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Impact Play with Goddess Meshelle
I wanted to welcome everyone to our Friday the 13th edition of Femdom Friday during this lovely Rune June. And I hope everybody is doing well today. How are you ladies doing? Wonderful.
I’m doing lovely. Excellent. Wonderful.
Fantastic. Fantastic. Well, today’s Friday.
Yes. I love Femdom Fridays. This is like my favorite day of the week for so many reasons.
But it’s also just fun hanging out with you ladies. For sure. We do laugh a lot.
Yeah, we do. We have a good time. Well, today we are going to talk about some fun factoids about Friday the 13th.
We’re also going to talk about impact play. And I’m going to grill Miss Hadley in the hot seat because she’s our mistress hot seat guest today. Everyone say hi to Hadley.
Hi Hadley. Hello lovelies. You guys, she said everybody say hello.
Hello there. Hello. So lovely to hear all your beautiful voices.
Would you all mind introducing yourselves? Starting with Miss Becky, B. Becky. B. Becky. I love that.
So I am Miss Becky. You can find me at intelligentphonesexcalls.com. You can also find kinkology, the psychology of kink podcast over on cockradio.com. And I have to give Patty the sissy a shout out because he said ruined orgasm. The orgasm foretold by an ancient carvings in a temple deep in the jungle.
Yes. That is excellent. I see that Miss Bianca is here.
Would you mind introducing yourself? Just saying hello to the audience. Hello, I’m Bianca. You can find me and message me ldwbianca and I’ll be around.
Yay. Thank you so much for being here. It’s always good to see you.
Oh yes. And I’ll be on horse for the Sunday at midnight with Harper. Well, that’s a perfect segue.
Miss Harper, could you introduce yourself to our audience and say hello? Oh my goodness. Hello. I’m Harper.
You worship me. You’re welcome. You can find my blog fetishphonesexblog.com. Earlier today, in fact, I had Miss Hadley write something for me.
I put a link over in the chat. You can go look at that. It’s all about the need for sissies to have long sissy nails.
A prisoner said midnight. I thought it started at 11 and correct on the East Coast. Horse School is my live adult sex education podcast.
It runs from 11 to midnight on the East Coast. It’s eight to nine on the West Coast. If you’re somewhere in between, figure it out, bitch.
Horse School is an awful lot of fun. You should definitely join us. And I promise I only call you bitch out of like a reclamatory pride vibe.
Thank you for that amazing introduction, Miss Harper. Moving on to Miss Hadley, our hot seat mistress. Would you mind introducing yourself? Well, hello.
Glad to be here. I am Miss Hadley. You can, for now, find me at Harper’s blog, where I have taken over.
Coming up sometime in the nearish future, you will be able to find me at IWillDominateYou.com. Oh, I look forward to that. Thanks. You can also find me in the FemDom Fridays blog.
I have a little thing I did over there the other day about the pussy free lifestyle. My thoughts on that. That was an excellent blog post.
Thank you. It’s fun to write. And Hunter and I have a whole bunch of stuff in the assignments, along with my single-use DIY banana sleeve, which I love to hear about when people have their banana experience.
Those are fun stories. So that’s what I’m doing. That’s what I’m up to.
Awesome. Well, that’s a great segue. Miss Hunter, would you please introduce yourself and say hello to our audience? Sure.
I’m Hunter. And I have to say that gives new meaning to show me your banana, Hadley. Anyway, you can find me at IntelligentFantasies.com, ComeEatingFantasies.com. And I have a radio show on Thursday nights, 8pm Eastern on Cock Radio called Hanging with Hunter to show about everything and nothing.
Unfortunately, I had no internet yesterday, so I had to cancel it. And for two weeks, I’ve been actually having a plan. I never plan anything.
And I think that’s why I’ve had trouble. So I think I’m not planning anything. We’re going back to just doing whatever happens.
Also, I’m Mistress of the Month for June. So if you call me this month, you get five free minutes added to your call. I think that’s everything.
Thank you, Hunter. Miss K. Marie, would you mind introducing yourself and saying hello to our audience? Hey, everyone. Hello.
Happy Friday. I’m Miss K. Marie, the Mistress of More and your mistress after hours. I too host one of the midweek shows.
Remember, I kick the week off on Tuesdays at eight. I have happy hour. And like everyone else, my show’s about nothing.
Yes, my show is absolutely about nothing. I know everybody else during the week, during the weekends, you guys are all like, have a plan. I have no plan.
My chat room is completely, it’s, it’s, yeah, it’s chaos. It’s whatever. It’s whatever, you know, like we do, we do whatever.
