Listen to “The Benefits of Orgasm Denial with Ms Demi” on Spreaker.
Listen to The Benefits of Orgasm Denial That You Never Knew You Needed
What’s that? I said I did announce it at nine. Yeah, yeah, it’s supposed to be at nine, but for some reason the event thingy in the server shows that it starts at eight. Oh, you guys have been a while.
Everybody seems to be popping up. Hello, everyone. Yes, good evening and salutations.
Blame it on the time change. Yeah, let’s do that. Or Mercury, because it’s being a full right now.
Yeah, everything’s fucked up. Shit’s fucked. Everyone celebrate.
You know what? I fell down a social media rabbit hole for like the last hour and a half. Oh, I did. Like I crawled out of it when I was like, oh, shit, the show’s going to start in seven minutes.
I should probably. I like a big, nice, sloppy blowjob as much as the next person. But the thought of the giving receiving that was released in those files this week, I don’t know if I could ever be a part of another blowjob for the rest of my life.
Oh, my. You guys almost had to. You guys almost had to throw me a life preserver.
I haven’t. What’s going on with those? Because I just. Oh, I’m saying I’m sending it to you in the chat.
Go ahead. You know, right now, it happens when you walk in, it’s the last part of the story. And it really, they’re all like you a little bit.
Yeah, so, you know what? Once you close your eyes and picture it in your mind, it will be seared behind your eyelids forever. Yeah, I’m good on that. Thanks.
All right. Yeah. Maybe I don’t want to see this.
I’m going to avoid the Gchat for now. Yeah, just talking about blowjobs earlier. And I love blowies.
I don’t want to read anything that’s going to ruin that. I know. Oh, no, no, I’m not reading that.
Let’s give our minds and our hearts a break. But I might save it and tell my subbies to read it. Amen, good buddy.
Right on, Patty. I would not want to ruin the content of that, honestly. No, blowjobs are sexy, apparently.
True that. True that, city folks. True that.
Naughty, naughty. Terrible. Well, it is fucking Friday.
Who else is excited about that? Oh, me. I am. I am.
It was a day. I decided to make myself some little warm cider, and I may have put a little cinnamon in it. And in honor of Miss Krista, I may have put a little bit of rum in it.
Oh, nice. Very nice. Because, because, because, because we’ve got us Demi here hosting, and I thought it would be rude, you know, to not toast her.
Oh, we’re going to toast her. A little slow on the uptake, but I get it. Well, it sounds like we’re pretty close to what I have for the drink of the night.
Tell us about that. I just posted it, and it’s called Under Demi’s Control. How could you not want that? I, I know.
I had, I had the rum. I love that you put, not only will you be denied, but you will learn the benefits of your denial. You are going to fucking learn the benefits of your denial tonight.
Oh, yes. You’re here. Point.
Cheers to that. And it’s a good bit, just so everybody knows. It is.
It is so good for you, Harper. Not you, but I agree with you. That’s true.
It’s not good for me. I would never deny you. Personally.
Miss Harper, were you, was, were your ears ringing earlier? Possibly. I was walking the dog. Were you talking about? The ass lady and I were talking about you.
Uh-oh. Yeah. So I’m going to be like messaging you later.
Miss Demi, we were talking about you too. So mostly Miss Harper. Yeah.
In a good way? In a good way. Just pimping out your services. So when I slip into your DMs, both of you ladies, like in the next like week or so.
Just remember, I don’t wear panties. You can slip into my DMs anytime. Oh, wow.
K Marie, are you sliding into all our DMs or just the two ladies you mentioned? I’ll slip it. I can, I’ll, I’ll pimp myself. Hey, just, just remember, I am the Relief Milk who’s about to be somewhat of an empty nester.
I am kind of like, you know, and I, I talked to Miss Becky last week. And, and Demi, you, we were, you were part of this conversation too about not, you know, the conversation was about slut shaming. About how women go out and how we’re held to different standards.
Mm-hmm. Girl, we had a whole thing about that in Slut Timber where we talked about that. Yes, that’s, that’s where we were continuing the conversation.
Yeah. And how it’s different. Yeah, yeah.
And how it’s okay. You know, so, so we were, we, we were talking about that. And so I, I was, I was talking to, and she, she informed me.
She goes, my bestie goes, I was like, really? I didn’t know that. Like, I need to talk to her about that. Well, let’s definitely talk about it.
Yeah. I want to welcome everybody to Femdom Fridays. You can find us live every Friday at 9 p.m. Eastern on the Enchantrix Empire Discord server.
But you must be 18 or older to join. And you can listen to the replay every Saturday on your favorite podcast platform. And I’m going to be a really good host.
