the, just shy of the slit.
Yeah. Well, I’d be in the keys area, which is a little bit further down, but yeah. All the booty comes out of.
It looks like we’ve got a question in the chat about cuffing season. I guess we’re just frying poor Patty’s brain here. Oh, great.
I know, right? It would not be a good episode if we did not fry Patty’s brain out a little bit. No more. They’re asking, what is the, are we looking for one night stands or longer term partners? Because what y’all talked about.
Okay. It’s what you and the people that you want to do. To do this with make it.
So like a big part of cuffing season is taking the time to like hammer out what you each expect and how, where you want this to go. Is there some leeway at the end of this where you guys want to, you know, potentially turn it into something different, you know, something longer, like a relationship, like an actual full on committed situation, or is this just for the time being? So it really is up to the people who are doing this. So the consent matters and you guys kind of hammering out your boundaries.
That is a big part of this. Yeah. And we’re done with them.
That’s just totally me. We’re going to Elizabeth’s and one night stand or a long-term partner. I like my space.
That would be a situation that would happen regardless of me. But like Meshelle said, it is talking with the other person or people and figuring out what works for you. Yeah, and I understand like this is, this concept may not be for everybody, but it is one of those things that like, as a horny slut, I kind of like.
I enjoy it. And especially love it if the other person is kinky because we get to get into all kinds of kinky fun until it gets warm again. The best.
See, I think I accidentally do cuffing season all year long or because I don’t really do anything special for the fall. It doesn’t inspire me to be like, and now I need a partner because I don’t. It doesn’t work that way in the warm climates.
We’re just constantly fucking. I mean, like cuddling does sound nicer when it’s cool, like cuddling in Texas in the summer. No.
I can barely stand to let you touch me long enough for us to fuck before I’m like, okay, now I’m too hot, get off. Goonat Doll said that you can do sweaty kinky fun. You can do some water socks.
You slip and slide. I thought that’s what it was called whenever I wrote someone’s face, but hey. Sex version, storing coordinates for the winter.
Fucking in the pool can be an awful lot of fun, but if they’ve recently done the chlorine in the pool and then you have sex in there, it can kick off a year. It can mess with your bodily pH levels and kick off a lovely yeast infection. Ask me how I know.
Saltwater. Saltwater pools are so much better. Hot, humid weather is the reason that doggy style was invented.
I fucking agree. I believe that, yes. Cold showers are great.
Using ice cubes. I love me some temperature, like sensory play. That’s always good.
But the, okay, so back in college, missionary, I was on my back, the guy’s over me, and he’s sweating, and it dripped on me. Oh, y’all don’t like that? Okay. Oh no.
Yeah, I’ve got PTSD about people sweating on me. I’m just like, no, I’m sorry. No.
If they’re not sweating, then they’re not doing it. It was the dripping. The dripping.
I don’t know why I’m sweating. Grab a towel. He can lay down.
Yeah, that feels assaultive. Yeah, like on a towel. He can lay down, and I will ride him, because if I drip on him, I don’t give a shit.
But if he drips on me, I don’t like that. Yeah. Yeah, I can, honestly, I will lick sweat drops off somebody’s face.
I will. But that’s because it’s my choice. I want gravity to be the decider.
Right. Well, you know, I have a place down in Mississippi as well. It gets asshole hot down there.
And I just added an extra air conditioning unit in my bedroom. I’ve got central hair. Yeah, central hair.
I got central air. And I actually put in a window unit as well, because I wanted ice cold. So you have to make some friction.
See, yeah, I was gonna say, I like the people sweating on me. I enjoy it quite a bit. But that’s my horny ass again.
And I think, Krista, you know I’m a bit of a freak, right? Like- No, not you. There’s not one of us in this room that would fall into that freak category. I know, because we’re all such chaste, virtuous women.
We’re always behaving ourselves. So cutesy, so demure. And we’re all good liars, too, by the sound of it.
Mindful. You know, if a guy does start sweating on us, we like just pull out that dainty little hanky, and we’re like, here you go. Clean that up.
Just dab right there. I just let him. What I’ve done is just, you know, my panties are right there.
Wipe your face. Oh, yes. MacGyver that shit, yes.
Yeah, you know, right there they are. You know, you wanna smell them anyway, you freak. So go ahead.
See, I like it when the guy’s messy. I don’t wanna be messy, though. I feel you.
I really don’t wanna be sticky. Yeah. I like being messy after sex.
Okay, so. You like being messy during sex, Misha. That, too.
