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So tonight we are going to have all kinds of fun talking about ruined orgasms and what they are, how we like to ruin them, and several other little things might come up while we’re doing this. Maybe. Hopefully.
So why don’t we start off by going ahead and introducing ourselves. Miss Bianca. Hello.
Thank you, Miss Bianca. My blog is kinkyphonefantasy.com. You can find me here on the Enchantrix Empire at LTWBianca. I am part of the Fimdom Fridays crew and you can find me on X as MissBiancaEE.
I’m on there a lot and also on our Enchantrix Empire social media. I like to play around there too. I always reach out with an email.
Any questions or anything you think I might be into? Thank you. Very nice. Miss Hadley.
I had myself on mute. So sorry about that. Mistress Hadley here.
Best place to find me is right here as LDWHadley or Hadley at EnchantrixEmpire.com. Email me. Those are the most direct ways. I’m on Twitter and Blue Sky Social.
EmpressHadley on Twitter. Hadley.bettencourt on Blue Sky. And as always, Iwilldominateyou.com is the blog.
Check me out. Thanks. And she will too.
Miss Harper. I’m everywhere. You can find me.
I’m on Twitter. Enchantrix Harper. No I. Blue Sky Harper Enchantrix with an I. Hey Hadley, mute yourself.
Yeah. Nothing like the six o’clock news. Why is that so fucking funny? Well, that’s kind of foreboding.
This thing that she’s watching TV during the show because we’re so boring. I know. Are we boring you Hadley? Are we not exciting enough? Man.
Can you not take all the TV out of the other room? She decided, well, you know, I’ve already told them what I’m doing. I’m going to watch TV now. I told them about me.
Matlock starts any minute now. Did she say Matlock? Matlock starts any minute. Oh my God.
There’s a remake. There’s a remake of Matlock. Oh, and it’s terrible too.
Wow. With Kathy Bates. Oh, now that sounds good.
As Matlock. Yeah, I can’t. That sounds so good.
Yeah, which I think is amazing. Yeah, I can’t do it. Okay, collar bitch.
I’m going to give it a watch. Let’s roll. I’m going to check it out.
Let’s roll. Good. Nice of you, Ms. Harper.
Go ahead and finish, you know, now that you’ve been so rudely interrupted with Matlock. I mean, well, it’s Matlock. I’m kind of okay with it.
I have a podcast, Whore School, adult sex educations coming Sunday. Join me at 11 p.m. We’re going to talk about AI and the human connection. And you’re going to get to find out in depth why I hate AI.
Oh, there’s a lot of reasons. Many reasons. I like that a lot, actually.
How about you, goddess Michelle? Oh, I had to make sure I wasn’t muted. Yes, I am your melodic master matrix goddess Michelle. You can find me on my website, the master matrix dot com.
You can also find me on X. I am our social media lady. So I’m always on the socials. You can find me at the divine me on X.com. You can also find me at the master matrix dot BSKY dot social.
You can also find me here on Discord at LBW Michelle. And you can also find me on our Enchantrix internal social media, which is so fun when I’m actually on there. But yeah, we can mix it up and have a good time.
I’d love to see y’all. Let’s have some fun. Well, it does sound like fun.
All right. And I am your hybrid mistress, Miss Krista. And you can find me at a plethora of places as well.
You can find me on my blog, which is fun sex fetish blog dot com. You can find me on Saturday nights on Kingston drinks. And this week we will be talking about understanding the benefits of chastity and orgasm control.
So that ought to be fun, too. And you can also find me here LDW Krista. You can find me on X Krista Enchants.
Blue Sky. I am Miz with a Z Krista dot Blue Sky dot social. And my email is Krista at Enchantrix Empire dot com.
If you can’t find me, you’re not trying. So everybody, tonight’s drink is going to be kind of fun, too. It’s called the Dirty Cage.
And I got the name because I know, crap, put the wrong one in there. Actually, it’s not called the Dirty Cage. I’m on the wrong.
I’m on the wrong night. Sorry, guys. See, that’s what happens when you.
You got me all excited. Yeah, I’m sorry. It’s just called Bruin.
Paul Bruin and I. Tomorrow’s Dirty Cage. I’ll be back. Is it for chastity? Yeah, tonight’s just ruined.
So but both drinks are done with tequila this week. I went with a tequila Thursday thirsty Thursday deal. And this one here is two ounces of Don Julio Blanca tequila.