And I just reminded myself to have everybody introduce themselves because I totally forgot the last time I hosted. So, Kamarie, would you like to introduce yourself? Hi, everyone. I am Miss Kamarie.
I am the host of Happy Hour on Tuesdays at 8 o’clock over on Podbean. And I have the blog, Mistress of More. I also have the blog, Mistress After Hours.
You can find me on EE. And of course, you’re on Discord. And I pop in on Femdom Fridays when I’m not traveling on the weekends.
And I’m actually on Blue Sky now. New to Blue Sky, like brand new Blue Sky today. Just brand new today.
Yeah, so I’m new. If you want to come and pop my Blue Sky cherry, you can, because I’m brand new today. As a matter of fact, I have to even look my Blue Sky up to make sure I don’t misquote it.
It’s Kamarie75. So you can find me. Come and find me.
We did put it in the Discord chat. So you can find me there. So come and find me.
Come and say hi. I’m branching out a little bit into social media. So hi, everyone.
Happy Friday. Thanks for having me. Happy Friday.
Harper, would you like to introduce yourself? I am Harper. I’m awesome. You’re welcome.
You can find my blog, fetishphonesexblog.com. I desperately need to write something dirty and salacious to go up there. Where else? I don’t know. Fuck.
I run Whore School, which is adult sex education with occasional forays into philosophy and adult life skills. I’m also kind of the… I do the tech shit around here. So if there’s a problem with Discord, let me know.
I can probably fix it. I also have the Blue Skies feed and starter pack for LDW Group and the Enchantrix Empire. And as soon as… There it goes.
Copy link so that if you’re on Blue Sky… I’m going to drop this link right there. If you click on that, it will take you to our starter pack. And from there, you can very easily follow every single lady that I know of who is on Blue Sky.
If I don’t know that they’re on Blue Sky, they’re not on the list. So there’s an obvious hole there. But anyways, as far as I’m aware, that’s everybody, including Miss K. Marie.
So with one simple click, you can follow everybody. You’re welcome. Oh, yes.
Told you I was awesome. You are so fucking awesome. Miss Michelle, would you like to introduce yourself? I would love to.
I am your melodious and sometimes malefic goddess, Michelle. You can find me over on X at TheDivineMe. That’s T-H-E-E.
I am a huge Megan Thee Stallion fan. So that’s in honor of my goddess. I’m also on Blue… Oh, are you a Megan Thee Stallion fan too? Yes.
We ended that hot girl shit. You can also find me on Blue Sky at TheMasterBatrix.BlueSky.Social. The Master Batrix is my blog site. And if you check out my latest No Nut November post, you’ll get a sweet little tease for Thanksgiving Day.
Oh, and you can also… If you’re on Enchantrix Empire, our internal social media, you can find me on there most days at Michelle C. Fuck yeah. And Miss Krista. Hello, everybody.
I am Miss Krista. You can find me on X and Blue Sky and on EE. My blog is Phonesexfetishblog.com. That’s the better of the two versions, by the way.
See, that’s what happens when you have to go before me, Harper. And I have a show on Saturdays called Kinks and Drinks with Miss Krista. And everybody’s invited to come play.
And that’s about all I can tell you about me. Everything else that you want to know, you just need to hit me up. I like that.
And Kinks and Drinks is so much fun. Everybody’s podcasts are so much fun. And now that my schedule is kind of getting a little bit more balanced, I’m going to be able to hit everybody up and hang out.
But I am Demi, and you can find me at SensualCockTease.com. And yeah, just go there. There’s an About Me page, and you can find everything you needed to know and more about me right there. Tonight, we are going to talk about my absolute fucking favorite thing in the world, orgasm denial.
Yes. I mean, no. Who else? No.
And it is No Nut November. So I’m assuming we have a lot of people that are participating or not participating. And in coming, we do have some new people in the chat tonight.
Welcome. Welcome, welcome. So of the mistresses that are here, what do you think about orgasm denial? Do you deny orgasm? Krista, do you? Well, I am all for it.
It has many, many, many benefits. Fuck yeah. So yes, I’m all for it.
Fuck yeah. What about you, Kay Marie? You’re not a deny. So you don’t, like, I’m not an instant denial.
So I am actually one of, you know, when somebody says, well, it’s up to you, mistress, may the odds forever be in your favor. When you talk to me, it really does, it doesn’t depend on my mood. It depends on, I hate to use this word, because it sounds kind of trendy.
It depends on the vibe I get from you. Do you really want to cum? And if I don’t get it from you, unless, like, you’re really trying to push your limits with me, you know, I know you are, then no, no. Because begging doesn’t work for me.
Mindfucking doesn’t work. That’s not, I’m a real life MILF. Like, that doesn’t work with me.
That shit doesn’t work with me. Yeah, so, but it really, because I’m just not giving away cummies.