Felicia French Fry, cream pies are one thing, but I draw the line at sweat. Yes. Exactly.
So demure. I love that. So ladylike, yes.
So proper. So prim. Thank you for that, Felicia.
You’re not sure you fully love a person if you don’t like their sweat smell, at least a little bit. It edited right in the middle when I was reading it. Yes.
I was like, whoa, that changed. Even sometimes. That only goes so far, you know? My thing is I’m always afraid that their sweat’s gonna drop down into my eyes.
That’s exactly right. That’s my thing with them dripping on me. That’s why, wipe that shit off.
I don’t mind you sweating, but damn, don’t be dripping on me. Just don’t drip. It’s uncouth.
And some of it’s about control. I like being in fucking control, and I’m not gonna apologize for that, and I don’t want somebody’s uncontrolled fucking sweat dropping on my face or in my goddamn eyes. There you go.
See? Yes. That’s right. I’m the decider.
Exactly. You’re not allowed to sweat. Just stop it.
No sweating. So what I’m hearing is if you guys would start setting your boundaries and your caveats and your addendums for cuffing season, that would be like the first thing you would tell a person, do not fucking drip your sweat on me. Like that would be a clause in y’all’s cuffing season agreement.
Is that what I’m hearing? I mean, I think that’s what I’m hearing. No, see, I’ve learned at this point that if you let him be on top, he’s going to drip on you. So the answer is I’m on top.
Perfect. I love that. Like, you can sweat, you know, jokes aside.
Sure. Just don’t, I’m not gonna put myself in a position to be dripped on. Exactly.
That’s why the, when I do give up control, it’s not missionary. It’s doggy. You can fuck me.
You can fuck me hard, but you’re not going to be right on top of me. You’re going to do it from behind. Then you don’t have that.
Like a gentleman. Where I don’t have to look at you. Yeah.
I don’t have to see your stupid face. Just smash those caves. I want a lot.
That’s all Krista wants. I want to see all of that. Spend her over and smash those cakes.
Well, and that’s one of my favorite positions anyway. So it just works out, especially when you have somebody that knows how to drive. Truth.
I love the Amazon position. Say it again. The Amazon position.
That’s my favorite. Oh, that’s fun too. It wasn’t strap on or me riding them.
I just, I fucking love it. I like testing it out with riding first, just so that they can like learn to like control themselves. Cause a lot of people that you do that position with, they lose it when you get up there like that, and you’ve got the legs pushed up.
They don’t know what to do. They’re just like, oh my God. So definitely before the strap.
No. Now my all time favorite is the Eiffel Tower. Totally.
I’m just saying, you guys know what you’re doing. The Eiffel Tower is the way to go. You know, all of our listeners are going to be Googling some of these positions.
They’re going to be like, yes, please Google these things. Do it. If you don’t know, you do not know.
Matter of fact, I have a blog about half written of different sexual positions that will be coming out in the next couple of weeks. So you’re going to want to check that out. And there’s going to be some fun artwork with that as well.
Oh my God. I can’t wait to see that one. That is going to be fun.
I love it. Oh yeah. Don’t forget about those blue panties either.
Oh yeah. I’ve already done that. That’s a done deal.
Lovely blue panties. What did you do? That’s a done deal. Don’t we love blue panties y’all? Just can’t get enough of blue panties, blue panties, blue panties.
Matter of fact, that was the very first piece of art I have ever done that I put color in. Oh really? Work with me? Yes, I have never. I actually bought colored pencils just for that piece of art.
I hope that person feels very special. I bet they do. I want points for not asking about what brand it is and for deliberately avoiding asking Ms. Krista if she’s ever tried pastels.
Okay. I have not. I’m a charcoal and pencil girl for the most part.
Not even pastel blue panties? Well, nope. Well, these were done with colored pencils. I bought a nice colored pencil set and I have been trying to work some of that in.
But it’s more of like, you know, those movies that have the black and white deal and then they’ll throw like just a spot of color in? Yes, I love that. That’s kind of what I do with it now. Yes.
Well, I’m trying to do. The blue panties I thought turned out pretty good. It did.
It draws your eye. Not so much. I didn’t do as good a job on the makeup.
But the blue panties turned out good. The blue panties were excellent. I thought it was amazing.
Thank you for that, Krista. Really, that was so kind of you. Well, you know, I kind of owed him after I put him in the corner as a mistake.