An ounce and a half of pineapple juice, an ounce and a half of orange juice, a half ounce of fresh squeezed lime juice and garnish it with a pineapple wedge. And it is delicious. So now you all had a preview of what we’re going to do tomorrow.
So anyway, and now I also want to go ahead and welcome everybody. One, two, three. John Collar Bitch.
Heather NoCo. Callie the Sweet Girl. Mott Prisoner.
Pooh Varian. Sitting Bull Troy. Butt Slut.
Nice to have all of you here tonight. And without further ado, our topic tonight is about the ruined orgasms. And first off, I do want to kind of enlighten a little bit of some people don’t realize this.
So I want to make sure that everybody knows there is a difference between having an orgasm and ejaculating. Yes. The difference is an orgasm are a result of intense pleasure and pelvic contractions, otherwise known as one of those toe curling experiences.
An ejaculation is purely physical. The expulsion of semen from your penis without any joy. Without any earth shattering moments.
So when we talk about ruined orgasms, we’re ruining the pleasure of them. That is what the ruined orgasm is in its most basic form. Form.
Now, I do want to start off by asking each one of the mistresses. What is your idea of a ruined orgasm? How do you go about ruining somebody’s orgasm? So it’s kind of a two part question. And I’m going to start with Miss Bianca.
All right. Did you ask the question? Yeah, it was. It was.
What do you consider a ruined orgasm? And how do you go about achieving that? Oh, I know that. I’ve caught up in chat here. Was your orgasm too? Um, no, there’s a whole collar bitch and a couple other have a whole thing going over here in chat.
Girl, I see it. Oh, collar bitch. Ruined orgasm is you are horny.
You are either stroking. You are hard. You want to get to that beautiful ejaculation like you were mentioning earlier.
You want to let it all go. For some reason, you just can’t. Either you’re caged up and it’s got a little too tight and you just start leaking or your mistress like put some really non sexy thoughts in your head right at that moment.
My favorite is ruined orgasm. Yes, it’s more of a hands on thing. More like you, you, you were who said that they like to pinch it off.
One of y’all said that and I just cannot get that out of my mind now. I’m like, yes, let’s pinch it off. Um, yes.
I think a lot of chastity, a lot of teasing, a lot of like minds like playing with their head and stuff and just kind of like, oh, sorry, it’s over. I’m going to pull my panties up and go home now kind of situation. Love it.
Miss Hadley. Oh, she, she’s not even here anymore. Okay, well, I guess I’ll go to Harper then.
Huh? Connection issues probably. Either that or she decided that Matlock was more entertaining than what we’re having tonight. Look, Kathy Bates at any age is, is.
She is pretty awesome. I have to give you that. She is a bad bitch.
Oh, what was the question? Sorry. The question is, what do you consider a ruined orgasm? And what is your favorite way to achieve it? Depends on what my goal is with the ruin. Like there’s a purpose behind it.
There’s a reason why I’m doing this to you. And it could just be because you know what? I’m just going to fuck with you. Um, it could be because we’re going to use this as a teaching tool to teach you how to to separate orgasm and ejaculation.
Because if I, if I ruined the orgasm part, you’re, you could still ejaculate. Sure. But you don’t get the orgasm part just to really bring it home and prove to you that yes, they are two different things.
Or sometimes it is, you’re going to get the orgasm, but not the ejaculation. Which is a kind of a ruined orgasm for a lot of men. The sensation that you get when you are both ejaculating and orgasming at the same time.
That’s what a bunch of guys are like. That’s what, that’s what a full release feels like. And so to have only one or the other of those feels like a lesser sort of a thing.
Put that lesser comparison out of your head. Because would you like to have one full release or 20 orgasms? Because we can do that. So it depends.
The technique, I cater to what the goal of whatever it is that we’re doing. And so sometimes it’s just, you know, yes, you pinch it off. You put your thumb right over the head, right at the slit.
You gotta love that. That one, that’s, that’s interrupting the ejaculation. That’s just, nope.
Yes. Goddess Michelle, your turn. Yes.
And the question is. What do you consider a ruined orgasm and what is your favorite way to achieve it? I consider anything where you don’t get to get off, whether it’s the pleasure part, whether it’s the ejaculation part, like those two things either don’t happen or like you only get one of them and not necessarily to the height that you thought you were going to get it. I might’ve mentioned it before, but I am a huge fan of like having an expectation and then having that expectation like spoiled and not met.