Half the time it’s, they’re making a poll on how long it takes me to Google something, you know. Isn’t that nice when your audience roasts you? Oh, they do. It’s like, you do realize I’m in charge here.
They’re like, no, you’re not. Thank you so much for introducing yourself, K. Marie. Yes, you’re welcome.
Thank you for having me. Happy Friday, everyone. Thank you.
It is Pride Month. Happy Pride, everybody. Especially Ms. Krista, would you mind introducing yourself? How come especially Ms. Krista? I am Ms. Krista.
And my, you can find me at phonesexfetishblog.com. And I did just post a new blog post about cooking. And there is some fun artwork with it as well. So I encourage you to go check it out.
Yes, and make sure you check out her drink for tonight. Oh, I’m posting it as we speak. And also to come very soon will be another blog about sissification.
Oh, look forward to that, everybody. And of course, there’ll be artwork with it as well. Of course, you have to give us a feast for the eyes to go with that drink, right? Well, there’s the drink.
I just posted it in the chat. And it is called the Impacted Orgasm. Oh, fuck.
Yeah. Right. Totally goes delicious.
Is that ruined orgasms cousin? Sorry, I had to ask. I think it’s his brother on his mother’s side. I just love that you said that because you’re like, because I’m a hick.
And that’s the way. Well, I am a southern girl. So no, I love that.
I actually, you know what, I have a vodka that’s that would actually go with that drink. But I was like, Oh, but there’s like 100% chance of wine tonight. So I was like, but that actually does look like a good one.
Oh, it’s pretty good. Yeah, it looks fabulous. Of wine, things that are fine.
Miss Demi, would you mind introducing yourself to the audience? And saying hello. Hello, I am Demi and you can find me at sensualcocktease.com. Happy Friday. Yes.
And happy Friday to everyone. Thank you so much, everybody, for those awesome introductions. You guys know where to find these ladies.
Go look them up. But in the interim, we’re going to talk about Friday the 13th. Yay, Friday.
Love Friday. So just so you know, you all know Friday the 13th occurs in any month that begins on a Sunday. This happens at least once a year, every year, and can occur up to three times in the same year.
For instance, this year, 2025, 2021, and 2022, each had only one Friday the 13th, while 2023 and 2024 each had two. The fear of Friday the 13th is called paraschiva decatriophobia. And it wasn’t a well documented occurrence until the 19th century, when the number 13 in Friday became synonymous with bad luck.
I want to hear you say that word three times fast, though. Right. Again.
What was that name again? Yes. Paraschiva decatriophobia. I have the fear of saying that word.
Love it. Thank you. I’m so glad you all are appreciating that I’m a cunning linguist.
Love that tongue play too. Hey, if you screw up, Harper will fix it for you. As she did for me, which I love her for that.
Because I fumbled and she, yeah, she fixed it for me. So we have another cunning linguist with us tonight. Yes, yes, she will have your back.
She’ll probably have your front too, which is a very good thing. Yes. Now the association with the Friday the 13th being a bad thing, some believe that it may have had something to do with the Knights Templar being arrested on Friday, October 13, 1307.
But it happened such a long time ago, people aren’t really sure. But many historians, especially American ones, trace the unlucky connection to the 1907 publication of T.W. Lawson’s popular novel Friday the 13th. It’s the story of an unscrupulous Wall Street broker who uses the superstition to stir up stark market panic in order to get rich.
Doesn’t that sound nasty? Sounds like something they do today. Yeah, right. See, history doesn’t repeat.
It rhymes, it seems. Boo, Wall Street brokers, boo. I’m with y’all on that.
The number 13 has always been associated with bad luck. However, due to but not limited to the following reasons. In Norse mythology, there was a feast held between 12 gods and Loki, the god of mischief and disorder, was kind of upset because he was left out of the mix.
So he showed up and all his bluster and glory caused a ruckus and one of the dinner guests died during the meal. Thus making 13 an unlucky number for social engagement. It is also believed that Judas Iscariot was the 13th dinner guest at the last supper.
So that could have something to do with the number 13 being associated with bad luck. I wanted to throw that question to the mistresses. Do you all know of any other 13 bad number 13 associations that are negative? I personally love Friday the 13th.
So I don’t, I find it to be a very lucky, prosperous day for me. And like, take it for, you know, for today. I had a great day.
Had a great day. Started slamming whiskeys around 2 p.m. Having a ball. Friday the 13th has been good to me.
