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Queen. Hey there. Hi.
Welcome. Welcome, welcome. Yeah, so happy to have you all here.
And we got Callie. Hi everyone. Hi.
And Patti. And President of the KMRE. And Ivy.
Hello. Hi, hello. And John.
Hello, John. Snuck right in there. I flipped my eyes away for a second.
Serpentine. Oh, that’s a cute name. I like that.
Serpentine. And I love your image too. That’s from Ninja Scrolls, right? Fucking love that anime.
Gorgeous. Well, happy late birthday, Patti. Yes.
Yeah. Do you want us to sing to you? We can. We sing now.
We can give you thoughts that you will never be able to forget. No matter how hard you try or how much counseling you get, you’ll never forget it. I’m sorry you have a cold.
Hope it goes fast. I know. Big hugs.
Welcome, Miss Patti. Well, I just want to. Oh, sorry.
What were you going to say? No, go ahead. Go ahead. I was just going to welcome everybody to Femdom Fridays.
You can find us live every Friday at 9 p.m. Eastern on the Enchantrix Empire Discord server. But you must be 18 or older to join. You can listen to the replay every Saturday on your favorite podcast platform.
How is everyone doing tonight? Excellent. That’s good because we are going to have some fun tonight. We are going to talk about Femdom Strap-On Play and we are going to grill our mistress hot seat guest, who also happens to be our mistress of the month for February, the lovely, wonderful Miss Sasha.
Can you say hi, Miss Sasha? Hi, Miss Sasha. Oh, just one sec. I am troubleshooting.
All righty. Well, we will leave you be for the time being. If you all want to connect or learn a little bit more about Miss Sasha, you can find her at these wonderful spots.
Oh, that’s so fantastic. Look at you go. Check her out because she is wonderful.
And I would love for our lovely panel this evening to introduce themselves and let everybody know where they can find them. Miss Krista, would you mind starting us off? Well, of course, I am Miss Krista and you can find me at phonesexfetishblog.com. You can also find me on Saturday nights at 9 p.m. on Kinks & Drinks. I have a Discord username of LDWKrista.
My ex handle is at KristaEnchants. And Blue Sky is MissKrista with a Z.BSKY.social. Or you can email me at Krista at EnchantrixEmpire.com. Thank you, Miss Krista. I’ll be dropping your credentials in just a second.
I have them. Oh, you do? Wow. Well, please drop them in.
I’m going to. Next up, Miss Harper, would you mind letting everybody know where they can find you? I feel like I’m surrounded by some like really competent on the ball adult human beings tonight and I am not. I do not have my links handy.
That’s all right. I gotcha. I am the hostess of Whore School, which is adult sex education.
It airs every Sunday evening from 11 to midnight on the East Coast, 8 to 9 on the West Coast. Check out Whoreschool.net. That’s the blog that goes with the podcast and it’s full of goodness. You’re welcome.
You’ll like it. I also have a blog, fetishphonesexblog.com. I’m on Twitter, Enchantrix Harper, no I. Yes, there’s a typo. It’s fine.
I’m on Blue Sky, Harper Enchantrix, because I like to mix things up and make it hard to find me. And of course, if you’re on Discord, hit me up, LDW Harper. I think that’s everything, right? It sounds that you had a very thorough smattering of places for them to find you.
So I think you were great. I’m all over the place. I’m everywhere.
Goodness. Would it be fair to say you’re omniscient? I am omnipresent. I’m omnipresent.
I’m omnibenevolent. I am all the omnis. Y’all heard it here, folks.
Miss Bianca, would you mind letting everyone know where they can find you? Yes. I’ve got you. EnchantrixBianca, KinkyPhoneFantasy.com. On Discord is EnchantrixBianca, LDWBianca.
MissBiancaEE on X. Blue Sky is EnchantrixBianca. That’s where I’m at. And of course, Femdom Fridays.
And we are so glad to have you here, Miss Bianca. Glad to be here. I love all you ladies.
Yes, yes. Miss Becky. First of all, I have to say, I just learned a new word.
Omni-mathematical. Ooh, I like that. Ooh.
All the omnis. Addie, I love that. So yes.
I’m Miss Becky. You can find me at IntelligentPhoneSexCalls.com. You can find me on X at MissBeckyEnchants, and that’s miss with an M-S. You can find me here on Discord at LDWBecky.