I love the frustration that comes from that. So that’s my, that’s what I think of whenever I think of like a ruined orgasm and orgasm that doesn’t get to a situation where you don’t get to complete or you’re left with like frustration or some other like secondary, like difficult emotion to like work through. Now you got that to work through now too.
And my favorite ways to ruin the, or ruin orgasm, there’s two. The first one is where I build you up and you think that you’re going to get to come. And then like at the last minute, I just pulled a rug, like right under, right off from underneath you.
And like hearing a person be like, no, you’re not gonna let me come. What? Why? I love that. I love having that confirmation that I’ve just frustrated the absolute shit out of you and you’re going to have a difficult time falling asleep tonight because you didn’t get to come.
Yes, I did that. And the other orgasm, ruined orgasm that I really love and I’ve extolled the virtues of mistress Audrey multiple times and I will continue to do it until the end of time because that two mistress call that I did with her where she just utterly had this guy annihilate his own orgasm was just, oh, it was the best. I’ve been trying to recreate that sound with someone since.
It hasn’t happened yet. Hopefully it will. But my favorite way to do it is the scrunching squelching method where we make sure that nothing dribbles out.
Nothing dribbles out at all. If you start to feel like there’s a little bit that’s about to come out of that little tippy edge part out of your little slit. No, squeeze that, pinch that, do whatever you have to.
Turn it if you must. And if you’re on webcam with me, I better see the twisting. I better see like your dick just shrivel from that pain.
I better see it. Yes. So those are my two ways of ruining an orgasm that I absolutely enjoy.
Well, now I guess y’all get to hear my, what I like. I believe that a ruined orgasm is ruined. You don’t get to come.
You do not get to have an orgasm. I wrote a blog about this a little while ago. And it’s, I liken it to you’re having sex with your significant other and you are almost there.
You’re just about there. And the fire alarm goes off. She pushes you off of her or him.
And you’re left there with nothing. And this goes on for hours afterwards. So you don’t get to go and put it back in and get off.
Oh no, you’re just ruined. It’s done. And I love, like Michelle, I love the getting it, ruining your expectations as well as your orgasm.
Because then it makes it even more intense. And my favorite way is always been, I want you to pinch it off. And I don’t want you to be able to even drizzle out anything.
And I’m hoping that when you go to pinching it off, it’s uncomfortable as well. But that to me is my favorite part of a ruined orgasm because it does, you get all those wonderful noises. Nothing like those noises.
Mm-mm-mm. Girl, oof. And the more pained the sound, I don’t know why, but it just like, it’s so exciting.
Like when they get high pitched. Oh, yes. And I’m with you on the watching.
A guy have a ruined orgasm. Oh my God. Being there where you can actually see what they’re going through.
Are y’all sadists? Because I am. I’m not a sexual sadist. Like I don’t get a sexual thrill out of it, but I definitely get a thrill, if you know what I’m saying.
You know, I don’t know that I’m a sadist, but I do enjoy it because they asked for it. Power control. And it’s something about seeing their response to the sensations that you have delivered to them.
That. Yes. Yes.
Go ahead. I’m sorry. Well, it’s the kind of response.
So like if somebody, if most people, when they see somebody who does something like that to their dick, they’d be like, oh no. Like they would feel empathy and compassion for them because they’re like, oh, that would hurt so bad. And then I laugh because it’s funny and it’s good.
And I like it. And I have to giggle at it because look, look what they did. Right.
They asked me to do this to them and I guided them through it. Yes. That’s the part that I love the most is the fact that they asked for it.
Amen. It’s like, we’re giving you what you want, baby. And I try to be transparent.
When somebody asks for something, I always make sure they understand what they’re asking for. Yes. Oh, yes.
It’s like, here’s a prime example. I get a lot of, I want you to deny me. Well, in reality, what they’re wanting is for me to delay them.
They do want to have a happy ending. But if you tell me deny, oh, sweetie, I am going to deny you. So make sure you have your terminology right too.
So when you ask for a ruined orgasm, make sure you understand what you’re asking for. It’s very specific. Oh, so would edging to the point of orgasm be ruined? It can.
However, edging and ruining an orgasm are two different things. What does the panel of ladies say? I say the difference between edging and a ruined orgasm. Edging brings you right to the brink of orgasm and then backs off completely.
No ejaculation, no release. Just pure, concentrated frustration that builds anticipation for the next time. You just keep building.
Or as a ruined orgasm, you get to the point of having the orgasm. And either you have to pinch it off. You have to get your hand off of it.