Got to TikTok. I got to, oh, I got TikToked by Hadley. Oh, Friday the 13th was so good to me.
I’m so glad to hear that because I associate Friday the 13th with a lot of positive things, which I will share soon. But due to the negative connotations with the number 13, in the West, we don’t have the 13th floor in our hospitals. I learned this today.
Oh, what was that? That’s fucking crazy. Or hotels. Yeah, we did.
Yeah. Yes, and there’s very rarely a room 13 if it’s a single floor. That fear seems to run deep with the number 13.
I also learned today that if you’re planning a wedding, consider saving the date for Friday the 13th because venues are historically cheaper if you book on that day, if you book your event for that day. Same with flights. There’s something else that’s cheaper on Friday the 13th, too.
Do you know what it is? Tattoos. You tell. Tattoo parlors will run specials for Friday the 13th.
Now, honestly. The one that used to do a $13 special, but you only got to pick off of one sheet of flash and it, you know, it was a limited selection, but hey, you could get a tattoo. I’m not superstitious, but I would not get a fucking tattoo on Friday the 13th.
I would not. I am so superstitious and I so would like, I mean, but great for marketing. Good for them.
Yeah, I was going to say excellent promotional work there, people. And you know this. I’m such a swifty.
Taylor loves the number 13. Really? Yes. Yes.
Yes. Yeah. I love it.
I love hearing that. See, Roberta, I only buy dildos on the 13th. First of all, that’s a fucking lie.
I bet that’s a lie. I bet that bitch buys dildos every day of the month. Demi, what do you think, Demi? I know for me, I have to work extra just to afford my toys.
I wish, I see, I wish I could plan to go shopping on Friday the 13th. By the 13th, I’m always like almost tapped out, so. Yeah, right.
I have to stay in that life. Wow, it lasts that long for you? They need to do Friday the 13th. I’m frugal.
Your girl knows how to stretch a buck. Dildo sale. Like a Friday the 13th dildo sale.
I would be here for it. That’s a great idea. Yeah.
Well, my little town, there were two places. I just happened to see it because I had to take the fluffernutter to the groomers, so I saw it today. There were not one, but two bars that had specials today that were all 13th.
And the one bar had like the 13th shot was free, so if you were buying shots and doing stuff, so it was like random stuff. 13th one you buy or the 13th one you drink? Yeah, it was like random, so you didn’t know. Oh, the 13th, okay, got it.
Yeah, so there was all sorts of things. But they had all sorts of Friday the 13th type specials and things like that. They do try to market.
It seems like a kind of a good way to get people to buy things. To do things, yeah. Now, if I live- That’s that fear thing, isn’t it, where they’re using your fear to get you to shop? Because of the area I live in, they wouldn’t market Taylor Swift, but Taylor Swift is huge.
13 is a big, huge part, and it always has been because she was born on the 13th, so it’s a big, huge part. Yeah, it’s a huge part of her, so it’s like everybody knows. And so all the Swifties, like when they try to read all of her tea leaves to stuff, like they do, because the Swifties are insane, like I’m not that type of, they’re all like, oh my gosh, divide this by 13 and add 13 and then do this and stuff, like they all think they know stuff.
Sounds like the Bayhive, really. Oh, yeah, like, oh, they make them look like normal. The Swifties are insane.
But yeah, like when it comes to the number 13, like they’re like, oh yeah, sit down, bitch, like we got this. See, that is such a good segue into the positive association with Friday and the 13th. So for pagans and all other manner of heathens, Friday the 13th is super lucky, if not the luckiest day, due to its positive associations with nature and the divine feminine.
For instance, there are 13 moons in a year, so 13 moon phases in a year. Friday is considered goddess Freya’s day. In Norse mythology, she is the goddess of love, warfare, sex, fertility, death, beauty, magic, and witchcraft.
So Friday already has like positive associations, 13 as well. And if you are an astrology lover, each day of the week has a planetary ruler. And Friday is ruled by Venus, the planet of love, beauty, pleasure, harmony, creativity, and magnetism.
Happy Venus Day, lovers. Does anyone else know of any other positive associations either with Friday or the 13th? I mean, there’s a bunch of 13 stuff in the U.S. symbolism. Something about a dinosaur egg, I think, being discovered on Friday the 13th.
The very first one. Oh, that is a cool little fact. Not a 13th fact, but Friday means it’s the weekend, so that’s a good thing, right? Super good sign.
Super good positive association. And it’s been on Fridays. Exactly.
It’s a powerful day, everybody. Very powerful day. A baker’s dozen is 13.
You get an extra donut. That’s great. That is true.