That’s probably one of the easiest ways to reach out to me. And you can find my podcast, Kinkology, The Psychology of Kink, on your favorite streaming platform. And I just threw up a new episode today, which was How to Find Your Perfect Femdom Mistress.
Ooh, that was very helpful. Love that. Well, let’s get right into the thick of it.
Tonight, we’re going to be talking about Femdom Strap-on-Play. I just want to kind of put out there that the difference between Femdom Strap-on-Play and just, I guess, your regular, run-of-the-mill variety Femdom or Strap-on-Play is that Femdom Strap-on-Play is directed by a femdom. So that’s like basically the difference.
And tonight, we’re going to cover a couple of things. I just want to give a quick thank you to Ivy, because they really inspired this episode. They’ve been helping me out with my wishlist for the things that I want for my opulent abundance in 2026.
If y’all remember, one of my things on my list in order to achieve that was having more Femdom Strap-on-Play phone sex sessions. So this is a way of manifesting that, not just for me, but for everyone here. The first thing, and before we get into the thick of Strap-on-Play, Ms. Krista, would you mind telling us about tonight’s drink? Well, of course, it’s called Peg Legging.
And the reason I named it that is because when I went and looked up a few things, the Urban Dictionary actually defines it as, um, pegging started with pirates sticking their peg legs up each other’s ass and didn’t really become overly popular until the creation of dildos. But that’s where it got its start, was the good old pirates pegging each other with their peg legs. And this drink is made of Tennessee Moonshine.
It’s got two ounces of Tennessee Moonshine, four ounces or a quarter ounce of peach vodka, fresh orange juice, and fresh, um, raspberry juice. You garnish it with an orange well. And this is a drink that you stir, not shake.
And just for you, Michelle, this company, also, they have a very wide range of Moonshines, and they actually have a pancake batter Moonshine. Oh, stop it! Oh, how dare you? I’m just kidding. But I imagine it’s an eggnog flavor.
Yes, it’s an eggnog Moonshine, but pancake batter just for you. Oh, destroy me, Bestie. You do it so well.
Well, onto our first topic of the evening, I would like to know what is on everyone’s strap-on-play wish list. I have a couple of things that I would like to share just to get us started. And again, these are thanks to Ivy.
Thank you for your wonderful recommendations. The first thing on my wish list is a lovely, ejaculating, realistic-looking BBC, because if I have a cock, it’s going to be big, and it’s going to be black. Black, yeah.
So take a gander and enjoy. Ooh. Should I put a spoiler on that one? Oh, I love it.
Contain yourselves, everyone. Look at the veins. Slap it, slap it, inches.
Imagine those balls slapping against your sub’s ass. I was thinking their chin or their forehead. Oh, yeah.
Ivy said, and it’s going to come. Yes. Well, you could use that for like a paddle, too.
You could smack that ass with that thing. There you go. Woman after my own heart.
Got to do some cock slapping. Maybe even cock slap her face. Yes.
Yes. Making people’s mouth water. Would you ladies like to share? Becky, would you share your strap, anything on your playlist, not playlist, but your strap-on-play wishlist that you would like to let us all know about? Well, I tell you what.
I found some pretty little harnesses that I’ve got my eye on, and I’ll show you. Look at this one I found on Etsy. It’s fucking majestic.
It’s so pretty. Oh, that is beautiful. Like bespoke, right? Yeah, so pretty.
And then I found this one, which is like, oh, what is that with the railroad? Isn’t that like steampunk? That’s what it reminds me of, steampunk. That looks so pretty. I would look so good in that.
Yes, you would. Yes. Yes.
And then I did also like this. You know, I like the ones that vibrate so prettily. Well, if you’re gonna peg somebody, you ought to get some enjoyment out of it too.
So I’m all for those. Hell yes. Thank you so much, Miss Becky, for sharing all that gorgeousness.
Miss Bianca, is there anything on your list that you’d like to share? I just had a couple things, and I found this. This is awesome. Absolutely great.
Now, it’s not, this is kind of like strap on plate. You don’t have to wear your strap on all the time. All right, just keep that in mind.
I’m dropping this. This is fucking absolutely fantastic. Oh, oh, oh my god.
Oh, fuck yeah. I just accidentally seen that because Esty has some wonderful leather strap on harnesses that have been in my wish list forever. Like they’re so pretty and stuff, but also.
So pretty. I’m gonna share. I gotta find it.
Where’d it go? I lost it. This, though, always have these always around. Let’s see.