Whatever the mistress decides is the way to go about doing it. However, her preference is for ruining it. But that is my distinction between edging and ruined orgasms.
What are your thoughts, ladies? Bianca? Oh, sorry. Oh, go ahead. Go ahead, Michelle.
I was just going to say that edging, isn’t that kind of the point? Is that you’re trying to get to the point of orgasm and pull back. And some people really enjoy that. So I can’t really see how that would necessarily be ruining it.
Now, if you’re combining it with a slow drain, where every time you get to the edge and you start leaking a little bit and we tell you to keep going and don’t come, don’t drain it. Now, that kind of edging, I would consider that ruining because there’s something coming out. You’re getting to the point where you want to, but we’re telling you, no, no, no release there.
Keep pulling it. Keep jerking. Keep going.
That I would consider it. But edging on its own? No. No.
That’s just the practice, right? Oh, yeah. I can understand that. Yeah.
How about you, Bianca? What do you think? I think that they can become one in certain instances. I had a guy edging with me today and he wanted to come so bad and for hours and I don’t know. We switched conversations mid-topic and he’s like, you know, I just don’t think that this is going to happen.
He’s like, oh, oh, it’s happening. Oh, it’s not. And like, we did not mean to ruin his edging session.
We had to switch topics so rapidly and they were still sexual nature. And he’s just like, I lost it. I was like, oh, I’m not sorry, but okay.
But it can be different and you can use it how you want to. You can edge a guy and then ruin it. You, um, and I agree with what y’all been saying.
Of course, edging, they want to come eventually. But just jerking off to have it ruined, but that in mind and that your goal, I think the conversation goes a little differently and so do the skills. Use a little bit of different techniques in each of those scenarios.
How about you, Ms. Harper? I think for people who want to play around with edging, but are worried that they’re going to come, a perfect solution. You can edge. You can edge and you can edge and you can edge and you can edge again and again and again over and over and have a grand fucking time.
Absolutely. Yes, please. You should, in fact, edge repeatedly for me.
And then if you cannot keep on edging, ruin it. It works. It makes you so much more horny, so much more eager, obedient, willing, turned on, desperate, panting for it.
When in doubt, edge until you can’t edge anymore and then ruin yourself so that you can still be nice and horny. So you can still be desperate for it. So you can still sit over here and be the panting, aching, whimpering little fucking simp of my dreams.
Oh, that was so sexy. Yes, of course it is. It came from Miss Harper.
Of course. Now, to Bianca’s point earlier, I have somebody that I call my uber edger. This guy will edge for 30, 40 minutes solid.
I mean, to the point of almost having an orgasm three to five times a minute. Hundreds of edges in a session. And always ends with he just can’t go any further and he’ll take his hand off and he’ll still and he will just erupt.
And he says that it’s not a ruined orgasm, that it is the most intense orgasm, even though he is not stimulating himself at the point of the orgasm. So I think it can go both ways, just depending on how the person does it and how he perceives what he’s doing. And that’s the big part, perception.
What they set out as their goal, if they set out that they’re edging and they have an orgasm, it’s different than if they are wanting to be ruined, if they want to have a ruined orgasm. So how your brain perceives the session and the activities that you’re doing has a major part of how the orgasm is achieved and what happens afterwards. Right? Anybody? Yes, ma’am.
Yes, yes. Says I have to edge with my dummy on my cage. That’s hot.
Dummies are the like, I love that toy. I just do. Oh, my God.
And you can actually be in chastity and edge, you can be in chastity and have ruined orgasms. And I love combining the two. I really do.
I love putting somebody in chastity and then stimulating them with a vibrator. But I’m kind of cruel about it. If I’m going to do that, I love putting you in chastity.
That’s just a little bit too small. Oh, Krista. Well, oh, the girl is going to have some fun.
Talk about room June, girl. Which brings us to another point. Do you ladies ever ruin orgasms with chastity as well? And anybody can just jump in there now.
I was going to say it depends on the chastity pet, because there’s a couple of chastity pets that like, oh, I would ruin, ruin the shit out of their orgasms because of how they behave in those cages sometimes. Do urethral tubes count? Whether a cage? Because yes, if it does count. Oh, my God.
It’s so fun to have them linking, linking and never having any pleasure at all. Other neck cage. And Buttslet says, I have a new inverted cage for you to see, Miss Krista.
Oh, lucky me. Lucky Krista. I’m telling you.
