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The Benefits of Being a Slut with Ms. Becky
Hi. Hi, Roxy. So happy to see you.
Yeah, finally. I’ve been trying to get on here for a couple weeks, but finally. Holy shit, it’s the mistress of the month.
I know, right? Oh my god. It’s been fun, yeah. It’s been busy and fun.
I’ve had a great time. It’s almost over. I know, doesn’t it go fast? It goes so fast where you’re just like, oh, I want to be mistress of the month all year.
I know. So much attention because, you know, you can never get enough attention, right? Exactly. Words to live by can never get enough.
That’s right. I didn’t used to think I was one of those people, but lately I have realized that I am. Oh well.
Oh, I’m an attention whore. You’re a goddess. Yeah.
But in all things, oh well. Yeah, I guess I am. I will admit I’m an attention whore.
My name is Roxy. I’m an attention whore. Welcome, Roxy.
Exactly. We’re not trying to recover. We’re just trying to embrace it more fully.
Exactly. That’s thinking that all steps would be just embracing it more. Oh, speaking of embracing it more, guess what we’re going to talk about tonight? Sluts.
Embracing your butt. Sluts. Perfect.
Sluts because I love sluts. Before we jump in, I think we should go around and introduce ourselves. But before that, let me say welcome to Femdom Fridays.
You can find us live every single Friday, 9 p.m. Eastern Standard Time on the Enchantrix Empire Discord server, but you must be 18 or older to join because we are nasty. You can also now listen to the replay every Saturday on your favorite podcast platform. And tonight, why don’t we go around and everyone introduce yourself, tell people where they can find you, and all the good stuff.
And we’ll start with Miss Harper. Oh, me? Oh, right on the spot. Howdy, y’all.
I’m Harper. I’m your host of Whore School, which is adult sex education. No shame, no fear, no guilt.
I want you to be smart about fucking sex, sexuality, gender and gender expression. Whore School airs alive every Sunday evening from 11 to midnight on the East Coast. It’s 8 to 9 on the West Coast.
You can also find my blog, Fetish Phone Sex Blog dot com. Very, very good. Why don’t we get Miss Bianca and her pretty titties? Oh, well, thank you.
Yes. I, well, you can find me on Femdom Fridays dot com. I just got my bio posted there.
I also have my own blog now. It’s Kinky Phone Fantasy dot com. I will be getting a blog post up there this week and playing around with it.
I’m always on Discord here at LGWBianca. I’m on Exalot as MissBiancaEE and AchandrixBianca on Blue Sky. Lots of fun things happening.
Yeah, congratulations on that blog. What a great name, too. You said Kinky Phone Fantasy? KinkyPhoneFantasy, yes, dot com.
Oh, I love. That’s a great name. Oh, my gosh, we got Miss Andy.
I’m so psyched. Actually, Miss Andy, why don’t you go next? You can just let everyone know where they can find you and what’s going on in your world. OK, so hi, everybody.
My blog is PhoneSexPrincessBlog.com and I’m happy to be here. Your blog is PhoneSexPrincess? Yeah. Golly, I love that name.
That’s awesome. Thank you. Beautiful.
What about you, Miss Demi? I’m Demi and you can find me here at Femdom Friday and you can find me on my blog, SensualCaptives.com. Beautiful. What about our Mistress of the Month? Where can we find you? Well, so you already know that I’m your reigning Mistress of the Month because I’ve been talking about it nonstop. You can find me at FunFemDomFantasies.com and that’s pretty much where you can find everything about me and everything I dump out of my brain and oh, free audios.
There’s a lot of them there. And I’m on Enchantrix Empire quite a bit. So you can usually find me there, too.
Beautiful. And who do we still have? Miss Michelle. Hello, hello.
I am your melodious goddess of self-indulgence, Goddess Michelle. You can find me on TheMasterBatrix.com. You can also find me at TheDivineMe on X as well as TheMasterBatrix.BSKY.social on Blue Sky. And also I’m always here, well, most of the time I’m here on Fridays with the rest of these lovely ladies.
Girl gang. Gang, gang, girl gang. I love it.
And I am Miss Becky. You can find me at IntelligentPhoneSexCalls.com. I do also have a podcast. Kinkology is a psychology of kink where we explore all things psychology and kinky related.
And you can find me on Twitter at MissBeckyEnchants. And I got lots of stuff going on and always on FemDom Fridays. I love it.
Gang, gang. I love that one. That GIF is so good.
So I wanted to talk about sluts tonight. And I really wanted to have just kind of like an open discussion about some of the benefits of sluts. So I’m just going to toss this question out here.
For those of you who consider yourself a slut, what does that say about you? What does it mean to be a slut? It says I’m a good time and an even better lay. Fuck yeah. Fuck yeah.
I think a person that is a slut is a person who is open minded about sex, about whatever it is that turns you on or turns themselves on. They’re just, you know, they accept it. They’re like, oh, okay.