This one’s just, it’s made by a company ran by lesbians. But it is wonderful for fucking women with. It stays in place.
It’s amazing. You put your little piece of your toy. It has a part for you so you can like get off while you’re getting them off.
I love it. Yes, Felicia, come right on over. Right here on my lap, baby.
Miss Harper, would you mind letting us in on what things are on your strap on plate? Wish list. I have too many things on my strap on wish list. All of them.
Everything. There’s some cute things. Why do you keep showing me cute straps? I have most of the tools that I enjoy the most.
I have a lapis from Leavens. I have the Cher from Fun Factory. The one I don’t have yet from Tantus.
The Tantus real strapless. Mostly because it just looks really interesting. Let me find you a link to this bad boy.
Oh, my God. Oh, that is pretty. So it’s strapless.
That basically means one end goes inside of me and one end goes inside of you and it has a vibrator. And look at the little bumps and the little bumps are in the perfect. Yes, they are.
Yes, they are. Those bumps, those are the clit bumps. And notice where the vibrator is located.
So it’s focusing all of that vibration right to the base of that strap because I’ve seen them. So like the lapis, it has two motors or three motors? Three. Three motors.
It has one in the tip, one in the bulb and one at the clit. And it can get a little hot when it’s running. That’s my main critique of the lapis.
It gets too warm and then my pussy is hot in a not fun way. You can’t have the pussy on fire like that. Yeah.
The Cher. I like it when it gets hot. Girl.
I’ve never had that problem myself. I may have been using it for too long. I don’t know.
I’m a marathon girl. Five hours later, Harper’s like, this thing is running way too hot. It’s just too hot for my taste.
God. Her pussy is a hot pussy on the lapis. But you know, also when you’re like drilling stuff, you have to put that oil and stuff on to keep the metal from getting really hot.
Well, I do that with mine. I just keep oiling it down there and keep it nice and lubricated. So this, this is the Velvet Kiss.
It’s leather. Some people like that it’s leather. Other people don’t like that it’s leather, but it’s from Extreme Restraints.
I have one that’s very, very similar to this one. Also leather, completely adjustable. You can change out the O-ring so you can fit in different size dildos and different types and shapes.
Because it’s so adjustable, it lets you place that O-ring lower down. So you don’t have the problem of it looks like you have a dick coming out from three inches below your belly button. Bothers me.
And it works great with even the strapless dildos. Because if you get turned on enough when using a strapless dildo and you orgasm, you can shoot a dildo out of your pussy. Ask me how I know.
Silicone incoming. So careful, you blow somebody’s eye out with that. If you’re lucky.
Well, there’s a lot of people who are like, oh, I want you to cum on my face. I’m like, well, technically. Oh my god.
So a strap like this, a little harness can help prevent you from accidentally launching your dildo across the room. Take some notes. And without further ado, was there anything else you wanted to share, Harper, before I move on to Krista? That was my excellent advice.
Hell yes. And on to our hybrid mixtures. What’s on your strap-on wish list? Saving the best for last.
Well, I actually have pretty much everything I ever wanted as far as strap-on play. I love that one that Becky posted first. That one with the beautiful filigree and it looked kind of like a corset.
I love the look of that. So that will go on my list. But for the most part, my favorites, I love using this one in the Lovin’s Harness.
I also, that’s the Gravity. What is nice about that one is it fits in the Lovin’s Harness really well. And not only does it vibrate, but it also thrusts.
So while I’m thrusting, it’s going to thrust too. And we’re going to get to parts that you haven’t experienced in quite some time. And it’s nine inches.
And when it thrusts, it’s just about 10. So that one’s a lot of fun. And then I love this one as well.
This one is, it’s kind of, it’s Nate. Very similar. This one has a heating action to it.
So it is wonderful as well. It’s called the Mission 2. And it fits well in the Lovin’s Harness as well. Yes, that, I want that.
That is so pretty. I grabbed you the link. Yeah.
So that you can grab that link. Oh, I already did. Way ahead of you.
And then this is the harness I prefer because it just works so good. And it is the Lovin’s Harness. And it keeps everything in place.
So you don’t have those malfunctions like Harper was talking about and have dildo missiles shooting out of your pussy. Yeah, pussy missile. Don’t want dildo missiles.
No. Well, that could actually be fun. Right? Shoot that thing straight out.
Bam. Hit him right in the forehead with it. Those are my go-tos.
Now, I also have Bruno. Everybody knows about Bruno, right? We talk about Bruno. Yes, we do.