That was fucking amazing. Well, before we move on from our cuffing season discussion to our cuffing season playlist discussion, did any of you guys have any advice to anybody who is participating in cuffing season this year that maybe you’d like to impart because we’re all such wise mistresses and goddesses? Crickets. I would.
Go ahead. I was laughing because there was all that big silence. It was pretty funny.
Advice about, what was the advice about? About cuffing season. If this is something that you all do. Or maybe just for casual dalliances altogether because honestly, I really think you should be confident in yourself before you do anything like this.
If you’re not really good with processing your feelings, maybe this isn’t something you should do. But I encourage anybody who does have a good handle on their own feelings and can do things like this without catching them or being like completely bowled over by them. You should definitely, definitely participate in cuffing season.
But if not, sit on the bench and consider it a little bit. Bianca in the chat says, just enjoy and set boundaries and limits accordingly. Yeah.
Love this. Yes. Me, love that advice.
Now, my advice about what, sorry. No, go ahead. I was just gonna say, be honest about what you’re looking for.
Like Patty brought up a good point. Like, hey, is this casual one night stand or is this like, you know, are we trying to start a relationship? And the answer to that question is yes. It depends on what you are looking for and be honest about what you are looking for.
And Ms. Krista, take it away. I was gonna say, do a test run. Don’t just say, well, this is gonna be my cuffing partner.
Check him out first or her, whatever. Or them, yeah. A couple test runs before you decide, you know what, I think I wanna, you know, spend a colder time of year with these people.
And I say these people because I’m not gonna just have one. Hear, hear. I do have, I do have advice, it turns out.
For people who want to try things like cuffing season and, you know, fucking around and being a fuck boy, it’s okay to be picky. Like, if you’re using a dating app and somebody says or does something on there and you’re like, ew, nevermind, unmatch. Like, life is short, no.
Do not twist yourself into a weird shape for some dude that you might fuck once. Like, yeah, be picky. You’re allowed, you’re allowed to be picky.
Unless you’re one of those little guys that, you know, you don’t have a whole lot that you’re working with, you can’t be as picky. You’ve got to pretty much just go with whatever you can find, sweetie. That’s when you find a pair of blue lace panties.
Yes, yes. Then you can be picky again because then you’re actually going after the guys and then you’re not gonna be able to find when you’re one of us girls and you can be picky again. But as long as you’re just that little bitty guy with that tiny little pecker, sweetie, you can’t be very picky.
You’ve got to take what you can get. Like, if you’re on the apps and you want to be like, hello, I’m a cocksucker and I would like to lick a dick, then yeah, you can be picky. You can be like, that one’s too small and that one looks like it is mold and this one is a weird rash, what the fuck? Like, you could be picky.
Absolutely. Yes, you will find, oh no, that one’s no good. If you put it on there, hey, I’m looking for a dick to suck.
Send me pics. Trust me. Oh, you’re gonna get a bunch of them.
Oh, I promise you that. All shapes and sizes, friends. You’re probably gonna get cock fished more than once too.
I love that word. Bring your measuring tape because bitches be lying. I don’t need this.
Oh, no. This shit, I don’t know how big six inches is. They’re like, oh, I’ve got eight inches.
And I’m like. No, you don’t, girl, what is this? Did you get your measuring tape off of Timu? Like, cause I think it’s not accurate, buddy. Missing some inches there.
Inches or something. Oh my gosh. You know, there’s that thing where, you know, guys tell you that he’s gonna give you eight inches of the dick and you have to ask him, what are you gonna do, fuck me four times? Right? So, I actually read that on average, guys will add about an inch and a half to two inches.
So, I usually just kind of subtract whatever they tell me. And yeah. I mean, you kind of have to.
Yeah. There you go, guys. This is what really happens.
That was some exceptional cupping season wisdom. And I will compile a list of all the wisdom that the mistresses shared. I love this, Krista.
Thank you so much for that. I feel like that’s a good note to- She looks unsatisfied. Very unsatisfied.
Like, so disappointed. That is like the greatest meme ever when it comes to that topic. And he’s passed out, of course.
Of course. Why wouldn’t he be? Bitch. That’s also why my other rule for hookups, I come first.
And second and third. Yes. Orgasm before they get one.
At least one. I at least get one orgasm, you know? Because the number of times it’s like this guy and he’s cute and he’s got a nice dick and he seems like he’s cool and he nuts and falls asleep. You little fucker.
Yeah. I think everybody should try. Cuffing season.