I got to believe that you want it. Yeah, I do. I do.
If I don’t think you want it, and, you know, you really say it’s up to you. I think I don’t want it. Yeah, I’m like, okay.
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
And if I’m there, and I’m like, okay, I’m into this, then guess what? You convinced me. You took me there. Okay, yeah, good for you.
You get it. Prisoner just asked, do you want to hear begging then? Yeah. And you need to pick your words wisely.
Yeah. Because you tell me that you’re into tears and denial. Oh, sorry, that was me not prisoner.
Yeah, I looked, I’m like, wait a minute, is prisoner home? I literally looked, I’m like going up and down the chat. I’m like, is my prisoner home? And he didn’t message me telling me he’s home. He’s on a business trip.
Uh-oh, yeah, he’s in all kinds of trouble. Patty, sorry. Sorry, Patty.
Oopsies. Begging, and by the way, I think my mistress friends may have my back on this. There is a difference between earnest begging and something that has feeling and whining.
Yeah. God, yeah. Yes.
Okay, thank you. 100%, oh my gosh. I’m not prisoner.
Mercy. And as I was saying, make sure you choose your words wisely, because if you tell me tease and denial, that is different than tease and delay. Well, if I may, I say this all the time.
I always put a disclaimer at a tease and denial call, because my only bad review in 11 years is because of that, because I did a tease. I got a tease and denial call. And the review was, the MILF denied me.
Like MILF is a bad word. Like it was like switched out for bitch. And I messaged them.
I thought you said bad review. That sounds good to me. I know, I know.
I was like, I messaged them. I was like, excuse me, you didn’t. So I’m like, do you, I specify, do you want tease and denied? Or do you want tease and delayed? Because clarify your definitions here up front.
Exactly. Oh man. And he did, he did call back.
Eventually he was like, ma’am, I am, I apologize. And I was like, that’s okay. Not him saying MILF with stank on it though.
Yeah, I was like, that’s okay. I was like 11 years later. I was like, I’m still bringing that up.
Not that it stuck with me at all. That old Irish and Italian memory work in there. What about you, Michelle? Do you enjoy denying orgasms? Yes, I do.
As, I know I’ve mentioned this so many times. I’m so sorry if I’m beating, beating a dead horse. But as a pleasure dom, my goal is to give you as much pleasure as I can.
And I’m never going to deny you the pleasure of denial like ever. If that’s what you want, let me know and I will hook you up. But just like Krista and Ms. K. Marie already pointed out, you have to be specific.
You have to know the difference between denial. You have to know the difference between delaying. You also should know the difference between edging and gooning.
All of these things, you should have a kind of a working knowledge base whenever you’re coming to us and asking us to, you know, help you maximize your, your sex, whatever sex or kinks that you’re into. Like you really should have a kind of a good working jargon for these things. At least know, have an idea of what they are.
And then as you’re talking to different mistresses, ask them what their interpretation of it is. And yes, because we all approach domination. Yeah, yeah.
Like some are like no orgasms for you ever. You’re not getting them. And some of us are like, you know, I like making people, you know, lose it because I like losing it.
I like the release. I love it all. So I want to give that to you as well.
But it doesn’t mean I’m not going to make you work for it if you want me to. Fuck yeah, you’re going to work for it. I am, I have a, I have one very strict rule.
I do not deny a women orgasms. I feel that women’s sexuality and women’s pleasure is never, ever, ever at the forefront of a conversation. So I will never deny a woman an orgasm.
Men, on the other hand, well, I love men have denied women orgasms. So, you know, right. It’s, you know, even unintentionally.
What about you, Harper? What was the question? Do you enjoy orgasm denial, denying orgasms? Yes. Yes, I like it. I always want people, I make them ask for it.
I want, I want you to say, I don’t, I want you to deny my orgasm. I like, one, I love explicit consent. I want to hear you say it at least one time so that everybody’s on the same page and there’s no confusion about who’s doing what to whom or where this is going to end.
I want to hear you say, oh my God, I love it when you tell me no. Okay. You said it and I like it.
I like the power of it. I like, I really love it if you and I get on the same page and we both know I have the final say, I get to tell you whether or not you’re going to come. And K. Marie was right.
Yeah. If you leave it up to me, the answer’s no, because obviously you didn’t want to come. You’re like, otherwise you would have said, I want to have an orgasm.
Right? You leave it up to me. You’re not going to, but I want you to beg. I, it makes you more of an active participant in deliberately submitting to my will.
If you ask for something and I get to tell you, no, that, that is the heart of the DS, the dominance and submission. That’s the power right there. Is that active? Please, can I? No, you cannot.
Right? Oh, love it. Love it. So hot.