Oh, I will have to show you Bruno. Give me just a second. Bruno is, he’s my bull that I like to use on subbies that have been a little disobedient.
Let’s just call it that. And this is Bruno next to one of my other strapless strap-ons. So you get an idea of Bruno’s qualities.
Oh, look at those fucking ripples. Yeah, Bruno will actually get your attention. Bruno is about 11 inches and he’s about six and a quarter inches around.
He requires a special harness. Yes, he does. I would rather have Bruno approaching me with love than with anger.
Yeah, that one is the one I use when I’m being aggressive. Michelle’s like, nice Bruno. Good Bruno.
Kind Bruno. But anyway, if you ever hear me talking about a date with Bruno, that is Bruno and that’s who you’ll get to encounter. Bruno.
Oh, thank you so much for sharing, Krista. Oh, you bet. My pleasure.
Now, Ms. Hatley, we are so glad to have you in here finally. Was there anything that you wanted to drop in the chat that’s on your strap-on play wishlist? I have a link here someplace. I’ll get to that in a minute.
My actual strap-on was custom made for me by a company called Stormy Leathers a while ago, so I don’t really have a link to that. I was a friend of the Toy Masters and they sent me and made me my own. I’ll drop it where everyone can find you in the chat.
Thank you very much. I’ll drop a link in a minute. Go ahead.
Sorry about the unpreparedness this moment. I had some unexpected good news right before we came on, which is why I’m late and I’m still at strangers. I won a raffle.
Yay. I had to go get cash. Yay, honey.
Congratulations. Well done. Hallelujah.
We live it. Yeah. Well, then I will move us on to our next question.
For our second topic, I just wanted to get you guys’ opinions on what are essential components for a femdom strap-on session. For me personally, because you’re going to be worshiping my gorgeous big black cock, I need cock worship to start. I need you to worship that gorgeous strap.
Ms. Hackley, well, I’ll give you a second to do what you need to do. Ms. Bianca, what are some components to a good femdom strap-on session in your opinion? The lube. Seriously, the build-up for me.
Yes, I love the fucking part. I love the domination. I love the different positions you can be in, but it’s the build-up.
Like you first say, worshiping it, show it respect, give it kisses, follow it, bow to it. This is for you. This is what’s coming, and you’re going to enjoy it.
The build-up is really fun. I love to tease, like, you want this? Are you sure you want this? I don’t think you want this. I don’t know.
Have it as submissive, whether it’s female or male. Sit on your dick. It’s so nice.
Lube and a nice build-up until we get to the fun part. Ms. Becky, would you mind sharing with us what components you think are required or should be a part of any good femdom strap-on session? If I say mirrors, will you guys think that I’m so vain? Oh, girl, we’d be right. I love it.
I love having a nice mirror, just watching myself sink into my subbie. That, to me, is just perfect. Perfection.
That. A nice, eager, willing spirit. Enthusiastic consent.
Obedience. Because, I mean, you got to remember, I got my big fucking cock out, so you better be a good boy. Hell yeah, you better.
Ms. Harper, can we get your opinions on what is necessary for a good femdom strap-on session? For a really good, well, okay, I can tell you how to screw up a femdom strap-on session. If you’re not prepared, or if you have any form of- No, I’m not going to put any fingers in my butt. If you’ve got that going on, we are not going to have a good time, because I will take my big cock and try to ruin your whole- So, like, communicate plenty of willingness to prep and stretch so that I’m not going to actually harm you, right? And if what you’re angling for is a, like, a big hard dick just taking your ass, at least have the balls to say that.
And don’t try to provoke me into it, because making me angry or frustrated when I’m about to do something that should feel really good for me, boy, no. Uh-uh. I’m gonna finger your ass open so nice and slow and easy you’re gonna be goddamn crying because you want me to hurry up.
We go at my pace or not at all. You don’t like it? Damn right. Hell yeah.
I love that. Absolutely. We tolerate no disrespect.
Can you tell I had a call earlier today that involved all of that? I’m so glad we could help you process. That’s what we’re here for. This is like therapy.
This is therapy for me. I get to yell at people. Miss Krista, would you mind sharing? Oh, sorry about that.
That’s okay. I was just gonna say Tiny Peen Bukkake Queen shared hers, and it’s looking very nice. Very nice.
Thanks for sharing. Mm-hmm. Yes, we appreciate that.