It’s a lot of fun. It really is. And to aid you in your cuffing season quest, if you decide to engage in this this year, I’m gonna go around and ask the ladies on the panel tonight and the girl gang, what songs do you guys have on your cuffing season playlists? I’m gonna go grab mine real quick because I have one that I just absolutely love.
Ooh. I didn’t know we had homework. Shit.
Yeah. Homework. I just thought everybody has like a banging, you know, a banger jam that they play when they fuck.
Ooh. Oh. So I will put mine in the chat.
It’s, what is it? It’s called Cuff It by Beyonce and it’s her wetter remix of the song. And it is a bop. And I think everybody should put it on their playlist.
Ooh, nice. So I’ll share it here in the chat. Okay.
I love that Prisoner jumped out with Stroke It by Clarence Carter. That’s a good one. That’s a bop, definitely.
Yeah. Definitely, definitely. Billy’s Fire and Stroke.
You know, that’s another one, but no. What was that, Hadley? There’s a song by a band called The Outfield. It’s your love.
I just want to use your love tonight. I don’t want to lose your love tonight. Oh, I love that song.
That’s a good one, Hadley. Yeah. There we go.
Ooh, I love the one you shared, Miss Becky. That’s a great song. Freak like me.
That’s what I want for a cuffing partner. Hell yes. Ooh, I see you, Miss Bianca, Nasty Girl by Vanity.
That is a good one. Ooh, me and Goddess Demi are on that Goddess wavelength with Beyonce tonight. Girl, we’re right there.
Yes. Ooh, I like what you posted, Ma, In Vogue. Never Gonna Give It.
I love that. Awesome song. Oh, ooh, Krista.
Loving this. The whole album is great. Krista’s got a album, not a playlist.
I love that. Really love that. Bye, Miss Bianca.
It was nice having you on. Did she already bounce? It looks like she did. I’m just gonna pull up my playlist as well because I have a bunch of playlists for a bunch of different things.
And I’ve got one for banging because sometimes you just need the rhythm. It helps. Oh, yes.
I love Glass Animals. If you haven’t discovered them yet, definitely check them out. So good.
Prisoner with Barry White. Yeah, Barry White’s pretty good. He’s pretty dope.
Anything Evanescence is a lot of fun too, especially on a cold night where you’re kind of doing that snuggle, fuck, snuggle, drink, snack, fuck, snuggle. I like it. Yep.
Sounds like you saw my itinerary for the weekend, Krista. Oh, that’s my Tuesday night. What are you talking about? Absolutely.
I love it. I also have a playlist for like building an atmosphere because to me, I feel like cuffing season gives me this really great opportunity to create an experience. Ooh, yes.
And I love creating experiences with people. It’s why I love doing what I do here with Enchantrix. Ma, just because you hear clapping does not mean that they’re clapping for your performance.
Sweet. The thing, Pillow Talk was a good one. Oh, Take Me to Church.
Oh, yes. I think Pillow Talk is so good. Yes, it is.
Just trying to find a way. I give up on doing links because when I did it just went to playing and I know it played over. Ooh, I like that too.
Haunted. That is another good one, Demi. Ooh, that is.
You just bringing out all the good Beyonce bangers, Demi. Love it. Oh, I found by complete accident a bunch of dirty songs.
Ooh, do tell. By accident, really? Yeah, I was actually on YouTube and there was this one that come up and I had to, damn it, don’t do it, don’t do it. God damn it.
But anyway, yeah, sorry. I was looking at something, it was a country song and then this one come up and I have to post it because there’s a whole list of these songs. Oh my gosh, I remember when you posted this.
I about died laughing. Not so much for cuffing, but it would be in between when you wanna laugh or whatever. Oh, these are great.
And there’s a whole bunch of them. There’s a whole list. That singer looks like Zendaya.
Does she not? Oh, yeah. Yeah, that thumbnail. I would do her.
Did you see what Harper posted? Uh-oh. Release. I love it.
She has no dick in my nightstand. Hell yeah. Oh, I love that.
Yeah. You’ll see. No, that’s what it was.
I was looking for that to give to somebody and it come up. All these other good songs come up. I just got another one.
Something to do with the guy being a horrible fuck. Don’t lie to him, tell him the truth. What I like to listen to for sex is like dubstep or EDM, electronic dance music, because the words will distract me.
And then I’m like, oh, this is a good one. I’ll start singing. So stuff like Afro Celt Sound System is perfect because you can put on the whole entire album and just be like, all right, try to keep up.
Oh my God. Hey, at least they will come out of cupping season with like stamina. They will.
Great glutes. Yes. Fantastic glutes.