I, um, I will ask, um, the first time that we talk and then after that, um, it’s pretty, it’s pretty well known that I, you’re calling if we’re, if you are my submissive, I own your orgasm. So I own your pleasure. And that’s always going to be up to me.
So if I say you are going to be denied for the next six months to a year or five years or whatever the fuck I want, then that’s, that’s what it is. Um, but absolutely consent a hundred percent. Um, I’ve never had anybody complain about me not letting them come.
Um, but not everybody gets to come. How do you decide if you’re going to let somebody come? How well they actually plead most of the time, but also, um, their attitude. If I feel like resistance and they’re not willing to explore that resistance to me, oh, you’re not going to come then.
No comings for you. Open your mouth and tell me what’s up or, um, no orgasm. Yeah.
If they’re just going through the motions and saying, well, it’s been 45 days or if they’re just like reading off the calendar saying I’m owed this. Yeah. Yes.
Oh, no, no, no, no. You need to go. You know, I’ve caught if, if, if they’re owed or they’re reading off their to do list of what they’ve done or I’ve done this, I’ve done that.
I’m, you know, um, do they think we’re a grocery store? Like, let’s do me like, I would like, yeah, I want this, this, and this, cause I have this many stamps in my cookie cutter, you know, frequent purchaser, I’m, I’m not Starbucks. That’s not a rewards card. Right.
Yeah. For me, what drew me to, um, BDSM and domination and Jekyll is the power exchange. Um, so when I have a true submissive, somebody who we are very much aware, I am the dom, they are the sub.
Um, when we get to that point, I own their orgasm. I own their pleasure. They know that is up to me.
Um, I’m of course, keeping in mind boundaries and, um, different things that we’ve talked about with goals, um, and things like that. But it is up to me and yeah, there’s, there’s just no question about it. And when I decide as I’m kind of like K Marie, um, if I don’t have anything in particular in mind, like if we’re not working towards, um, a specific goal, then it’s really about the vibe and, and what I’m feeling and that can honestly change like a million times in an hour call.
It really just, yeah, you’re right. It, it can. And there, there is a difference if it is a one off call and once in a while you get that unicorn where you have a one off call and it’s, it’s fabulous.
And maybe they’re like, you know what, I thought I was going to call and get the, you know, I was going to be a tease and deny a delay call and thank you. This was great. And you know, they called me and it becomes, you know, and that’s great.
Yeah. But yeah. Yeah.
But when you have a longer term Dom sub relationship and you can build and play on that, you may have something where three sessions there were coming, you know, where, where you let it release that it was not specific. It wasn’t for a birthday and anniversary, a special day or because they did something, it wasn’t a reward. Yeah.
But then maybe for no reason you denied just because you were like, okay, put the cage back on, call me later, you know, or so what else is going on? And they’re just bewildered or you’re so into the power exchange and you’re just like, I don’t want this to change. So you don’t want release because just where there is a subspace. There’s a Dom space and you’re happy there.
And we don’t say that out loud very often. We talk a lot about subspace. We talk about aftercare, but we don’t often talk about, we’re really happy with where we are right now and we’re enjoying our exchange with you.
Abso-fucking-lutely. Yes. I don’t talk about that ever because it’s not typically a side people see of me.
They don’t. They see the milky side of me, but I like that side. It comes up every so often.
I have a good time with it. I live for it. I am a slut in that way.
You know, subs are always striving for that subspace and I’m striving for that Dom space. I want to get there and I want to stay there. And so I think that’s why I enjoy denial so much because it draws it out.
You know, after the session, I’m still going, I’m still feeling it. Um, and it just builds. And then if you get like a basic, you know, guided call or like, you’re like, oh, wow, we have to switch way gears back right afterwards.
You’re like, Hey, need a minute. Hold on. Yeah.
I think my subspace can kind of tell when I’m in my, my Dom space. Cause I am like, fuck no to everything. Super sexy.
I found that. Is site longevity ever a factor in denying someone? I mean, do you change your decision in making someone a decision in making process, depending on if a person is familiar or not? Um, I think it helps because you know, each other. So you’re able to play off of it, obviously, like anything.
Dom space is a word of a day. It is. Thank you.
But I think, I think just like any relationship, I, my mistress, friends, everybody, what do you think? I think it is, but some people. Well, like once you know somebody and they’ve been there a while, it builds a deeper intimacy and more trust, like the person who’s been with us for a while trusts us enough to be like, you know what? Yeah. Let me relax into this and trust that you’re going to take me someplace.
Awesome. And it gives us more room and scope to try interesting things that maybe they haven’t tried before. So people who trust me enough to relax into it and do exactly what I just told them to do.
I mean, let me introduce you to the joy and fun of a ruined orgasm. I know it sounds scary. You’re going to love it because I promise if you let me ruin the first one, the second one, I’ll let you actually finish.