Oh, you’re into this? Cool. Like, there’s no pushback. There’s no negativity about it.
It’s just acceptance, which is a fabulous way to live your life. You should just accept people. It really is.
Be a slut. Be a slut. I love how you said that.
Like, I like that. That was so smart, Harper. God, I was thinking something like, we’re so much fun, but that was really smart.
Sometimes I do words good. You know what? You always do words good, Harper. I agree.
I agree. I also love the non-conforming part of it. I love that it’s a little bit subversive.
It’s a little bit in your face, because I like pushing back against convention. So I always find that really fun. Conventions are only fun, like, if you can dress up in a furry outfit and, you know, hang out with all of your friends.
Otherwise… Furry outfit. I love that. I know being a slut means I know what gets me off, and I will find out what gets you off, and we’re going to have a really good fucking time together.
I know sex good. I’ll show you something. That’s right.
It’s about pleasure. Yes. It’s about pleasure.
I think about exploring new things. Things you like, don’t like. Yes.
Find out what you don’t like. I like what Kitty put. A little bit, fuck you and your bullshit morals.
Yes. No, that’s what I was trying to get at. That subversive level of just like, like, you don’t get to fucking decide for me what’s right for me.
I don’t have to live into your version of what my sexuality should look like. And I think especially as women, because, you know, as I was looking up slut, like, I knew this, but I didn’t know know this. As a language thing, slut applies to women.
It is specific to women. It is not a term that is traditionally used to describe men, which is crazy because they are very slutty. Men, you guys are hoes.
Yes, they are. I’m kidding. There’s this idea that like women are supposed to not have a whole lot of partners, right? Like the high value woman is a woman who doesn’t have a whole lot of sex partners.
But the high value man is a man who does have a lot of sex partners. So women are shamed by calling them a slut if they dare to embrace their sexuality. But men who don’t embrace their sexuality are the ones considered odd or strange.
Like a slutty man is just considered the default. Men are supposed to be like that, which is, yeah, dumb. How are you going to get good at sex unless you practice? That’s true.
But I think you’re right that the definition of being a slut as a definition of somebody is very different for a man than for a woman. As in, like you were saying, it’s either a positive thing or a negative thing, just to put it really simply. So I think there’s a lot of us out there changing that, which is amazing.
Hell, yes. Yeah, the reclamation of the language, I love. I love reclaiming language.
Yes, exactly. And using the term is a great step. Mm hmm.
Absolutely. So like, what are the individual benefits of being a slut from a slut’s perspective? Like why would an individual, what would they gain by giving slutdom a try? Orgasms. Ladies, if you’ve never experienced an orgasm before in your life, allow me to recommend to you, being a hoe means you will get to experience a wonderful, absolutely fucking amazing sexual time.
There’s so many women out there in the world who haven’t, who have not had orgasmic sex. And that is a fucking shame. Literally a fucking shame.
That’s really interesting, because I was actually just thinking about that the other day, because I have a person that I know, a woman I know in my personal life, and just knowing her attitudes and how she is and the relationship she’s been in, I’ve known her a very long time. And I thought, I bet this woman has never had an orgasm. And I thought that was just so sad, because, you know, as somebody in the chat, I think it was Patty said, you know, being true to yourself and how can you be true to yourself if you don’t even like own your own pleasure, right? Yes, exactly.
I wind up kind of like disconnected from their physicality, from their physical pleasure, from what makes them feel good. Oh, yeah, that’s a really good way to put it. Like total disconnect.
That makes perfect sense. And disconnected and even more than disconnected, like shamed, you know, like the female sexuality is just absolutely shamed. I did look it up, though, and it says that roughly 10% of women have never had an orgasm.
One out of 10 women have just never ever, ever had an orgasm. I did an episode on the so called female orgasm, the so called female orgasm myth. And I looked up my statistics.
I don’t know, like six months after that. And it was my lowest ranking show, my podcast. I posted it and was like, you guys need to watch this.
This is BS. Watch it. For real.
They just don’t care. This makes sense, though. Like if you want to have more sex, you’ll get so much more fucking sex if you’re pleasing the person you want to have sex with.
Right? Orgasms are a really good incentive to having sex. And it’s just wild to me that more effort isn’t put into that. Although I will say, I don’t know if I think that there’s any fault to be laid at any one population, because I do feel women are also very shamed regarding their sexuality.
And so they have inhibitions when they’re in the bedroom about telling their partner about opening up and letting them know, like, listen, I want you to fucking dive headfirst into my pussy right now. You know, like that’s not something that they approach in that way. Well, talking about high value partners, I mean, what’s more high value than having a partner who can give you lots and lots of orgasms? I mean.
I know, right? They need to change that paradigm for sure. That’s high value to me. For sure.