And thank you, Hadley, for dropping all those links. Yeah, that corset leather strap on is, if you look in the link, it’s adjustable in back, so if your size changes a little bit around the holidays or whatever, you can literally let it out if you need to. And it’s got a little uh for her pleasure where you can put a magic wand or a vibrating head wand massager up against your kitty while you’re getting busy.
I like that. That might have to go on my list too. Hell yeah.
I was just gonna ask Hadley if she’d like to share her opinions on necessary components for a femdom strap-on session. In addition to a regular harness strap-on, I also have one also that I also got from Stringy Leather that was called Thigh One Off, which is you can put it around a chair or your thigh or the lid of your washing machine, and that’s super fun. And I think for strap-on play, the three most important things are patience, lube, and communication.
Oh, I like that. So succinct. No such thing as too much lube.
And saving the best for last, yet again, Ms. Krita, would you let us know your components for a fabulous femdom strap-on session? Well, first and foremost, I want my sub to beg. I want them to plead. I want them to want it more than I want to give it to them, and that is a very big challenge.
And lube, lube, and more lube. And the one thing that I don’t want in it is anybody that has any kind of homophobia thoughts about getting fucked in the ass by their um, mistress. If a mistress is doing anything to you that is not gay.
If you have a woman doing something to you, it is not gay. So get over it. Enjoy it.
And take everything I’m going to give you. And trust me, when I tell you what I’m going to give you is going to be an extreme orgasm. Or as I like to call them, Krista-gasms.
Yes. And just to round out our conversation and transition into our time with our lovely Mistress Hotsy guests, I wanted to get Ms. Sasha’s opinions on femdom strap-on play. Maybe a couple of things that you like.
Oh, I love strap-on play. It’s just such a wonderful way to dominate your submissive. Just fabulous.
And I really agree that the most important things to start out the strap-on play, lube, lube, lube. Communication. Willingness to try if you haven’t already done this, or done it with this particular strap-on.
And enthusiasm. And again, communication. Yes.
Yes, yes. Yes. I think that is a wonderful way to twist around things out.
What were you going to say, Ms. Hadley? I’m sorry for talking over you. Oh, just the word agree. It slipped out of my mouth.
Yes. I agree. Patience, lube, communication.
Go, go, go. 100%. Well, like I mentioned earlier, we are going to be getting to know our Mistress Hotsy guest, Ms. Sasha, a little bit more.
I don’t know if anybody here knows, but she is our February Mistress of the Month. Ms. Sasha, do you mind letting us know what that entails, being the Mistress of the Month? What happens when you’re the Mistress of the Month? Well, a big thing for the listeners is that if you call me and you’re on a call for 10 minutes or more, then you get an extra five minutes free. We get to spend more time together and potentially get to know each other better or have more fun together.
But whatever it might be, it’s a bonus for you. Oh, I love that. And you guys have until the end of the month to get those calls in, right? That’s right.
And you can only do it one time a day. You can’t do it three times in one day. But on the other hand, you can do it every single day in the month.
So take advantage of it. Yes. Now we’re going to be asking you questions in order.
I’m going to start with Ms. Becky, then go to Bianca, then Hadley, then Harper, then Krista, then me. Is everybody set on the rotation? Does that make sense to everyone? Absolutely. I just got to find the document.
Yes. I got it. All right.
Well, Mr. Sasha, what made you get into phone domination? Well, the ever interesting origin story. This happened shortly before the pandemic started and the office that I had been working in forever shut down. And then the pandemic started.
And so although I had been hired at another place, I couldn’t stay there because they had shut down completely. So I thought, hey, here I am at home. What can I do? I actually got into cam work to begin with.
And cam work was fun. But then after a while, I thought, you know, I should be making clips. I should be doing this and that.
And I am just not good in front of a camera. I mean, in terms of a call, yes. But I don’t like doing the clips.
I suck at the lighting. I suck at angles. So I thought, OK, I can’t do it, but I can do phone calls.
And so here I am all these years later. Beautiful answer. Oh, now it’s my turn to toast your buns.
I see. Was there a specific moment, situation or circumstance in your life when you realized the extent of control you have over men? The extent of my control probably happened during those cam sessions. That’s when I realized, oh, I could be working with this here.
But as I said, I didn’t like the cam work. So got into phone work and found it just as satisfying. And every single call since then, almost every single call has reinforced that for me.
I listen to the reaction of the men on the other end of the line and I think, oh, this is so satisfying. Oh, excellent. That’s hot.