Yes. Oh, Krispy Kreme. All I know, doesn’t that sound good? Krispy Kreme goes so good with my drink tonight.
Probably wouldn’t go with my keto diet that I’m on right now, though. Oh, I heard keto is kind of difficult. Good luck on that.
Yeah, I am more of a Krispy Kreme diet. It’s only because I have really bad restless legs, and then I can’t sleep, and that’s about the only thing that works. I was forced into it in order to not be miserable.
So it’s much easier for me than it might be otherwise. Oh, I have suggestions for you. I will message you when we’re up at o’ dark 30 together.
Okay. Try them all on Krispy Kreme. Yeah, I have tech support for you and suggestions for restless legs.
From my trainer. Making connections in the Femdom Friday. See? This is why we all come together, guys, for Femdom Friday.
We help each other out. Love it. Indeed.
Yeah, Hunter actually does get up even before I do. 2.45 is when my alarm’s set, but I always wake up almost always before it goes off. I can’t do an alarm.
I can’t. I can’t either. The only reason I do it is because I want to log in by three.
I’ve got a schedule that I’m trying to follow. Yeah, you’re doing the mistress of the month. I actually promoted that on my show.
I did. I did. I promoted your bat shit, crazy little mistress of the month ritual thing.
And then I said, come July, she’s going to go back and do, you know, she’s going to hibernate and we won’t see her. So get her while you can. Thank you to everybody mentioning Miss Hunter’s mistress of the month.
Such a good shout out for her. Thank you. I wanted to point to the chat because I saw some answers to my question about the associations with the number 13.
Little Rabbit pointed out that 13 in the tarot deck is death, the card of transformation, change and destruction, followed by renewal. I love that association. Thank you, Little Rabbit.
I also saw that PTKM mentioned that the Norse goddess of fertility was represented by cats. Thus, when the Norse married, it was traditional for the men to give kittens to their new wives. That’s so cute.
Oh, I love that. Do we have any people, any mistresses who have cats? In the barn. Keep the mice down.
Well, yeah, that is a good plan. Work. Cats are wonderful.
Yep. For that, I would want one in the house, though. Oh, I’m a big fan of the kids.
Yeah, I would love one in the house, but my landlord won’t let me. Boo! The only ass allowed on my kitchen counter is my own, period. Yes.
I bet you have, I bet if you had cats, they wouldn’t dare go on your counter. Yeah, well, I was looking at them, but they’re cats, and they very definitely would think, fuck you, she’s not in the room, you know, free for all. You can train a cat not to do that.
They’re good. I love cats. Yeah, you can train them when you’re not, when you’re there.
I have to agree with this, Adley. Once you leave, all bets are off. Yeah, they’ll get on camera and look you dead in the eye and be like, fuck you, you see where I am? Yeah, bitch.
You’re just embodying their goddess energy, that’s all. I know, isn’t that so cool? He just said that we’ve got 13 people in the audience now. Oh, nice.
Friday the 13th for the win. He’s such a good little rabbit. Perfect little note to end our Friday the 13th discussion on.
Welcome to all 13 of you that are in the, that are listening. Thank you for being here. Thank you for not giving in to the superstition and believing that Friday the 13th is bad.
I appreciate you. I think we all do. I’m super superstitious and I love superstitions.
Like I am, I am super superstitious. I’m Irish and Italian. It’s like, I don’t have a choice.
Yeah, I’m like, yeah, of course I’m superstitious. Well, you’re in luck because tonight we’re going to be talking about impact play. And I think that’s a very lucky topic because I love impact play.
It’s such a fun, fun time. I love it that it’s lucky because you love it. Exactly.
And I’m a goddess. So it’s blessed y’all. Exactly.
Y’all, I love it. It’s lucky because she said it was lucky. My word is law.
Now for those of you wondering what impact play is, I am using the definition from our lovely website spankedbyphone.com. This is required reading according to the site. Impact play is basically when a dominant partner strikes the submissive partner with their hand or with a variety of spanking type implements repeatedly. So I guess if you do it once, it’s not if you smack someone’s bottom once, it’s not necessarily considered impact play.
It’s if you do it a lot. Good note there. You can do it just once and it still counts like one good solid smackaroo.
Oh, I like that because it’s just once that doesn’t count. Oh, just once again, that doesn’t count. Oh, there it is again.
Just once. There you go. Would that be considered ruining it? Ruin.
Well, I see forest impact play is not for everybody. So it’s okay if you want to pass on this one. Thank you for attending though because we love having you here.