Yeah. Also being able to give people orgasms, like I take a lot of pleasure out of being able to give somebody. I get like a lot of self-esteem and I never feel sexier and more powerful than when I’m just like, milking a fucking cock is a glorious feeling.
So I like that too. As far as one of the benefits to slut dom is being able to give pleasure. Oh yeah, definitely.
I like making women have orgasm, especially if they’ve never ever had one. So I’m aggressively bisexual. So I like fucking dudes, love fucking women.
I love fucking women who are in that 10%. It might, it takes, it might take a little longer because they can be afraid of it, you know, which kind of inhibits what’s going on. So you have to build the trust, right? You have to convince them, calm down, relax with me.
I’ve got you. I know what I’m doing. This is not my first rodeo.
Hold still. Just don’t kick me in the face. It will be good.
Let me, let me help you. Let me help you. Let me bring you pleasure.
Hold still. Quit bucking. God, my teeth.
I would love to help my friend if she would let me, but I don’t think she’d let me, but she should. Oh, buy her a vibrator. A vibrator and good lube.
See, the thing is, I think I would bet she never even thinks about it, which is so crazy. I mean, I cannot relate, like thinking about orgasms. I mean, I can’t relate to that, but I bet this person never even thinks about it.
Is she on the asexual spectrum? No, I just think she is somebody who has had very bad partners and is just somebody who doesn’t think of themselves much, you know? And it’s just, so I don’t know. I don’t think she’s asexual. I just think that she just wouldn’t think about her own pleasure much.
That’s kind of what I think. You know what? Hitachi, Hitachi magic wand, because then she can use it on like her back and her shoulders, you know, and also her pussy. Or Domi.
Domi, Domi. Hitachi, get a Domi. My Hitachi is not with my drawer since I bought the Hitachi and since I bought the Domi.
Oh, I need to look into that. Oh, go ahead. Sorry.
Oh, I was just going to say she once told me that the Hitachi was a fucking punk compared to the Domi. Wow, that was clever. My very first sex toy was a Hitachi wand and it plugged directly into the wall.
And I thought, this is a pretty good sex toy that just plugs directly into the wall. That is a kick-ass sex toy. And it was, until it just absolutely gave up.
My first one was a Conair personal massager. It was, it was supposed to be for sore muscles. And it also, the box came with a warning on it that said, don’t use under a blanket.
And I was like, that’s a funny way to put it. Yeah, I might have had something like that. But I guess my first official, which I guess a Hitachi is not really an official sex toy, but that was the first time I actually bought something that I thought, I’m going to use this as a sex toy.
I like the plausible deniability of it to be like, this is for your muscles. And also you can use it against what the box says and stick it under your blankets. Well, that’s got me through my freshman year in college for sure.
My handy dandy back massager. Hell yes. Yes.
For both your sore muscles and also stress relief. Perfect. My first vibrator by Enchantrix.
I really liked the ones that plug into the wall, but I do also enjoy Ms. Krista’s advice to always have two of whatever Lovin’s toy you’ve got, because I finally managed to mid session, my freaking hyphy ran out the battery. And I was like, oh no. Yes, I have two hyphys, two gravities, and two dummies.
Just so everybody knows. Hey, Ms. Kamery. Welcome, Kamery.
Hi, I’m sorry I’m late. I could not find the right headset. I’ve been gone a month.
Oh, you were not alone in your lateness. Krista arrived fashionably late as well. Thank y’all for coming.
Thank you for having me. I don’t have to travel this week and I’ve missed my gals. Yes, we missed you.
There’s my inner slut. That’s it. Becky got a nickname.
For those of you who don’t know, I might not have been around a month, but Becky got a nickname this past, because like Becky and I were like hanging out the other morning texting. And she said something like, that nickname’s going to stick. If you don’t believe me, ask Ms. Constance.
Ass lady has stuck for over a decade. Constance really is the ass lady. And I like it, Becky, the inner slut.
I fucking love it. I’m an outer slut too. All over slut.
So we were talking about the benefits of sluts. What do you think some of the benefits of being a slut are? You don’t have to apologize. Oh, fuck yeah.
That’s a great one. You don’t have to apologize. You don’t have to make excuses.
You don’t have to feel guilty. And as a recovering Catholic, you’re supposed to feel guilty or proper or whatever else you’re supposed to feel, but you don’t have to apologize. I’m so glad you brought that up.
That’s very true. So there you go. Prisoner, I think that’s a whore.
Nothing wrong with whores. We love our whores. Whores can be sluts.
That’s true. Prisoner said being a slut can be a way of earning extra money. And I’m just saying, technically.
Thing is. All my friends here tonight, look at this. I’m so excited.
I know this is fun. Did you guys know that I had Ms. Roxy on my show a couple of weeks ago? I did. You did? I did.
That was so much fun. It was. It was so much fun for me.
It felt like the show went by in about five minutes. It just went by so fast, which I thought was great. I mean, not great.