I love it. I think I’m next. Ms. Sasha, what do you find most rewarding about being a mistress? Oh, boy, I guess it’s a couple of things.
It’s when I can lead someone into their most profound orgasm that they’ve had recently or ever. That’s fabulous when I hear their reaction at the other end of the phone. And the other things that I find really rewarding is when I can help someone make a step forward with their sexuality.
Maybe they’ve been afraid to try something specific and they’ve suddenly got their nerve up to call, to talk to someone that someone happens to be me. We work through their hesitations. I don’t rush them, but we work through them.
And then either they try it and find out, oh, I don’t like this after all. The fantasy doesn’t hold up or it’s tremendously rewarding for them. And their satisfaction just makes me feel so happy.
You sound like you’re very, very much a compersion sort of a person. Somebody else’s pleasure really pleases you a whole lot. I adore that about you.
Oh, my God. Well, it does. But don’t forget that some of these calls really turn me on too.
It’s not completely one way. Well, Miss Sasha, what advice would you give to someone new to femdom phone sex? You know, I think the most important thing again, and I sound like I’m banging the same gong over and over, but communicate. Don’t just pick up a phone and get on to some random person and say, I’m yours to do what you want with mistress.
No, but at least have an idea about what you like. Do you like humiliation? Do you like certification? Do you like the idea of cuckolding? And then tell the mistress that you talk to, and if possible, take a look at our profiles in advance so you can see if you think we’re going to be a good match. If you can’t do that, that’s okay.
Spend some time maybe talking to the mistress that you get connected with, that the dispatcher puts you through to, and just say, here’s what I like, or what I think I like. Here’s what I know I don’t like, and let’s go be cautious around this. And just know that it’s okay for you to have limits.
You don’t have to do every single thing that your mistress says to you to do. If you’re really against humiliation, for example, then for goodness sake, don’t just leave yourself wide open to that. I’ll take a quick breath.
I could go on and on and on about that, but just communicate is the big, big thing. Amen. I guess I’m next.
Is there something you’ve really wanted to do on a call, like a specific kink or fantasy, but haven’t because no one has asked for it yet? It’s such an interesting question, and the answer is no. I have had a variety of different kinks on my calls. I can say that there are calls I wish I had more of.
I don’t seem to get as many. For example, I love the ignore calls. I love it when somebody calls and says, oh, I want you to just ignore me, mistress.
I don’t deserve to be in your presence, but I’ll listen. And so then I’ll write a blog post or I’ll do some house cleaning or whatever. And those are fun, you know, and periodically I’ll check in and say, I’m still ignoring you.
You’re right. You don’t deserve to have any of my attention. So there’s that.
And more so than the ignore calls, I love trance calls. I find that trance calls can be so rewarding to the caller, and they’re so much fun for me. And, you know, you can have a more profound, knee-shaking orgasm in a trance call than outside of a trance call, more often than not.
And so I would love to be able to give more of those calls, airtime, so to speak. And I am actually writing a blog post about trance calls. Look for it tomorrow, Sunday, something like that.
I love that. And you have a spectacular voice for trance calls. Like I feel myself, you know, things are going fuzzy as you talk in a good way.
That’s good. I’m glad to hear that. Thank you.
To me, my voice just sounds ordinary, but other people have said what you just said too. Wonderful. That is gorgeous.
Well, I wanted to know, what do you look for in a person that wants to establish a long-term phone sex relationship with you? Right. Okay. I am looking for, here it comes again, communication.
I want them to be willing to tell me what they like, tell me what they don’t like. And if they’re interested in long-term, what I will do is send them a kink list and say, okay, I want you to rank all of these kinks. These are the kinks that I am willing to do.
There’s no trick questions on here. And I say, just go through here. And starting with five being, oh my God, I can’t live without it.
All the way down to zero as in, oh my God, don’t ever come near me with this. That’s a hard limit. I just want you to rank every single one of them.
Even if your answer is, I don’t know anything at all about this, then write that in. And I have a scoring sheet, et cetera. So that’s number one, communicate with me.
And then throughout the rest of our time together, continue to communicate with me. And let’s not forget that sometimes things will come up that we can’t anticipate in the middle of a session. So I always give out a safe word and I expect you to use that safe word.
I expect you to protect yourself and I’ll stop right away and we can decompress, see what’s going on. So communication is key. Being willing to stand up for your own safety is key.