You’re not ruining her June at all. Not with that. Not at all.
Well, I love an inverted cage too, especially if you are going to pursue ruining an orgasm. Oh, those are wonderful for that. Oh, it takes my breath away seeing those.
And the noises that you can get them to make. I love that. Now, because I’m a freak, and I’m curious about how you other ladies perceive these things.
All right. I love ruining an orgasm and having some prostate stimulation thrown in there as well. Has anybody ever tried that? I would love to try that.
Can you go into a little more detail on this? Well, what I do, the fun way to do it is. You have a normal session, but they have to, they kind of have to be willing to have some prostate stimulation first. I try to push, well, not push, but I encourage, aggressively encourage, but play because it does feel fucking good.
If you have not had a anally stimulated orgasm, guys, you just don’t know what the fuck you’re missing. But anyway, what I do is I like using the Edge 2 and me controlling it. And that toy is a very, very prostate friendly stimulating toy.
So I will basically overstimulate them with the toy and then I’ll take it away. Same thing with like, if you’re using the Dami, I will use both toys on you very aggressively and then take them away. So that’s how I stimulate the prostate and ruin the orgasm.
No, acrystagasm is when I let you come with those combination of toys. A ruined orgasm is when I do not let you have an orgasm. Two different things.
So with that explanation, has any of you all tried that approach to a ruined orgasm? I can’t say that I have, but now I want to. Ooh, details Harper. I want to hear your stories because they’re always hot.
Well, the Edge, if you get it, there’s a specific way to mess with the sliders so that you can make the two different motors kind of resonate with each other, the inner and the outer. And so I love doing that. You get the two motors resonating and then as soon as they lose the ability to kind of speak English, you back way off or you turn one of the motors off.
Yes. And then you leave them that way. It’ll either ruin it or it will just kind of leave them just very deeply unsatisfied because they were building and building and building towards what would have been an incredibly satisfying orgasmic experience.
And now they’re not. That’s right. I’ll tell you another toy that works pretty good too.
The ones that are a little bit more aggressive, like if you have a name like Buttslut, you’re probably a little bit more aggressive when it comes to that kind of stuff. Another toy that is a little more aggressive for that is the Ridge. The Ridge works really good.
It gets on up in there. And basically what the Ridge is, is Levin’s stab at anal beads that vibrate. That’s basically what it is.
And it can be a very, it can be a very fun toy as well. Now, Ma, you can’t really use the Ridge and the Edge at the same time because you only have one hole to put it in, sweetie. You can use the gush.
Yes. And I’ll tell you another one that I love to use in conjunction with anal play is the Solace Pro. Especially if I have control of it.
The control is the best part. Yes, because then I can ruin your orgasm. Oh, come eating manky? Manx says that they have the Ridge.
The End is amazing. I have to agree. I like the Edge.
I like the Ridge. It’s a fun toy as well. But there are, like I said, there are differences between the two.
But the anal stimulation and ruining orgasms can be even more intense. And it’s because you are getting that prostate stimulation that is making you want to come hard. And then to have that carpet ripped right out from underneath you.
Yeah, like that’s tons of fun for us ladies. At least this one anyway. God, yes.
So Miss Bianca, you say you want to do this. See, I do. Yes, I love playing with anal.
I love joining the prostate and now thinking about ruining an orgasm because Oh, you don’t to that point. And I know how how explosive. That’s the thing that’s going on in my mind.
I know how explosive those anal orgasms can be, especially when you have a toy that you can control. And, you know, with the Gus too, we’re going to put both of those. And Harper just was like, yeah, we’re going to we’re going to time these so well that we’ve got them going in tandem.
And then we’re just going to say goodbye. And I bet that thing goes. If you can get them to get the if you can get them to get the solace pro.
Oh, that’s a good thing. That is really the gush is good. It vibrates.
The solace pro is basically a pocket pussy that moves up and down on their cock. He that’s all right. I have to get some toys and try things out in my personal life so I can recommend.
Yeah, so that one when you start combining something that’s stroking them and stimulating them inside internally. Oh, yeah, that’s when you can really have control. And but you have to you have to be on your game as the mistress or he will come.
All right. So I’m going to try this out in my personal life first with a couple of my subbies and make sure I got this down before we do this on the phone. All right.
Yeah, you have to be you have to be in tune with their their changes in their breath. And see the other thing nice about the solace pro, too. I like this for that for this very reason.
They can mount it to their desk and it will do all the work. And their hands are free to still type. And you can see the difference in their typing.