I wish it could have been longer, but it was so much fun. And Ms. Krista, I heard you’re going to have a show, so your ass better show up on mine. So there you go.
Hey, I’ve been on your show before. I know, but I want you back now that you’re going to have one. I have to ask.
Prisoner just said slut slash whore dash dash dash po-to-to po-ta-to. Who pronounces potato po-to-to? An asshole. Somebody said go slut slash whore, maybe? I know, she’s down there butthole make now, po-to-to.
Wait, wait a minute. Make a potato, that’s great. I think I had to like, wait a minute, I have to come in here and I think I have to, he’s my prisoner, I have to translate.
He meant to say potato po-ta-to. Yeah. I was reading, I was like po-to-to.
Po-to-to. He is from LA, give him a break. Oh, ouch.
Po-to-to. I don’t care what words you call me. For all the people that are wondering, that is the new Wizard of Oz dog.
Po-to-to? Yes. Po-to-to. Tomato potato.
I’m not in Kansas anymore. Funny. Oh, you guys can’t, you guys can’t make my eyes water.
I like scratched my cornea last night because I got like face cream in my eye. I’m not kidding you, it was a bad night because I ate fried food yesterday. Okay, so I’m doomed for 48 hours.
I know not to do this, I only do it like once every six months and I’m such a dumbass. And this is why I only eat clean. But I walked into a bar, there’s a thing, I walked into a bar and I was like, oh yeah, I want all of that.
And like that voice in your, on your shoulder went, don’t do it. And the other voice in the other shoulder went, yeah, yes. And the other voice went, you’re not going to eat, you’re not going to sleep.
You’re going to be sick. And the other voice went, yes, yes, yes, do it anyways. And I did.
And that, that’s what happened. I had to go watch a homecoming parade, like true story. And I was like, but I want fried mushrooms and tater tots.
And I’ll be sick for two days because that’s what I ate. Oh, oh, I have, I have a sideline sitting bowl side. Oh no, Pototo.
Timmy’s in the well, Timmy’s in the well, except for, except for that’s Lassie. So close. I love that.
So just, I can’t help but say in terms of some of the benefits of sluts, I was looking up, I did my most recent episode was on polyamory. And so I looked up all the statistics on polyamory. And one of the things that it was talking about was conflict resolution skills.
The fact that therapists rated people who were in polyamorous relationships to be better at communication, better at conflict resolution. All of those type of relationship skills that you need for managing multiple relationships. Sluts got them, right? Like there are some genuine benefits to being able to maintain multiple relationships with people.
Oh, that makes sense. Yeah. Hell yeah, we do.
Right? Right, Bianca? Yes, we do. Mean, mean skills with the Google calendar, like a shared Google calendar, life-saving. Because we don’t want conflict.
Maybe that’s why we’re sluts because we don’t want conflict. Take the clothes off and that’s how we conflict resolution. Show those titties.
It’ll calm a lot of people down. I saw one of my favorite memes was they’re mad tits, happy tits, angry tits. The boobs solve so many emotions.
Well, I would argue sometimes too many titties gets in the way though. We had to make a rule that everybody had to be wearing clothing, including clothing on their bottom half for some of the family meetings, like the group getting together to hash things out. Because if some people were naked, sex would start happening.
And that’s not the same as actually talking about whatever you need to talk about. We’ve had to be like, okay, you in one corner and you in the other corner, and both of you fully fucking clothed, and no, you may not make offers of sexual favors to get out of your turn doing the dishes. These have happened.
I would fuck anyone if they will do yard work. I’m just putting that out there. Okay.
Or back rubs. You can barter after we get the master schedule done. First the schedule, then sexual favors.
That’s how this works. Right. What about, what are some of the benefits of sluts to society, to the world at large? Lots of people wouldn’t get laid if it wasn’t for sluts.
Sorry. And have you seen the incels? They are very angry people. Somebody needs to get them laid.
They actually don’t want to. Some of them don’t want to. We have a group of society that thinks it’s bad.
It’s that dichotomy again, between being a slut versus being pure. And so there’s some of them, some people who are like, oh, well, because I haven’t had sex, that means I’m better than you, which is just slut shaming taken to a whole new level. And really, really, they need to go masturbate.
Oh, that brings me to a great point. That brings me to a great point, because one of the things that I wanted to talk about tonight was the slut walk. And for those of you guys that don’t know, the slut walk is this transnational walk of people who dress very provocatively with the entire notion of bad things should not happen to me because of the way I dress.
And challenging the notion that because you are a slut, you deserve certain negative outcomes. And I really feel like sluts are really good at challenging that notion. And just to give you a little rundown of how the slut walk happened is a policeman went to a university to have a discussion on sexual assault.
And in the course of his discussion, decided to say, and, you know, women have to do their part. They need to not dress like sluts, too, so they won’t get attacked. And I believe the very next day, the slut walk was born.