Right now boundaries are important. Absolutely and to be respected always. That’s very true.
And you should approach this with the utmost care and safety. We can get into some ways to be safe during your sessions. But for now, I am going to go over the different levels of impact play.
You have on the softer, lighter impact end erotic spanking. And that can usually, you know, did anybody want to talk about any of the implements that you might use for an erotic spanking? I would love to use my hand. There is something very sensual, very sexual, very ah, controlling about being able to feel that impact against my hand.
Right? And to feel the sensation in my own hand. There’s almost like a level of shared pain in that way. Although if I do my job right, one of us will be experiencing a little bit more.
But yeah, that’s what I really love about it. Or that’s what I love to use if I’m spanking somebody. I’m going to go look over in the chat because it seems like we have some suggestions.
PTKM says a spatula. That will work. Forrest said wooden spoons.
And someone said there are so many, Forrest again, said there are so many implements in the kitchen. Agreed. Very much agreed.
I also see flogger in here. But I kind of feel like a flogger, that might fit under self, well, not self-flagellation, but erotic flagellation. Because that is a another form of impact play, but it involves implements that are flexible.
So like a flogger. I’m trying to remember what the other little thing is called. Like a horse crop, maybe? Because it has that little flop in it.
That’s actually one of my personal favorites, only because I rode horses. And I didn’t use one on a horse because I didn’t want to use one on a horse, but I will use one on a sub, like a wooden spoon, my hand. The feet are a great place to find impact toys.
I like a wooden spoon, a crop, my hand, and the top part of my foot. It has to be the top part of my foot. That’s interesting.
It has to be the top part of my foot. It’s the oddest thing, it has to be the top part of my foot. Mm-hmm.
Before the erotic spanking, does anyone else like kneading the buttocks to get that blood flowing, to get it really ready so that it hurts extra hard? Or am I the only one that does that? No, yeah. Oh, Miss Krista, you showed that one one time. I have.
That is what I use. Just a more intense version of sensation plays. If you just segue from sensation into impact and back again, so like rubbing and scratching with your fingernails and maybe a little light smack.
And then something more intense, and then you go back to that softer touch. Well, you know, I’ve been told that there’s no such thing as pain. It’s only sensation.
I like that. That’s interesting. What does everyone feel about hairbrushes? We like them.
Hairbrushes are perfect for erotic spanking. But you get different ones. It depends on, like, there’s a vent brush.
There’s a, like, there’s different ones and you get different feelings. Hairbrushes, boar bristles. Oh, I love the boar bristle one.
And the ones that have the little metal bristles, but it has, like, that foamy. That they’re attached in with the wooden. That makes a great paddle.
Use the backside, not the bristle side. If your bristles don’t have those little plastic safety tips on the tip and you hit somebody with Oh, the little round things. The little nubby things.
Yes. Oh, thank you, Harper, coming in with some safety. I like to use a bamboo back scratcher, too.
I turn it the other way so that the, you know, the little scratcher part’s hanging up. That thing hurts. Our shoe waters work real well, too.
The thinner it is and the faster you swing it, the more it’s stinging. It bites. It bites a bit.
It bites a bit. Right. And so if you want thud, you go for, like, somebody’s foot.
Somebody in the chat mentioned a baseball bat. Oh, my goodness. That’s my prisoner being a You do you.
Yeah, he brought a baseball bat because that does help us segue into corporal punishment because I feel like that might I assure you my prisoner has never been hit with a baseball bat. Oh, good. I mean, even if he had, like, I know He has not.
No, he has not. He’s quite well taken care of. I think this might be a good point to just toss in that because I’m watching the comments, too.
And there’s a lot of let’s put suggestions in there that were meant to be like baseball bat or the horse kick, which is right out. That’s involving a whole bunch of things that I’m not even going to go down that path. But anything can be if you can pick it up, it can be used for impact play.
It’s about how hard you’re swinging it and what your intentions are, right? Like a baseball bat. I have. Perhaps used for impact play, but it’s for 30 things, and there are places to do it in places where you shouldn’t dare so.
The suggestions are funny, but yeah, pretty much if you can pick it up and if you can pick it up, you can probably use it for impact play in some way. The question becomes, how careful do you need? So creativity and safety. The direction that you hit and exactly where you land.
All of those are vital for playing safely with impact across the lower back danger zone. Your kidneys are closer to the surface than you think they are. Don’t do that.
Your butt. Plenty of padding. Swing away.
You probably won’t hurt yourself too badly trying to spank yourself. Go for that. Yeah.