I bet you can. So that’s another reason that I like that toy, because it is they basically are hands free. Hands free is the way to be.
Yes, and it will and it will do a number on them. So and guys, just keep this in mind. If you’re looking for new toys and new adventures.
Well, yes, it works with handcuffs. You can be cuffed and put your put your teleworker right on in there and have all kinds of fun. Yes, I said that.
I love that word. Can you say it again? Yes, it is. I love that word.
So, you know, so keep in mind when we talk about this stuff, guys, we have a really good idea and we have some experience behind them. Miss Hadley, welcome back. I want to get some of your input on some of this stuff.
Are you there? I see you. Are you still muted? I don’t think you can hear me. I don’t know.
Well, when you can talk, just let me know and then I’ll ask you a question. Oh, you missed all kinds of stuff. Can you can you hear us? Oh, no, I sure hope so.
I’m hoping that she can talk because I really want to get some of her input. Miss Hadley, she’s got us muted. Yeah, so.
Well, yeah, I was really wanting to get some of her input. Well, Miss Hadley, part of what you missed was how to run an orgasm, what you think is a ruined orgasm, how you go about it. We also talked about anally stimulating somebody and then taking and then pulling that rug out from underneath them as well.
So all kinds of fun stuff. If you can get yourself to where you can talk, I would love to hear some of your input. Oh, you know, she’s got some some fun ones.
Oh, that’s why I want to hear it. I love hearing her opinion on things, especially when it comes to having full control. Oh, yeah.
And carrying out to the fullest what some of these subbies ask us to do to them, like painfully ruining their orgasms. Are you there, Miss Hadley? Hello. There you are.
Great. All right. First question to you.
Oh, what do you consider a ruined orgasm and how which is your favorite way to achieve it? Um, has Michelle already answered? Girl, I did. And you know what I said, you know, I do know. It’s just the best guy when it’s all that look.
A look on their face when they know it’s just it’s they’re just they’re so close. And then you like. Snatching the football away before Charlie.
Oh, I love that analogy. Perfect. That’s the best.
Like a little bit is good. I’m not going to I mean, that was my original answer until I heard goddess Michelle say that one the one true satisfactory awesomeness. Uh.
I gotta get just that. That look on their face. How can you not give into my plate? And oh, it’s delicious.
Deliciousness. So that’s my yes. Then we we we had a couple other questions.
I can’t remember. I’m right off the top of my head. But this one here is still fresh in my mind.
So I’m going to ask you about this one. Have you ever ruined somebody’s orgasm while having prostate stimulation control of them? Oh, for sure. For sure.
I mean, a little bit about that. So one of my favorite times, maybe my very favorite, but I’ll reserve that judgment for further consideration. I was playing with somebody who had been on the edge and begging for release.
And I had prostate stimulation going with my fingers and with insertables and with the business end of a jackrabbit. Not just for ladies. Until he physically couldn’t come, even when I gave him permission to do it.
And that was amazing because I finally was like, OK, you’ve earned you’ve earned it. Go ahead. And I had I was controlling his prostate with my fingers at that point.
And it was just flat down, steady pressure with my middle and ring fingers. But I think he’d just been on the edge and trying and begging and denied for so long that his when I finally said, go for it. His body was just like, we don’t trust you.
And he got nothing. It was amazing. He tried so hard.
The rage was delicious. And some part of the other part that you were missing. We were talking about some fun toys that you can do some anal stimulation and penile stimulation at the same time that you can control.
And I was telling the ladies, one of my favorite combinations is one of two. It depends on how aggressive they are as far as their butt play goes. But the ridge, if they’re kind of ambitious, I like that one.
And the edge for the prostate stimulation. And you can control both those. And then for the penile stimulation, I prefer one of my favorite ones to be able to control is the Solace Pro.
And I don’t know if you know what that one is, but that is basically a remote controlled pocket pussy that can be mounted to your desk. Oh, nice. Yeah.
Lots of fun. But and then I was telling Michelle and the other lady, you have to be cognizant of all of their little cues when you’re controlling toys like that, or you’re not going to ruin it because they’re going to get off. Sneaky little bastards.
Yeah, I know. But yeah, so the keeping track of their breaths, their noises, how they react is huge. And that is also one of the fun parts of ruining a man’s orgasm.
Don’t you all agree with that? Oh, yes. It’s so fun. Oh, the best part of it.
It is. Oh, just and I agree. I love it.