Thighs just ripped to hell. Yes. Becky, Becky introduced me to the Ray Corbett Foundation and I love them so much.
And if you’re worried about actually hearing the words, you could always go with industrial metal for just getting pounded because you can’t understand anything they’re saying anyway. Love it. It has to have like 160 beats per minute with a good driving baseline.
And yeah. Yeah, I love it. Double bass genres.
Some songs would be fabulous because I would love to put these on the playlist. Oh God. So I shared one from Afro Celt, which.
Yes. So basically everything they’ve ever done is really, really good. Oh, I love this.
We’ve got some albums to put on the playlist. That’ll be great. This is going to be a long playlist, but cupping season’s a long time.
So this is great. It’s forever. Well, if you guys want to keep putting songs and things like that in the chat, I will absolutely add them to a playlist and I will share that this weekend.
I can’t give an exact day yet because I don’t know how long it’s going to take me, but I will get it done. This was a lot of fun. I enjoyed talking about cuffing season.
Oh my God. It was fantastic. And if you don’t have like a cuffing season partner, you can always call one of us.
I mean, we’re currently in the midst of retro pricing because it is LDW’s 23rd anniversary. So, you know, gorge yourself on some calls with us girls. We would be happy to chit chat with you and, you know, get into some cuffing behavior, some femdom cock control during the session.
And while we’re on the topic of plugging some of our fun phone sex type things, did any of you guys have anything going on for the remainder of November that you’d like to plug or let the audience know about? And if you- I actually have a quick announcement. Awesome. I just wanted to let people know, sadly, I’m taking vacation starting the 25th.
So I will be away until the 1st and I’m going to go ahead and skip Kinkologies day after Thanksgiving episode. Cause you know, fuck that noise. Enjoy your Thanksgiving.
Thank you for listening, everyone. You’re gonna have the best time, girl. So just- Yes, I know.
I have- Very nice. So the 25th is actually my two year anniversary. So I’m gonna do something.
I don’t know what I’m gonna do, but look at my blog on the 25th and find out what it is. It’ll be a surprise for all of us. Oh, nice.
I like surprises. Including Miss Demi. Including me.
I was about to say, it’s a surprise for you too. Uh-huh, cause I have no fucking clue what I’m gonna do, but I want to do something fun, so. Well, we will put a pin in that.
Yes, the 25th. Yeah. And also, anytime you see- Oh, what were you gonna say, Becky? I just happened to remember that we also have our next Mistress Hot Seat scheduled.
We’re having Mistress Erica join us from the Weekly Hotspot. So that’s gonna be really fun. And hold on one second.
I’m going to post the graphic and the link. Yes. And ask away on the questions.
The last Hot Seat, you all did wonderful. Some really thoughtful, good questions. Yeah.
We want more of that. It was a gas, and Demi, you killed it. So I’m excited to hear what Mistress Erica has to say.
Oh, yeah. That’s gonna be so fun. And I’m hosting that night.
Yay. Ooh, great. Yes, girl.
And I have, you know, just my normal announcements. Every Saturday, I want you all, everybody that’s here, come join me for Kinks and Drinks. Goddess Meshelle will be with us this week.
And we’re gonna be talking about sissy humiliation techniques, some public humiliation tasks, verbal triggers, and then we’re gonna dive deeper into what is a good blow job. Tomorrow at nine. Love it.
Nice. Well, if, oh, what was that? I said, nice. Very nice.
Just nice. It’s just sociopathic kinks. Oh, yeah.
If they’re not sociopathic, why would we even talk about them? I know, right? There’s no risk to life. What is it worth? Well, I would like to thank everyone for joining us for yet another Femme Dom Friday. It was so fun talking about cuffing season with you all.
Just to put a fine point on things, you can find us live every Friday at 9 p.m. Eastern Standard Time in the Enchantrix Empire Discord server. You must be 18 or older to join. Keep an eye out on our blog site, femmedomfridays.com or in our Femme Dom Fridays chat channel here in the Discord server to see our teaser, which comes out between Monday and Wednesday to let you know what the topic is and who the hostess will be that week.
Again, thank you all for joining us. We hope to see you next week. Keep an eye out for the podcast, the replay of this episode, and we’ll see you next week.
You all have a wonderful night and thank you panel for showing up tonight. This was so much fun. Thank you for having me.
I’ll stick to talking about cuffing. Yeah. Yay.
Always a pleasure. You all have a good night. Good night, everybody.
Bye. Nighty night. Bye, everyone.