Middle of your spine. Avoid. Your spine’s there, dumbass.
Stay away from your joints. Thighs are great. Joints.
Any place where your bones are close to the skin. So your shoulder blades, kind of iffy. Be careful.
There’s safe ways to do all of the fun with impact. And there’s also really unsafe ways to do fun with impact. If you want to use a baseball bat, butt and thighs, not the head.
Yes, please knock the head, people. Yes. Extremely, nobody here is telling you to hit in the head.
That would be very bad. Yes. Do not use the head.
Yes. And I personally don’t recommend a baseball bat. There are so many other wonderful implements to be used.
That’s probably not the best use of a baseball bat. That’s sort of like… Now, a wiffle ball bat might be fun. Oh, those do hurt, man.
I have gotten hit with those a few times by accident and they re-weld. Have you ever seen the novelty ones that are only like a foot long? It’s a tiny little bat, like a souvenir novelty baseball bat. Yes.
Yes. They’re so cute. You can’t really hurt somebody with it, but you can be like, I’m going to hit you with the baseball bat.
And then you get the mind going because they’re like, oh no. And then you pull out this tiny little wimpy thing. You’re like, hold still.
All I can think of is the hairdressers that have the big, huge wonky brushes. Have you ever seen the videos of the TikToks of the hairdressers pulling out those big, huge, oversized brushes? The mindfuck of it all. Yes.
I’m so glad that you all brought up pain in regards to the discussion here. Because I was wondering if any of you had any idea, like if you could maybe explain why someone would enjoy doing all of this. Because that’s the point here is the pleasure.
Why would someone find this fun? Oh, the gym rat in me can. It’s pleasure through pain. It’s pushing your limits.
It’s people who get a runner’s high. It’s me. This is the reason why I work out.
I have the plank Nazi, my crazy ass trainer, who pushes me. This is why I love it. So the people who like the pain, it’s not my type of pain, but I like pain in the gym.
I get it. I like it. I like to be pushed.
Whenever you get like a really good stretch and you’re like the sore the next day. Yes, I like it. It’s deliciously, I like to be deliciously sore.
I like a workout like that. So I get it. So when people call me, they’re like, I don’t understand why I like it.
They’re like, I want to come through. I was like, you want to come through the pain. They’re like, that’s it.
I’m like, I get it. I understand it. Yeah.
So that was something where I don’t. Impact play is not my specialty. When people call me, they’re like, what kind of calls do you like? You don’t typically call Kamarie for impact play, but I understand the psychology behind it.
I get it because I’m that way in the gym. I have. If you talk to me on a Saturday and I’ve missed my workout, I’m a bitch.
I have another take on that as well. Go ahead. Yeah.
I mentioned someplace in the comments earlier that it’s a spectrum. It’s all sensation. And Forrest said something about his sensations, pleasurable sensation and painful sensation.
But the things that feel good to us sometimes are not the same things that feel good to us all of the time. And the things that are. That make us feel good if we’re sitting lazily, scrolling through social media on a Sunday afternoon is really different than the things that feel good.
14 seconds before orgasm because of the way that our body is or is not woken up. And if our skin is all nerve endings are all awake and everything. And that ramp up is really important.
And same thing, like with exercising, you don’t just go in and grab like your top weight or. Jump out for your five mile run, right out the first three steps at your top speed. It all requires that ramp up to where you’re getting a different kind of sensation is going to feel good in a different spot.
I know most of us can identify with that notion that, like, right before you’re about to come, all kinds of crazy shit seems like a good idea to you tomorrow afternoon when you’re having your lunch. Like, you know, I don’t even I barely remember all that, whatever. That’s all my thought.
It’s it’s very much context. Dependent the context in which the pain or impact or sensation is happening matters a whole lot. So, like, some sweaty, weird guy who smells weird on the bus stroking my arm.
Oh, no, bad touch. Yeah, some guy I’m really super into who happens to be caressing me as a lead up to something that I know I’m going to enjoy. Good touch.
Right. Still a sweaty dude. The context is what’s important there.
So, you know, something that happened to you when you were younger that just fucking hurt and you’re like, nope, nope, I don’t like spankings. That doesn’t sound fun to me versus. OK, so in the context of your mistress whom you trust has said, I’m going to do something that you will eventually learn to love and you’re going to get to where this feels really, really good.
I’m going to provide you with discipline and boundaries and consequences. And in the end, you’re going to be a better person and you’re going to have fun doing this. Now, strip and climb over my lap because I’m going to give you a barehanded spanking.