Like with the Solace Pro, I was telling them they can type because it’s hands free. They don’t have to do anything with their hands. So they can type and you can you can usually tell because their typing gets really bad.
Mm hmm. Yes. Oh, on a scale of cats, how do you feel today? Oh, boy.
I’m going to have to go with eight or seven or eight. I have a confession. Part of my absence.
I’m number one because part of my little absence when I was not here was getting a cocktail. Well, part of it, not the whole thing, a couple of minutes, but I had to extend my leave to get myself a mojito. Sorry, I didn’t have all the ingredients for yours this week, Krista.
Oh, that’s all right. That sounds delicious and so refreshing. Oh, what lovely.
You know, last week, our drink kind of got a little a little overwhelmed, but not a big deal. It was posted on the site. It was a moonshine mojito basically is what it was.
So good. Pearl, it was. Yeah, I replaced it with a moonshine.
So, yeah, it was it was actually pretty good. I remember seeing two of those moons after drinking that. Matter of fact, like tonight, it’s a the drink tonight is a version of a rum punch.
But instead of using rum, I switched it up with tequila. Girl, you’re making sure we get the weekend started off right, huh? That’s right. Well, I had I bought some extra.
They had at the liquor store. Full disclosure, they had Don Julio Blanco on sale. So I bought a couple of bottles.
That’s why we’re doing two of them to not have this week. Well, hopefully everybody has a good idea about ruined orgasms or a little bit clearer idea of ruined orgasms. What I would like to do now is start with Miss Hadley.
And if you had somebody that did not know or had no idea about a ruined orgasm, how would you explain to them what they’re about to go through? I’m setting aside for a moment that involvement and demonstration are the true way to get that point across. I think that I would explain to them that it means you get all of the aspects of your sexual adventures and exploitation, except the fireworks. Hmm.
OK. And that they should expect everything to be as they expected right until the very end, at which point the payoff would be the frustration they so deeply crave and knowing that they had conserved their sperm. A reward in itself, really.
OK. Joe Dirt, nice. Mud.
Yeah. All right. How about you, Miss Harper? What would you how would you tell somebody that’s never experienced it? What to expect? I would tell them to expect that they’re going to feel extremely horny afterwards.
That unlike a regular orgasm where you come and now you’re done, you’re not interested anymore, you’re no longer aroused, you’re no longer horny. You’re ready to roll over and go to sleep. You’re going to have this experience.
And at the end of it, you’re still going to be so fucking horny that you can’t think. And the only thought that you’re going to be able to focus on is how much you want to do that again. Oh, I love that.
Me too. Hell yeah, that’s the whole point. Leave them fucking hanging and wanting fucking more to come back.
Yeah. They’re going to come back again and again. They’re going to be horny.
They’re going to be eager and aching and desperate until they manage a full release, which isn’t going to happen anytime soon. I like that. Although for me, they’re not going to come back.
They’re going to return. Unless they’re lucky. Right.
How about you, Miss Bianca? I don’t think I can top that. This is essentially what it is. Pretty much.
What is the ruined orgasm? Well, you’re going to have a real good fun time until you don’t. Oh, I like that. That’s straight to the point.
And Goddess Michelle, I know you have something to add. The only thing that I can really liken it to is that movie Heavy Metal. If you’ve ever seen that animated movie Heavy Metal, there’s a part in it where like everyone is excited because they think that they’re going to get to see this woman’s breasts or see her naked.
But you never do. And like the whole movie, you watch the whole thing hoping to see them sweet titties or at least a glimpse of that beautiful glistening bush. And it never happens.
But did that stop anyone from watching the second Heavy Metal movie? No. Did it stop anybody from watching the third Heavy Metal movie? No. Everyone kept watching those movies because they really, really, really wanted to see some boobies and see some snatch.
That’s what ruined orgasms are like. And you will come back and watch my movie over and over again, hoping, praying that you get a glimpse, that you get like the tiniest little leak from the head of your dick. But it’s not going to happen and you’re going to come back.
I knew you could add something perfect to that. Thank you. You’re so welcome.
I got you girl. Eventually, eventually you’ll see it, right? Eventually? Maybe, yeah. Can I toss it? I have a brother who hung a poster of a woman holding a beer stein.
And she’s wearing a very cropped top that showed the bottom of her breasts right up to just before where the areolas start. And he hung that poster upside down on his bedroom door. And when my dad asked him, our dad asked him, why is that poster upside down? He looked at him and said, well, I figure that shirt’s going to fall eventually.