And usually if they trust me, then, well, this is one of the best things about denial. This is one of the most fun things. But if you get really, really good at controlling the orgasm, this is the kind of trick you can do.
I’m going to make you come so hard eventually that your knees go weak and you have to lay there panting for a while. Oh, yeah. That’s the goal, isn’t it? Make them simpering piles of goo.
I think Harper really focused on something that’s even more important than longevity, and that is trust. Yeah. There is longevity too.
Sometimes, sometimes you can get people that are really, really open faster than others. And sometimes that comes from kink shaming. Sometimes, you know what they hold inside.
Sometimes it just comes from insecurity, you know, that, that as an individual. So yeah, that they just don’t know how to communicate. Yeah.
Or that previous. Yeah, it is. It’s, it’s hard to, hard to trust, you know? So it requires submission to me.
Um, it requires a lot of trust and a lot of vulnerability. And that’s one of another reason why I enjoy denial so much is it gives us a chance to really dive deep into those aspects, um, and to deepen the submission, but deepen our connection as well. Uh, we get to know each other.
They get to know me along with that comes the trust and then they can be vulnerable and we can be vulnerable with each other because it’s not a, um, one-sided relationship. So that just kind of opens us up to that emotional intimacy that makes sex and orgasms just so fucking hard. And we were discussing this in our little pre get together.
Remember submission should never be done out of weakness. It takes strength to submit fully to your mistress. Very important.
Absolutely. Very important. Thank you for saying that, Krista.
Yeah. Thank you for bringing that up. Um, yeah, that is so true.
To submit takes, um, a great deal of strength. And if you’re doing DS right, um, the sub has the control. Don’t take this to your mistress and say, I have the control.
Um, because then I’m gonna have crisis. Thank you. Um, but I mean, any mistress would be like, yeah, you’re right.
You do. But also do we want to make this the explicit dynamic between us right now? Or were you looking for me to do what I’m really, really fucking good at? Right. And a good Dom would be very much aware of boundaries and, and you, um, as a person, as a, as a sub and would never, um, cross those lines.
So they’re going to protect you. We’re going to ensure that, um, yeah, even if you don’t get to come, you get more out of it. And I think that’s another reason why I like denial.
There’s more substance, more time to serve, which is what I love. Go ahead. Do you enjoy it? Um, when subbies serve.
Well, of course that is, there’s some ways of being a submissive is to serve. Truly. It is as somebody who, like my entry into BDSM was as a submissive, um, it was like the greatest honor to serve my Dom.
She was wonderful. She taught me so much. I learned so much from her.
Um, I got into submission. It really helped out like my, the anger issues that I had when I was younger. Um, but that was one thing that I really enjoyed was, you know, I was relinquishing control to her and she was giving me directions and I felt like I was becoming a better person because of the things that she was, you know, having me do, even though they were sexual and kinky, they were, you know, pushing some things inside of me and making me face some stuff that like I really wasn’t facing at the time.
Fuck. Yes. Fuck.
Yes. That’s what it’s about. Whenever I’m working with people here, like it’s difficult for me to work with folks who are maybe just trying to have a one-off moment because I really do want to build that trust.
I really do want to set up those guardrails and create a space where you feel safe to express yourself and safe to delve into these things. And even better still, you feel encouraged to find those places of discomfort within yourself and push through it. Because I feel like that’s the goal for me, at least as a dom, is to help you find those areas within yourself where you’re uncomfortable and to help you recognize that it’s discomfort.
It’s not a no, it’s a well, let me look into this a little bit more. Let me explore this a little bit more. And I’m here to help guide you through that.
And I know some people are put off by orgasm denial. They’re like, why would I ever not allow myself to come? There are reasons and they are needed and they are wonderful. I have a list of benefits for that, for the sub.
There are so many. Well, just to touch on them, intense anticipation and arousal. Experience the surrender of trust.
Mindful body awareness. Focus on the journey, not just the goal and the sense of being cared for and controlled. So think about that when you are asked to be denied or when you decide that you need to be denied.
Think about those. I truly believe that if you accept it, you will find all of those things to be very beneficial. There’s also especially that increased sensitivity, oof, I’m going to touch on it just really, really quick because we have a hot seat to get to.
But oh, yeah. So I practice tantra and tantra is all about denial, honestly, not necessarily orgasm denial, but ejaculation denial. And it’s about control and controlling every aspect of your sexuality.
And so one of the major reasons why male people benefit from doing things like tantra and from ejaculation control and orgasm control. Increased vitality, you get stronger, you get healthier, you get happier, it improves your mood, it makes your masturbation and therefore all of your sexual health much better, and it can boost your immune system. Like it literally makes you healthier.