Number three, being respectful, being polite. Don’t try to top from the bottom. And finally, just don’t be a dick, okay? I mean, I’ve had a few people try to engage me in long-term domination.
And if you’re not going to be a decent human being around me, I’m not interested. How can you tell I have strong feelings about things, hey? All right. We love your strong feelings though.
That lets us know exactly who you are and where your limits are and also communicates to those people who want a long-term relationship with you how they should behave. Beautiful. I think I’m up again.
So Ms. Sasha, you seem so nice. Can you also be strict or are you also strict? Well, anybody who says to me, oh, you’re so nice has clearly never met my inner bitch. And maybe that’s a good thing.
I don’t know. But yes, I can totally be strict. Absolutely.
And you know what? I might be polite while I’m being strict. I am Canadian after all, which we are famous for our politeness, but I’m still going to be strict. And anybody who’s ever been teased and denied by me is going to know that.
We love a strict mistress. Well, it’s my turn again. When it comes to being in control of a man’s orgasms, do you always deny them? Or is there wiggle room for begging, pleading, desperate sobs to get permission to come? There’s some wiggle room.
Yes. But you better convince me that it’s authentic. I don’t want to hear fake mock little pleas just so you can have an easy orgasm.
I want to hear genuine desperation in your voice. Well, right from the mistress’s mouth, make her believe it. I love that.
So when you’re doing a scene, do you enjoy body worship? And if you do, what part or parts of your body are your favorites for a good little subbie to worship for you? Oh, yeah. I do enjoy body worship. And my absolute favorite is to have the subbie on the floor in front of me, naked, and to have my shoes, my boots, my feet worshipped over and over.
That is my absolute favorite spot. I love that. Sexy.
Thank you. Miss Sasha, we know that you sing. And that means you just became my favorite person.
So you can sing. You love music. Is there a singer or genre that you turn on that you bang your drum to? Well, first, I don’t know that I can sing.
I know that I do sing, but I’m not going to be slamming out a recording anytime soon. It depends entirely on my mood. And that question was a little vague.
And my answer is going to be a little vague, too, because again, it really depends on my mood. So I love so many different kinds of music. So depending on my mood, it could be anything from blues, jazz, classical, rockabilly, Dixieland, reggae, anything at all.
I like lively music. That’s going to be probably my first criteria, but not my only one. I love that.
I love it. Loud, good beats, lively. Do you like banjos? Sometimes.
You know what? Ding, ding, ding, ding, ding. Yeah. Yes, yes, exactly.
I have been known to enjoy a bit of banjo here and there. There was a pop song a while ago. I don’t remember what it was, but it had banjos in it, and I definitely enjoyed the banjos in that one.
Yes. Well, changing gears a little bit. What is your favorite sweet snack? And what is your favorite savory snack? Oh, okay.
Well, sweet. It’s a three-way tie, and I don’t know that this is a snack exactly, but three-way tie has to be anything lemon. Lemon pie, lemon cake, lemon cookies, you name it.
Or rhubarb strawberry pie, which I just swoon over. And I’ve gotten a lot of pushback when I tell people I love rhubarb, but hey, I’m in Saskatchewan. Rhubarb is all around us.
Every farm has rhubarb. Half of the city yards have rhubarb. I make rhubarb everything, but rhubarb strawberry pie is absolutely my favorite rhubarb dish.
And the third sweet thing that I like, shortbread. Shortbread cookies are fabulous. And how about your savory snack? Savory again would be a tie, and this isn’t exactly a snack again, but it’s what I’m going to tell you.
I love, number one, falafel. Falafel in a pita with tzatziki sauce and cucumbers and tomatoes and spinach. And then the other one is chana masala, the chickpea curry with basmati rice and naan bread.
Maybe a salad to go with it. Sounds delicious. Oh, it is.
Oh, I know, right? Yummy. Make me hungry. Yes.
Well, this is going to be the last question of the evening for you, Miss Sasha. And I, like everyone else, would like to know, since foreplay starts outside of the bedroom, what are some of the ways that you like to get revved up before the act? Oh, boy. Well, we all know that foreplay arousal begins in the brain, right? So I like anything that even hints at what might be happening next.
So if I stroke my partner, my partner strokes me just a certain way, then there’s that. And yeah, just starting to think about what might lie ahead, imagining a scene, just using the power of my mind to really get myself all turned on. That’s definitely what does it for me.
Huh? Hell, yes. By your will alone, you set your mind into motion. Love that.