Right, Roxy? Well, you know, there’s I don’t I don’t know exactly what this is. I’d have to look into it. But there’s like a whole like art display or museum or something where they actually display outfits that women were wearing when they were assaulted.
And for the most part, it’s all just normal clothes. There’s nothing I mean, and that’s just I think that’s a very powerful message. I don’t know if anybody’s really getting it.
But yeah. One of the things that that knocked me, like blame on women, you know, right, that not knocked me on the ass was the idea that they pointed out, look, if somebody tells you that you have to dress less slutty, what you’re really saying is you should dress in a certain way so that he assaults another girl because he’s got his actions. Oh, yeah, I never thought about it that way.
Geez, yeah. Instead of instead of directing it all towards, hey, folks, don’t commit assault. Right.
Don’t rape. Yeah, that that actually that you guys know I talk a lot because you guys know I’m traveling for this thing that that conversation actually goes around is is actually put on campuses quite a bit. And you’re right.
It doesn’t matter what they’re like, they can be walking around in oversized clothing. It doesn’t matter. It doesn’t matter.
And that topic has been put around. It doesn’t matter. And that ran rampant.
And it’s like, no, it doesn’t matter what you’re wearing. And that should not be it. And it doesn’t matter if you’re 18, 19 or if you’re 59 or 89.
If it is seven o’clock in the morning or eight o’clock, it doesn’t matter where you are. If you’re walking to your car or if you’re in your home. If you’re if you’ve had a drink or if you’re tucked in your bed.
Don’t submit assaults. Yes. Yeah.
Consent. Yes. Yes.
Anything other than yes does not mean yes. I guess so is not consent. Yes.
Yeah. And when somebody tells you, no, don’t try to keep pushing, like, except, yeah, nothing is less sexy than a guy who’s like, but I bought you a drink. Well, I know.
Yeah. One drink for your parents. They need to blow you too.
OK. I have a per hour rate and you haven’t even met the minimum yet. So it is a brand are.
Oh, and also more shit. Even if a person is a sex worker, the sex worker has the absolute right at any point to tell, you know, just because they’re a sex worker doesn’t mean you get to ignore her, his, her or their boundaries. I have had clients who are no longer allowed to speak to me who told me that I, quote, have to do whatever it is that they were wanting because the paid.
Yeah, the other day, like women like you do what I tell you to do. And I was like, yeah, no, no, we don’t. Not here.
I’m a whore. I’m a slut. I’m a whore.
I’m a sex worker. You will pay me. You will still keep a respectful tongue in your mouth.
And you talk to me like that. And all of a sudden, this slut’s not going to fuck you. Right.
Yeah, that’s right. Definitely still human. Right.
Exactly. My favorite line will always be. I wouldn’t fuck you with someone else’s body.
I love that. And I have said that to more than one man in person and on the phone. And when I’ve been asked, as Mistress K, not Miss K in a bar debating with myself over, do I really, really, really need tater tots? And am I still regretting that decision today? Yes.
Yes, I am. But were they fucking good? Yes. And you know, you know, they’re good when the cook comes out going, hey, K, how you doing? It’s been a while.
I’m like, yes, I’m going to regret this decision. But give me and I get a whole basket. But it’s called the dignity of risk.
Everybody has, you have the right to make a stupid decision. You have the right to fuck anybody. You like consents to fuck you.
You have a right to do risky things. The dignity. Nobody’s going to come along and be like, you’re not allowed to smoke.
You’re not allowed to drink alcohol. You’re not allowed to take risks that I think are too far. Yeah, fuck all of that.
What is this, a nanny state? Yes. If I want to go suck a thousand dicks, I’m going to go suck a thousand fucking dicks. And I’m going to pump a throat lozenger in at 397.
Thank you. And gargle with salt water somewhere in there. But because my throats and my jaws.
And I like sit there and go, wow, maybe I do need to see somebody for my TMG. But I had a caller the other day go, why won’t you role play something with me? You know, this is a, I have a fantasy that is wonderful. And I have mistress friends who will play that out with you all day long.
And you are not going to set me up to do something and then change it. Once we’re on the call, I don’t role play sex. Nobody gets pussy privileges.
Miss Becky, my inner slut can have pussy privileges, but nobody else can. That’s right. That’s right.
Yes. Yes. Okay.
And they’re like, why not? You might enjoy it. I’m like, I assure you, I will not. Because guess what? No part of my body wants to fuck you.
Miss Becky, read what you put in the chat. Holy shit, girl. Isn’t that awesome? So, and I’ll tell you where I got it after I read it.
So I have learned to love by listening. I’ve learned to love with confidence. I’ve learned to love without intimidation because that’s how my real friends love me.
Through practicing love this way, I’ve also learned to love myself like that too. And now I know that this is the only way that I can love. I love fearlessly.