Right. All of a sudden, all of that context transforms it. This isn’t the same as, you know, whatever.
Discipline may have happened at some point in the past in which you were embarrassed and humiliated and just hurt. This is very different. I love that.
You know, and I’ll add to that, I’ll add to that, you know, I’m let you guys know I’ve been around a minute. So like I’m I’m older. And and there’s times, you know, like I’m tired or generally tired or whatever, but somehow totally exhausting myself is my most relaxing part of my day or week.
Oh, it is. It is. And there’s times I do different types of workouts.
But my one, my one specific workout a week, I have one harder workout. Like I have different workouts during the week and I’m a little bit more flexible with them that I have one workout during the week that it is super hard. It usually takes me two days to recover and I need to do two different things to recover from that.
Sounds like an after care. Yeah, it truly is like it is like I require a certain stretch like it is. So that’s why like I get into a certain I can get in call it subspace call whatever like I get it.
But it is my heart. I get it. It is the most hard.
It’s the most exhausting part of my week. It’s the most relaxing part of my week. And I can take anything else that comes from the week as long as I have that 45 minutes.
That sounds like a good way. A good reason why people might enjoy a good impact play session at the end of it. Get yourself something.
Make sure that your mistress does some really awesome after care. Yeah. And get you nice and relaxed.
Really float away while it’s happening. Before we end our discussion on impact play. Did anyone else want to add anything to the discussion just as we kind of close it out? Because I want to have enough time to do the mistress hot seat with Miss Hadley.
Miss Hadley, I know that you’re quite the expert when it comes to impact play. Did you want to add anything before we before I grill you? Oh, be careful. Have fun.
Maintain your boundaries. Here’s your Boundaries? Ooh, boundaries. Okay.
When in doubt, ask questions. Speaking of questions, if no one has anything else to add, did anybody want to add anything else? Well, speaking of questions, Ms. Hadley, are you ready to get grilled, girl? Oh, by you, my dear, grill me, grill me. Well, here we go with these hot seat questions.
Hot all grill action. Grill on grill action, I love it. Ms. Hadley, what are the ways that a sub can serve you to prove their devotion to you? Oh, honestly, like brass tacks answer to that, show up, show up.
You want to prove that you’re devoted. The best way to do that is being where you can act on that feeling of commitment or devotion. Excellent, make sure that you are where you say you’re going to be.
Yeah, show up, be where you say you’re going to be, do what you say you’re going to do, and don’t make me question your commitment. I mean, I understand life happens, but yeah. Consistency is key with Ms. Hadley’s submissives.
Yes. What is your favorite style of session to do, and what is your least favorite type of session to do? Ah, my, I think the least favorite session is easier to answer. So I pride myself truly on being focused enough and paying enough attention to generally be able to lean into what somebody is hoping for when they, within the context of LDW.
If you actually belong to me, then it is whatever the hell I feel like doing, but we’ve already talked about that a hundred times. So the least favorite, I think, is when people don’t necessarily know what they want, and they just tell me, like, mistress, whatever you want. And I always hesitate at that point, because if their hope is that I will virtually, or any other way, bring them to a dungeon sex party and have them set up in the middle of the room and used as a party favor, and they tell me anything I want, and what I want today is to talk about my impact play astrology fetish, and they’re not going to have a good time.
So unless you really know me and just really giving yourself over, even if it’s boring and tedious and you find it hard to listen to and stupid, you’re not going to have a good call. So I don’t like that, not necessarily because I’m not enjoying myself, but because I want my brand, our brand collectively and mine personally, to be premium, to be an experience of excellence as often as I can make it that way. The more input I have, which I think leads over to the favorite kind of call, the more input I have, the easier it is for me to get us where we both need to go, because I fucking love that.
If somebody’s on the phone and they’re just like a whining, gooning, babbling, boneless, ragged mess by the end of our session, I am so happy. I will ride that high for days. I just, I love that.
I truly, truly, truly do. And I can’t do that if you don’t tell me who you are and what you want and where you would like for us, because I can, I can get us there. Got the skill set and the experience.
But if you don’t tell me where the destination might be, we might end up at the top of the wrong mountain. Right, right. Have an idea of what you want.
Don’t just leave it up to us, because it’ll help you get to where you want to go if you have some idea. Like, you don’t have to have it figured out, but just some idea does help. I 100% agree on that.
They can start by tossing out their top three fantasies. Yes, that is a good place to start. Want from those things and mix and match that to my liking.
I’m all about that for sure. But you gotta tell me which direction our boots are facing, or we’re never getting out the door. I would agree.