Well, before we head out for the evening, I wanted to first thank Miss Sasha for showing up tonight. We also have a few announcements. Right now, we are running a midnight early morning special for all you night owls.
I think there’s a few of us on the panel that work late at night, right, that work into the overnights. I know I do. And I’ve seen, Miss Krista, you’re around most of the time, right? Yep.
For those late, late night hour calls. Any other girlies do the late? I do. I do.
Yeah. Yep. Awesome.
If you guys want to talk to us late at night, this special is for you. Between 12 a.m. and 6 a.m., 10-minute calls are $20 or $9.90 off a longer call. So, what’s up? Have the time? Also, I wanted to see, is anyone else in our, on our panel, involved in our Enchantress Empire small penis humiliation contest? I’m curious to know.
Me, me, me. Me, me, me. Me and Harper just put the link down at the exact same second.
Yeah. Awesome. We’re very excited.
Yes. Would either of you like to tell us? We’re very excited about it. We want to find the smallest penis in the entire empire so that we can point and laugh, I mean, celebrate the fact that it’s so cute.
Yeah, nah, we’re gonna point and laugh at it. We want to find a little teeny tiny dick. And just think, guys, you enter the contest and you may just be the biggest.
And you, I know you’ve never had that being told to you before. It’s like, oh my god, look at the size of that guy. That one’s way too big.
It’s too big to win the smallest penis contest. Oh my god. Ew.
God. I’m sorry, we’re gonna have to reject your penis for being too big. Yes.
All two inches of you are way too big. Oh. I do specialize in big cock humiliation.
Big cock humiliation. All two inches of that. Oh my god, what are you gonna do with all of it? It’s just too much.
It’s too much. We can’t handle it. It’s just too big.
And just so everybody knows, if you’re under two inches, you’re still a virgin. I don’t care. But you’re not.
You have never been laid. What is it you call those? You’ve never been inside of one. Lipticklers.
Yes. Oh. That’s all, bitch.
Lipticklers. If you’ve ever had a woman who you were trying to have sex with and she says, is it in yet? You should enter our contest. Are you in yet? Yes.
Yeah, that should be the tagline, are you in yet? Yes, I love that. Or if you look down and you see a chicklet stuck in gum, when you look at your cock and balls, you should definitely be in our contest. Yes.
If a bag of baby carrots makes you jealous, you should be in our contest. Yeah, I was gonna say, tiny peen, cocky queen, you really need to join. Just based on the screen name alone, I feel like this is home for you.
Yes, I love that. Did you ladies have any other things you wanted to plug? Were we still talking about strap-ons? Speaking of plugs. Yes, I got several things I would like to plug.
Got it. Well, I have a, if anybody wants to call. No, go ahead.
I was just gonna say that anybody who is still, you know, kind of stuck on our topic for tonight and you needed some ideas for scenarios you’d like to play out on the phone, I wrote it. Check it out if you need some ideas for femdom strap-on fantasies. I’m also gonna drop the link to our femdom strap-on site so that if any of you want to do a call, get into some femdom straps.
You can see which ladies are on, look at their profiles, and decide if you want to give them a call or not. Miss Crystal, I’ll pass it on to you. I don’t really have anything other than if you all want to have some more fun tomorrow, join me on kinks and drinks.
It’s gonna be all about the panties. Oh, panties. And blue panties will be part of it too.
Tiny panties. That’s right. But it’s not all just, you know, you wearing panties.
It is the whole gamut of panty fetish, even guys that like to see us girls in our panties. It’s going to be about that as well. Yes, sounds exciting.
I like it. So you guys have your whole weekend planned. Love it.
Well, I would like to thank everybody for coming out. Everybody that’s still in the audience, thank y’all for showing up tonight. As always, Femdom Fridays, you can find us live here every Friday at 9 p.m. Eastern Standard Time.
You must be 18 years older to join. And, you know, if you really liked this conversation, or you really liked hearing Miss Sasha telling us all about herself, stick around and wait for the replay. It’ll come out Saturday.
And you can find that on any of your favorite podcast platforms. Or if you follow us on any of our socials, we put it up there too. Thank you, everybody, for joining us.
I hope we were able to get your weekend off to a good start. Everyone have a fantastic one. And we’ll see y’all next week.
Thanks for having me. And yes, thanks for having a great weekend. Good night, everybody.
Everybody have a good night. Good night, y’all. Good night, y’all.