And that was from an article entitled, the life lessons I discovered from being a whore. And it was, it’s written by a woman who was a prostitute and talked all about the life lessons. So hold on, I’ll put it in the chat.
It was an interesting read. That’s awesome. I love that.
Yes, please. In-person sex work is really, really hard to do. And I have mad respect for the people who do in-person work.
Like that’s real hard to do. Hey, have you ever heard of, God, what is that? Sexual facilitator? Yes. So, yeah.
So I, when I got my degree in counseling, one of the things that we were talking about in the context of counseling and working with people within the disability community, we were talking about how people have different needs. And what are you giggling over there about? Okay, Marie. Hi, oh, I should mute myself, I guess.
Every so often I realize that I should mute myself. I don’t know. But so it was sexual facilitator helps people with disabilities achieve their best sexual life, whatever that looks like.
And they can do a bunch of different things. And like, what a gift that is to be able to do that. It really is.
To be able to be with people when they’re, because sex is so vulnerable, right? And for an awful lot of people who aren’t, who have not yet embraced their own sexuality and their own sluttiness, they haven’t, like there’s, there’s so much shame and guilt that are built into sex, especially in America, because it’s why Whore School’s byline is no shame, no fear, no guilt. Because I’m so tired of people being ashamed of themselves, ashamed of what they want, ashamed of their own fantasies. Like, oh, God, no, no.
Fuck Puritans, fuck John Calvin, kill the cop in your head. Like, no, be a slut. Be bold.
Embrace what, like, what do you want? What do you need in life? And go for that, even if it is, you know, to get fucked hard, bent over. Like, yeah, sure. As long as everybody’s consenting, and you’re reasonably safe.
Reasonably. Go ham. Well, go fuck.
And the notion of a life with dignity means that you have, like, a sexual equality, too. Right? That. Yes.
It’s, it’s formative to who we are as people. It’s on Maslow’s hierarchy. It’s on Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, right? Sex is on there.
Okay, Miss Kitty, if somebody wants to fuck a ham for me, I’m down for it. I’m still trying to get somebody to fuck a jar of peanut butter. Pumpkins.
11 years. I haven’t been able to get somebody to fuck a jar of peanut butter. Recession.
Whip it. Whip it with honey. Whip it with honey.
Honey’s a bad idea. You’re going to get a yeast infection. Microwave it so that it’s a little warm.
And then, yes, stir it up really good. But not too much. You don’t want to introduce too much air in there.
Just enough. I meant microwaving it. I have a Christmas birthday.
Fuck the jar of peanut butter for Miss Kay for her birthday. And Miss Harper’s going to join in. There you go.
There you go. You know what’s really fun, though? Like a jar. Harper is good for anything.
She is like the Mikey of LDW mistresses. If you know, you know. She’s Gen X, too.
I know she is. So there you go. You know, you know.
You guys have missed me last month, haven’t you? A cantaloupe, a honeydew, a butternut squash. I saw four jars of applesauce, one after another. I’m not kidding you.
One, two, three, four. Have you ever seen the jar of marshmallow fluff? No. Yeah, they could fuck that.
It’s squishier. No, I want a jar of peanut butter. It’s a little high in sugar, but yeah.
Well, you know, it’s pumpkin season. We can always, you know, do that. I’ve seen pumpkins.
I’ve seen pumpkins. I have seen watermelon. I’ve seen watermelon.
I’ve seen watermelons. I’ve seen all the watermelons. I’ve seen that peanut butter.
I’ve got a thing. I don’t know why I got a thing. And personally, I want some guy to eat spaghetti off my tummy.
I know I got a weird kink and I can’t get a guy to eat spaghetti. If he can make the spaghetti. I’ll eat it off of your tummy.
I know I love spaghetti. I probably won’t make the spaghetti, but I would do that. Kay Marie has hidden wet and messy fantasies.
I do. I do. And thanks to the Plank Nazi, I got really flat abs.
Damn, Miss Krista, that looks good. It does look good. I ran across that the other day, and I had to save it because I am going to make that.
That’s right. Oh, my God. And, you know, after Kay Marie had a tater tot issue.
That’s my weakness. I go in there with like the loaded tater tots. I didn’t get them in March for March Madness because they took the loaded Reuben tater tots off the menu.
I looked at them like they canceled Christmas. I was like, what the fuck are you talking about? I haven’t ate fried food for like four months because I thought I was going to get these in March. And they’re like, no, but we have this.
I was like, I don’t fucking want that. I haven’t had fried food in like four months. I want this.
I was like, no, I’ll have a pressed chicken sandwich. I could have, no, I don’t want anything now. I’ll just starve and die.
I like seriously was like a martyr. I was like, I’ll go out and lick snow. I don’t want anything.
Oh, my God. That looks amazing. I’m going to make that here real soon this weekend.