Like, yeah, I love that, I love the heightened sense of arousal, I love how in tune you become with yourself, with your emotions, with your body, and you’re able to find new, very interesting ways to edge yourself, to turn yourself on, to get right there to the brink of an orgasm that doesn’t involve jerking off or having sex. So I fucking love that. I’m here for some toasty buns.
Somebody mentioned how long until action. It is hot. We do have a hot seat.
I’m here for toasty buns. Ooh. I want a hot ass.
Hot. Butter those buns up. All the questions.
Let me, I think I sent it to you. I put it all in a document and I put it in our chat. I’m just going to like type in names here.
That’s probably smart, given us. Hey Marie, do you have access to the doc? Do I? Oh gosh, you’re asking me something. Where did you put it? Cause you said you were putting names on it.
Uh huh. I put it in our group chat, our G chat. Oh, G chat.
Okay. Hold on. Hold on.
The one I have doesn’t have names on it. She’s updating. Oh, there it is.
Now I do. Nevermind. Okay.
Now I, now I got, I got the, the, the, the Google. See, we are on. Look at that.
Our shit. There we go. Oh, there we go.
I got stuff. So tonight we’re going to. I’m watching things room and move in front of me.
People. I know it’s like magic. It’s magic.
Oh, we’re going to show your mastery over Mercury right now. All of y’all out there who wish that you could have asked Ms. Demi questions. Well, you know what you could have.
We’ve been soliciting questions all over the social medias. The link is in the discourse, all over the socials, all over the social, which I’m on the new social. Great.
I did. I like this guy. I like, I couldn’t go on the twit.
I just, I, I, I can’t, I couldn’t. So I went to blue sky. Cause it’s like, you know, it has training wheels for me.
I tried to use the twit, but it is, it is offensive and and then I’m going to get offensive. I’m going to get in a fight and I’m going to have to pull Harper in Hunter. And I’m going to pull all you guys in.
And they’re going to be like, okay. He started a fight. Fight.
And then Harper joined in and now, and now Constance is ladies, ladies, please post down, take it down. You can’t call somebody that name in public. And we’ll be like, consider he’s trendy.
He’s a testicle sniffing fart machine. So when I called him that it was the truth. I didn’t lie.
Yeah. I’m not. There we go.
We’re all suspended. Can’t call. I thought you said you’re all in suspense waiting on Denise questions.
Oh, we’re all in suspense. I thought she said, you ready to get grilled? Demi? Let’s do it. Let’s do it.
Yes. I am up first. Mistress for someone devoted to serving your feet.
What small acts separate the timid from the truly obedience? How can someone accept a preference for certain physical symbols like feet or shoes without feeling embarrassed or judged? You got a two for there. Uh, let’s answer the first one. What small apps separate the timid from the truly obedient.
I would have to say your eagerness. I need, I want to see how eager you are to worshiping my feet. I absolutely love foot worship.
I love body worship in general. And I’m not just talking about my pussy, my ass, my feet. Worship my mind.
Fucking love that. Um, how can someone accept a preference? I would say acknowledging that this is an interest of yours and owning it. Um, I think that one, one thing that society does very well is, um, same as when it comes to socks and I absolutely believe in owning, um, what turns us on because I, I promise you’re not the only person and as long as it’s safe and consensual, go for it.
Oh yeah. That’s your answers. Yes.
Don’t be embarrassed. We won’t judge you. We promise.
Oh, maybe a little bit if you want it. God is Demi. This question comes from a guy that’s asked, how should I let a woman that I’m interested in know that I am undersized? I am six, four and girls expect me to be huge and thick.
I’m micro. So leads to a lot of embarrassing moments. So I’m cock fish, cock fish, cock fish.
Oh, cock fest. You can’t change your size. And when cock fish says that they’re micro, they are micro.
Um, and that’s not going to change honey. So accept your micro penis and yet front, um, don’t cock fish anybody and lead them on and lead them into thinking that you have something that you clearly do not have. Um, be honest with them and get really, really, really good at working that tongue.
I love it. Maybe have big fingers. Fingers too.
Yes. I also really love it. It’s kind of mean, but I love it.
I’m putting it at somebody that has a tiny penis in a cage and then having them kind of strap on. All right. I think everybody’s brain just melted.
I was like, Oh, I wanted to hop in and say more, but yeah, me. All right. Goddess, how do you decide which submissives are lucky enough to serve and learn under you? Hmm.
Eagerness going back to that. I want to know, I want to know that you can keep up with me. Um, not for everybody.
I can be a bit intense. Um, but like I told somebody the other day, um, they said that they were too much. I’m like, well, if someone ever tells you you’re too much, go tell them to go find less.