And I also want to say, first of all, I don’t think anything could ever be, what did you say? Boring, dull and boring or whatever. I can’t imagine you ever being dull and boring. Now, can it be off topic from what they’re really looking for if they don’t tell you? Yes.
But what I think is worse is I think a lot of times they know what they want, but they’re afraid to say what they want. There you go. You run into that, yeah.
Well, you answered the why part of the question, so I’ll just move on to the next one. Let’s say Ms. Constance is naked in front of you. Yes, let’s say that.
What’s the first thing you would say? And what is the first thing you would do? I wouldn’t be able to say anything, because my face would be motorboating those perfect boobs. Your mouth would be otherwise occupied. Excellent answer to that question.
You said previously that you sometimes do GFE or girlfriend experience calls, but you are a dom. Does it go against your dominant sensibilities to give a blowie, or do you just not? Yeah, I remember that conversation I was talking about, and somebody in the comments made that inquiry. I know some people see that as submission, but… Yeah, and I disagree with that.
Right? If you think a blowie is always a submissive act, you have clearly never been anywhere near me. But I actually did a workshop once on how to perform fellatio from a dominant perspective. That was a lot of fun.
If I’m doing a GFE call, a girlfriend experience call, it’s still me as the girlfriend. So if you want a submissive girlfriend experience, you’re going to have to… I’m bad at it. I don’t know if it’d be dull and boring, but it would not be what you’re looking for.
I’ve tried. I’m not good at it. I don’t feel good about it, so I just don’t do them.
Yeah, if I’m doing a girlfriend experience call, it’s still Hadley that you’re going out with. It’s going to be the kind of girlfriend experience you would get if I were actually your girlfriend. So the mewling, kitteny, wide-doe-eyed active submission that I wish to hell I could do.
I can’t do it. I look false. People laugh if I try to make… You’re like, this is not you, Hadley.
Yeah, it’s like, no. This is not who you are. Yeah, I’m bad at it.
Like when I told you to get on your knees. And I had to mute myself because I was laughing too hard to respond at all. But I was being sensual.
I wasn’t being dominant. Well, Miss Hadley, I’m going to have that be your last question because it looks like we’re kind of on our last few minutes of time. But it was really nice grilling you.
And I hope everyone learned a little bit more about Miss Hadley. And also that blowjobs, they can be a power exchange, like Krista said in the comments. They can be such a power exchange if you do it right.
I’ve never given a blow where the owner of the penis wouldn’t do whatever I wanted for me to not stop. That’s power right there. Exactly.
Exactly. Well, since we are reaching the end of our show, I just wanted to make a couple of announcements. Sissy Pageant will be in July.
July 19th, I believe. And if you would like to be a part of our annual Sissy Pageant this year, all you need to do is do a 30-minute call with the mistress of your choosing and let your dispatcher know who you did the call with and all that good stuff. And you will be entered.
If you have any more questions, please refer to the dailycock.com about the 2025 EE Sissy Pageant. We’re also running a special this month to celebrate Pride. All 60-minute calls are $150.
So if you enjoy long calls, make sure you get in on that special. Also, I’d like to reiterate that our mistress of the month this year is Ms. Hunter. So if you do a 10-minute or longer session with her, you’ll get five minutes added to your call.
So take advantage of that. Hunter is a lot of fun if you haven’t already gathered that from everything that she said. During this, did any of the other mistresses have anything that they wanted to promote or shout out? I do.
I do. Join Horse School Sunday, the 15th at 11 p.m. Eastern, because Ms. Bianca is going to be joining me to talk about cuckolding. Oh, that sounds like fun.
I may have to try to stay up for that. Yes. Yeah, I’m going to have to be there for that because Ms. Bianca is so hot anyway.
With those legs, yes. I know. Guys, spend you some time with Bianca, too.
There’s some really awesome ladies here. Make sure you get in time with Ms. Bianca, Ms. Hunter, and tune into Horse School. You’ll learn something.
You’ll learn to be a better whore. That’s right. Ms. Harper’s going to learn you good.
She does learn, I think. Well, on that note, thank you, everyone, for coming out to our show tonight. I am the melodic Master Matrix, Michelle.
You can find me at themastermatrix.com. And again, thank you all for joining us for this wonderful Friday the 13th edition of our Ruined June series. And we hope to see you next week for our next topic when Ms. Demi will be talking about ruined orgasms, I believe. So make sure you show up for that.
See you all next week. Good night, everyone. Have a great weekend.
Bye. Bye, everyone. Everybody have a good one.