But you have to make the tater tots extra crispy. I’m going to probably triple the bacon though, because, you know, hell, if you’re going to eat something that is a heart attack on a plate, let’s do it right. I’ve seen people fuck Jell-O.
Yeah, some of the fellow mistress says, oh, I’m sorry. Go ahead. I actually saw somebody fuck a grapefruit.
A grapefruit? I haven’t seen that. Oh, yeah. I had a guy that every time he wanted to fuck a grapefruit.
I desperately wanted to fuck somebody. I know. I want him to cut a hole in a pineapple and fuck that because the enzymes in the pineapple will start.
Oh, my God. It’ll exfoliate him a little, right? We went from sluts to sluts right through the dictionary. Well, you do realize that you can be a slut and they’ll do all that other stuff too.
That’s true. Oh, actually, you know what? I’ve got a question because I wanted to ask this earlier and I keep having people ask me about the pussy-free pets and the pussy-free pledge. Can you be a pussy-free slut? I think so.
I think so, too. I think so, too. Slut is a sex question.
You can have dick. It’s a sex positive attitude. A lot of fucking cum, right? Yes.
It’s not quantitative. It’s qualitative. Yeah.
You can have men. You can have toys. Yes.
You can be a solo slut. You can be a solo slut. That’s right.
Or a love-and-slut if you want to really put a name on it. You can be mentally a slut. Love-and-slut.
And honestly, some of the pussy-free pets and some of the denial pets are the sluttiest of the sluttiest of the sluttiest. I mean, for real. Those are the denial pets.
Yes, they are. Cum slut. Yeah.
They’ll do anything. It is absolutely possible to be an absolute fucking slut locked in chastity. Well, the longer the denial goes on, the sluttier they become.
They’ll just do anything. Yeah. The attitude.
For a chance. Right? Yeah. So, yes, you can be absolutely pussy-free and a complete fucking slut.
Guys ask me all the time, why do you like the denial so much? Why do you like putting guys in denial so much? And I’m like, that’s one of them, definitely. The longer they’re in denial, the sluttier they become. Yes, they really do.
And they get desperate. And I love desperation. Yes, desperate.
That’s one of my favorite words. I like, I’m so desperate. You can smell the desperation.
Yes, yes, yes. It was me walking in yesterday going, yes, I don’t care how sick I’ll get. I will have all your fried food.
And a cold beer. Yes. And beer makes me bloated and I don’t drink that.
I was like, yes. I’ll have it. I don’t care if I’ll be sick.
Give it to me. So I guess we can be different kinds of slut too. We can be different kinds.
We can be fried food sluts or chocolate sluts. Oh, I was. Yes, that’s so true.
I heard all the things. You’re not going to sleep. You’re not going to sleep.
You’re going to be sick. You’re not going to sleep. And I’m like, I know, I know, I know.
It’s going to take you two days to recover. It’s like, I really shouldn’t fuck this guy tonight. I have to get up early in the morning, but I’m going to anyway.
Yeah. You have to do a lesson. Being a slut means making poor choices every now and then, but you own it, right? Absolutely.
There’s none of this. Oh no, I’m such a bad person. Look what I did.
Let me put on my sackcloth and ashes and punish myself because I got laid. Boo hoo. Yeah, fuck that.
I got laid. Yeah, I don’t do sleepovers. So the next morning, like walking to work, wearing yesterday’s clothes with a hickey on your neck going, yeah, Ann? With a broken heel.
You gotta have a broken heel too. Limping along. And the mile-long run up your stockings.
Oh yes, yes. Nobody asked me. A necessity.
That is a necessity. The glow, the look on your face that makes everybody who looks at you go, oh, she got laid. Yeah, you might not think it’s a very powerful feeling.
You could take the stocking off, but that diminishes the slut walk, right? It really does. It’s just a walk, not a shame. It’s just a walk.
Exactly, exactly. It’s just a walk of fame. Walk of nana.
I love it. Walk of fame, yes, exactly. You watched Dancing with the Stars and Dateline last night.
I got my head banged off a headboard. Fuck you, bitch. Yeah.
Did you guys see what Annie put in the chat? She said, I don’t call it the walk of shame. I call it the walk of na-na. I got some, bitches.
Bitches. I love that. That’s great.
Yeah. But I do like everyone’s lack of shame. Even K-Marie and her fried foods.
Yeah, I ate all the fried food, and I loved it, and I’d do it again. I love it. Yeah, I did it, and I’d do it again, and I’m going to do it tonight.
I just loved the nasty-ass bitch Karens that were sitting there looking at me, all talking about, talking down about, because they’re like, oh, my husband this. Oh, my husband that. And trying to sit there, and I’m sitting there in my size fours going, oh, yeah, your husband’s still cheating on you? He tried messaging me, but I blocked him on that shit.
I do know who he is, fucking. People do, they try to use shame like it’s a social control, to regulate everybody’s behavior. I live in that town, and I’m just like, a prisoner knows this.