Um, so if they can keep up with me, if they are eager and open to exploring new things, I am all for it. I love that. Miss Demi, whenever you get a new slave, what is one of your favorite things to do with them? Um, definitely talk with them and find out what their boundaries are.
Um, see if we vibe together. I love that word vibe. Hey Marie, that’s like one of my favorite words.
Um, I want to know that we can, um, really connect and that this can be something that can be a long-term, um, relationship between the two of us. So we’ll definitely test, you know, what they’re into, um, and make sure that we mesh completely and, and see if they can, uh, keep up. Love that answer too.
You’re really killing it tonight, Miss Demi. I have a question for you. What is your ideal penis size or what are your ideal penis sizes for different activities? Hand jobs, blow jobs, PIV, PIA, ball busting, SPH, et cetera.
I love the penis size questions. Um, ideal penis. I’m a size queen.
I am not going to, um, not gonna, I’m very strict. I have a very strict nine inch minimum. Um, and I know that that knocks out the majority of men and there’s a reason for that.
I want the best and I want a nine inch cock at least. So, um, if you don’t measure up, that’s okay. There’s other things that we can do and ways that you can serve, but yeah, nine inches for sure.
Hell yeah. Got to keep those standards high, girl. Absolutely.
All right. Miss Demi, if you had to get a sub to do one of these tasks, which do you think you’re most likely to get him to succeed or successfully accomplish and how? Number one, swallow his entire load. Two, take full force kicks in the testicles after coming down.
Or three, except one minute of intense post-orgasm torment. Hmm. I love this.
I really, really love this. Um, perhaps to whoever submitted this question, I’m going to say, so I’m not, um, pain really isn’t my thing. I dabble in a little bit of pain.
Um, I like the pain that feels so fucking good. Um, that sort of pain. So I would absolutely take out the, the kicks in the testicles.
Um, but I would combine, uh, swallowing your entire load and then enduring a minute of, um, post-orgasm torment. I think that would be really fucking hot. Um, and how would I get them to accomplish it? Oh, well, I tell them that that is what I want them to do there.
If I’m going to let you come, I expect you to clean up every last drop of that come for me. And I’ve had very good success with that. Um, the one minute of post-orgasm torment, that’s a lot of fun because you know what, sometimes you can get them to come again.
I do love making them come twice. Mm hmm. Yeah.
And then the stimulation is so much fun. That’s almost as fun as denial. Yes.
All right. Miss Demi, this one says, good evening, Miss Demi. Don’t burn that beautiful booty in the hot seat tonight.
My question is the five senses combined with sex, but don’t think too hard. Just the first thing that comes to mind is fine. What’s your favorite sex? Smell, taste, sound, sight, touch.
Sincerely, Mott. Oh, thank you, Mott. Um, no, sex has a smell, that smell of arousal, passion, what, um, it’s hard to describe, I don’t, I can’t really describe that, that scent of sex, but I think you all know what I mean.
Um, if you’ve had sex, you know that smell. Um, my favorite taste is, um, the taste of my pussy on their lips. Mm.
Favorite sound is that sound of clapping, frustration, and plopping. I love that. Perfect.
Sight, the look in someone’s eyes, I feel fucking just craving, um, your touch. I love that, that look in their eyes. Uh, my favorite touch would be, okay, so this is a little personal.
When somebody kisses your neck, that makes me so weak in the knees. I mean, I love that. That was a great question, Matt.
Thank you. I just lost you for a second. Sorry about that.
That was a great question. I like that one. Whoops.
Can you guys hear me? No. We can hear you. Like, wait a minute.
I can’t. Nobody’s responding. Harper, you’re a smart ass.
She just had to. Didn’t she? She had to. Sorry.
No, you’re not. You’re just not. You’re not.
You’re not. I love you guys. You’re not.
All right. Miss Demi, mine’s not a question. Okay.
Mine’s like, mine’s not. Mine’s not a question. Mine’s just a little bit of a fan.
Mine is, Mistress Demi, you are so hot. Will you be my girlfriend? I yearn to be in a female-led relationship. And I think you could boss me around and treat me like a simp.
So good. And that is it. That is it.
I love that. And I actually got through that without giggling. And I said the word simp without giggling.
And on the rebound of Harper being a smart ass. Great job. I want a cookie and a glass of wine.
Oh, yeah. I have both. Fuck the cookie.
Fuck the cookie. So there you go. Okay.
I love a good simp. I love a good simp. And you are hot.
I’m not saying that. And you’re probably an amazing girlfriend and an amazing female-led relationship. Although if you were in a female-led relationship, would that take you off the market? Or are you good with multiple? I do not believe in monogamy.
I feel that it’s very selfish to expect one person to meet all of our needs. So I am very open. And I believe that every relationship should be female-led.