I love that. That is awesome. Well, ladies, this has been a lot of fun.
Does anybody have any announcements? I do. So our social medias, if any of you remember, we held a vote to pick our new social media name. Sadly, the name that ended up winning didn’t work out because it was too many letters.
But we have our new socials. And I want you guys to follow us on there. Just add us and let’s have fun.
But you can find us now at FemDom Fridays, FemDom underscore Fridays. Let me just drop that link in here. It’s brand new.
So it’s going to take us a little bit to get some things up there. You can still follow us at our old FemDom Fridays account in the interim. But this is our new one so that you can add us and start hanging out and start giving us some ideas for some things you’d like to see on the show or extend the conversation because we talk about some wild things in these chats.
Like if any of you are heavy metal fans, hit me up. I’ll post some stuff over there. Comment, like.
Love to hear from you. Love that movie, by the way. I love the music.
So good. Yes. And one day we’ll see those titties.
Maybe, maybe. I still like Hadley’s brother’s idea. You know, eventually that top’s going to fall.
I like that. That got me up. Well, I do have an announcement.
I want questions. I’m going to be in the hot seat. I want questions.
And I want good questions. I want you to put some thought behind your questions. Stuff that you really want to know.
I just dropped the link. Fill out that form and give me some good questions. Mark those calendars.
June 19th. Yes. Oh, that’s going to be so fun.
I’m hosting that night. Yay. Oh, yay.
Oh, I like that. Perfect. Hot seat, hot seat.
That’s right. And for those who don’t know, I was on the maiden voyage of the hot seat. Way back when we first started.
There was a trial run and then I was the first really advertised one. So it’s been a while. I’m kind of hoping to get some good, good questions now.
And also, not only am I in the hot seat this month, but I’m also, this is Michelle and I’s anniversary month. Yay. There’s a couple of other mistresses.
I don’t know who they are. Me and Michelle came here at the same time. So that’s why I know her.
So show us some love. Give us some good questions. Because Michelle’s going to want to toast my buns.
Oh, yeah, girl. That’s a perfect pairing for the hot seat. It’s both the anniversaries and everything.
Yes. And my bestie’s going to be hosting. You can’t go wrong with that.
Hot Girl Summer comes with toasted buns. All right. And speaking of Hot Girl Summer, you guys have an opportunity to win some free minutes this month.
If you purchase any session for 30 minutes, you get entered into a drawing to win one of 10 free 30 minute calls. So get those in. Hit us up.
We would love to talk to you. And help us score some free minutes. You get us up.
We’ll get you up. Unless you ask for a ruined orgasm and then we’ll get you up. We won’t let you get done.
No happy endings on those. That’s a promise. Out of the starting gate.
But not across the finish line. Yep. You’re gonna trip over that last hurdle.
And faceplant. Same. Oh, you ladies keep me young.
Love y’all. So much fun. Yes.
Anybody else have anything that they would like to add? Join Whore School on Sunday. Get to hear me rant about AI. That’ll be fun.
I was looking at what Mott posted. It was somebody going over the hurdle in faceplanting. That would be fun.
Thank you Harper. Any opportunity to rant about AI I’m here for. Yes.
Oh god yes. And if anybody wants to find out the benefits of chastity and orgasm control, join me tomorrow night. We’re gonna have fun.
So. Woo. Meet me tomorrow night.
Miss Harper on Sunday. Make sure you check all of the podcasts that just dropped. Miss Becky.
Miss Olivia. Erica. I’m not sure.
Does Rachel still have one that drops? I can’t remember. But. I think she’s on hiatus.
She’s on a hiatus. That’s what I thought. So and then you got Miss Kamarie on Tuesday.
Live show here on Discord. You have Miss Constance Wednesday. And Miss Hunter on Thursday.
So you have a week full of all kinds of funny stuff. And fun stuff. So don’t miss any of it.
Now thank you all for listening to Femdom Fridays. And hearing us rant and go about our thing. You can catch us every Friday night at 9 Eastern on the Discord Enchantrix server.
But you must be 18 or older to participate. Listen to the replay every Saturday on your favorite podcast platform. Or on the FemdomFridays.com site.
You can check it out there as well. Good night everybody. And until next week.
You all stay safe and stay horny. Good night. Good night.
Nighty night. Good night everybody. Night night.
See you next week. I got next week. See you next week.
Oh yeah.