I’m kind of like the, I’m kind of like Puccitani Phil. I pop my head out like once a year, but I do it like twice. The only reason why I did this is it was like the town’s community homecoming parade, and I had to go make an appearance because my friend’s kids weren’t it.
So, you know, I did the thing, and I’m like, huh, and I’m looking around going, I hate everybody here, but I love my friend’s kids. Okay, so I did my part, and I’m like, I’m going to leave it, yeah. I’m like, and I look really good in a pair of jeans and a black t-shirt.
That’s right. That’s what I did. I’m like, I look really good in a pair of jeans and a black t-shirt.
Well, I think we had a really good conversation on some of the benefits of being a slut. I am curious, do we have any announcements before we go? I have an announcement. The ladies of Femdom Fridays are awesome and sexy, and I have a crush on them, and I want to touch their no-no places.
That’s my announcement. I don’t have any no-no places. I only have yes-yes places.
Well then, I want to touch everybody’s no-no and yes-yes places. Oh, yes places, because if you touch it right, I want to say, oh, yes. Yeah, yeah, Andy, it was so good to see you and Roxy tonight.
That was so fun. I know, I’m so fun. We love you ladies.
Yeah. I’m around this weekend. I’m not traveling, so if anybody wants to play with my no-no and my yes-yes places with my mistress friends, I would be happy to.
Yes. And I’ll bring a plate of flip-flops for you, Kay. Now you all know.
Now you all know that you’re going to sit there and go, we can bribe Kay every so often with fried food, because I don’t eat fried food. And every so often, they’re like, you want this? And I’m like, no, no. Prisoner knows this.
Every so often, I’m like, I need french fries. I need tater tots. And he’s like, go get them.
He sends me pictures of when he goes gets them, because he’s evil, which is why I don’t let him out of that fucking cage. He’s like, look at this. And I’m like, you’re not getting out.
So I’m going to be here. And oh my god, I’m so excited that Princess Andy was here tonight, because I haven’t seen her forever. And it was good to be here.
Because I’ll be gone. I’m traveling for the next few weeks too, so I won’t be around on the weekends. And one of the weeks, I’m going to be gone for a few days too.
But I’ll be popping on for calls, but I won’t be around a whole lot. But yeah. So message, I’ll check Discord and stuff like that.
But it was really great to get on tonight. So thanks for having me. I’m so happy to have you.
And Miss Michelle put in there, we are still having our two mistress Tuesdays. So if you can do any two mistress calls on Tuesday that are 20 minutes or longer, you’re going to get $20 off. And we love two mistress Tuesdays.
So get us bitches together. All right, because we like it. We love it.
Oh, and Bianca said the 23rd is our double point, double perks day. So if you’re not a reward member, well, then that’s just silly. Go to enchantrixperks.com and get signed up.
Why wouldn’t you want to make, earn points? I know, I know. Exactly. You get free phone sex and like store credit and like, yeah, for calls you already make.
Yeah, that you’re going to do anyway. Earn those points. I do have one thing real quick.
Um, October the 4th, I start my kinks and drinks. So if you want to have some fun, come see me. And there will be a, just like here, there will be a drink each week and it’ll be something different and something for high and the kinks time is at 9 p.m. On Saturdays, starting October 4th.
And Ms. Christy, you’re going to send me, um, some info on that so I can promote that on my show. Are you going to pop back on? So I can, yes, I saw it. So I was kind of excited.
It’s going to be fun. Yes, it is. And, um, it’s going to be all about the kinks.
That’s what we’re after. So bring them and we’ll discuss them. Beautiful.
Well, thank you guys all for coming tonight. Well, thank you for having us. Yeah.
Oh, fine. I love being with all of y’all. I really do.
I love you guys. I love them on Friday so much. I love our girl gang.
It was great. And if anyone’s around Tuesday night, join me. Yeah, I will be there.
What time? What time? Eight o’clock. Eight o’clock on Tuesday. Yeah.
Eight o’clock on Tuesdays. Yeah, I could do that. I might come by and see you.
Drag your slut ass over there. Yes, ma’am. Tater tots.
You got, you got, they can cover tater tots. Yeah. You, you bring your, you bring your, you bring taters.
Although I can’t, I can’t do fried food two weeks in a row because like, and I’m traveling next week. I got to be clean. I got to do like, yeah.
And the only reason why I’m being this, but I thought like, I’m like, oh, wow. I’m not traveling this week and I’m going to get up tomorrow morning. And, and the plank Nazi is like on vacation for her birthday.
So I’m like, oh, I can have wine tonight. Very nice. Well, I’ve got a session, so I’ve got to run.
All right. Bye everyone. I had so much fun time with you guys.
Take care, honey. Everybody have a good night. All right.
Take care, everyone. Nighty night. Nighty night.
Night. Night. Night.