Oh, yes. A man involved. Let the female lead.
Yes. Eliminate all the poor decisions in life. Let the female lead.
Relationship will be a lot smoother. The housework and things like that will be divided evenly. You can trust that.
Okay. So I have a hard limit on housework. Cooking and cleaning.
It’s not. I don’t. I can’t.
Can. I don’t want to. You’re able, but that’s not your specialty.
No. No. But I’ll dress you up while you do it.
There you go. Yes. I think landscaping is a spectator sport.
See, I like to garden. What the fuck is it with everybody here? I know. You know what? It’s Harper.
Okay. We’re going to blame everything on Harper. Sissy pageant.
It’s our. Yeah. So when I could put in Twitter, jail, maybe it was our first fall.
She told me to do it. Well, did we want to continue with the questions or is this a good time to kind of wind down since we’re at the end of the day? Yeah, I don’t mind going over a little bit. Y’all have more.
Not at all. Awesome. Yes.
Over time. I love it. It’s Harper’s fault.
It’s Harper’s fault. Hey. Blame it on Harper.
Okay. Miss Demi. What is it? Okay.
Another one about cock size. Come on, y’all. Demi.
What is your personal? Well, she already answered this. What is your personal ideal cock size to please you best? Fucking love this. It’s like, you guys know that I’m a size queen.
Nine inches. Yep. Yep.
Thank you. Divine. Yeah.
Well, your next question is, do you like to be spanked? You want to find out? I do. I want to find out. Right.
Like some of these, pick up the phone. Pick up the phone and ask. We said almost anything.
That’s right. Learn the rules. Demi.
What do you find most rewarding about being a Dom? I really like this one. You know, it really, really hits me in the heart. When a savvy hits a goal, or we have a breakthrough of any kind.
That truly is rewarding to me. It could be just the smallest of things. Anybody else, but if it is something that.
I know is very special. Like that is. That’s why I do it.
I fucking live for that. I love that. I do.
That means I get that that when I relate to. And this one, this, I like this one and you could take it on either side on this one. What advice would you give to someone new to a Dom sub lifestyle? Take it as a Dom or a sub.
Yeah, I would say. You don’t need to have all the answers, but. Find out your why.
Why are you interested? What do you want to accomplish? In your exploration, what do you, what do you want to get from it? Read as much as you can about. Domination and submission, depending on. Which way you lean, but.
It never hurts to. Alternative as well. Be open minded and.
And know that it’s an amazing community of people that are very welcoming and. Accepting and fucking perverted as fuck. And it’s amazing.
Jump right in. I like that answer. Well, it looks like I have the last question of the night and Miss Demi.
What do you look for in a submissive that wants to establish a long term D slash? Well, dominant submissive relationship with you. I would say that. Their openness to explore.
Somebody again that can. Kind of keep up somebody that wants to. Learn that wants to explore that.
Is totally okay with some of the crazy fucking ideas that I come up with, but I promise there’s always. A reason behind it, and I don’t necessarily tell you every detail, but that’s when trust comes in. Yeah, somebody that is.
Willing to be a ride or die with me. I love that little hide her pistol. Help her cover up a crime or two.
Yeah. Yeah. Always call.
So we know what we’re what we’re wearing. You know, you call me and I got to figure out. Okay.
Do I have to leave my phone at home? So I can’t be traced from going. That’s what I need to know. Yeah.
Good things to think about. Absolutely. These are really good questions, guys.
I love that. Thank you to everybody for some of the best ones that we’ve had. Good job.
Really good ones. They really were. And, of course.
You know, say, say naughty things so they can get off. Looking at you. Yeah, we see, you know.
I love that everybody’s so concerned about. I fucking love. We know where their heads are at right now.
Yes. There’s nobody in here that measures up to Demi standards. I would almost guarantee that.
However, I do have in my drawer. I do have in my drawer. Exactly the size that you need.
Kind of like there’s an app for that. Christa has a toy for that. Is what she’s trying to say.
And it vibrates. So that makes sense. Yeah.
She is a sex toy superhero. I know. I know.
She really is. She’s the good. Friday tonight.
This was a lot of fun. I’m going to link. A few blogs.
That. We’re posted this week. One on our Femdom Friday website.
And the other on my blog. I just posted like two hours ago. They are about orgasm denial.
So be sure to check them out. Femdom Fridays. Dot com and.
Dot com. And share your answers. There.
With us in the comments. We want to know we have some questions for you. Everybody enjoy the rest.
Of. You’ve earned it. For sure.
A sexy. We’ll see you next Friday. Good night, everyone.
Thank you. Have a good weekend. Take care, everyone.
Yeah. Hi. Hi.
Hi, everybody. Good night.
