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I see you now. I love it. Thank you.
My bestie hooked me up. And so cute. Oh, she drew it.
Yeah. Oh, that’s badass. I love that.
You saw that. Oh, my God. Gorgeous.
Welcome. Welcome. Happy Friday.
Oh, excited for tonight. Welcome, Miss Erica. Oh, thank you so much.
And how many people do we have? 29 in chat in listening in right now. Is that what I hear? Another 32 messages. Well, we have 11 people.
I thought we would start off and I’m sorry to be like this, but I’m very excited to be here with you ladies. You guys are having a fantastic time on Feminine Fridays, and I couldn’t imagine doing anything else to kick off my anniversary. So if I can get, let’s say five Happy Anniversary, Miss Erica in chat, I have a beautiful little peach vodka shot that I will take for you.
I love that. I love that. Wait, what do we have to say to make you? I do it.
Happy Anniversary, Erica. And welcome everyone to Femdom Fridays. You can find us live every Friday at 9pm Eastern on the Enchantrix Empire Discord server.
But you must be 18 or older to join. And you can listen in to the replay every Saturday on your favorite podcast platform. I am Goddess Dummy.
And I’m hosting tonight. Tonight we’re going to talk about our Word of the Year for 2026. I want all the ladies to introduce themselves first.
Miss Bianca. Hello, I’m Bianca. My blog is KinkyFilmFantasy.com. Of course, I’m on FemdomFridays.com. You can find me on X as Miss Bianca EE.
And I have a blue sky as well, Enchantrix Bianca. It’s really happy to be here. Hello, everyone.
Hello, it’s Becky. Well, hello. I missed you all last week.
I’m Miss Becky. You can find me at IntelligentPhoneSexCalls.com. You can find my podcast Kinkology, the psychology of kink on all of your favorite streaming platforms comes out on Fridays. The most recent episode is Coerced Orgasms.
I had fun doing that one. I’ll tell you that much. And why don’t you take it away, Miss Harper? Well, I’m Harper.
I’m the host of your live adult sex education podcast, Whore School, which you can find at WhoreSchool.net. I have a blog. I also have my blog, FetishPhoneSexBlog.com. I’m on socials. I’m on Twitter as Enchantrix Harper.
There is a typo. There’s no letter I in Enchantrix. Whoops.
I’m also on blueskyharperenchantrix.busky.social, which I actually managed to spell correctly that time. Go me. Follow me around because I’m entertaining.
I tend to post bad jokes and puns. You’re welcome. And then we go to Krista.
Well, hello, everybody. I am Miss Krista, and you can find me at PhoneSexFetishBlog.com. You can also find me on X. I’m not 100% sure what my X handle is. It’s Krista and Chance.
It’s Krista and Chance. I also have a podcast on Saturdays. It’s Kinks and Drinks.
And it is a really fun show. We try to keep it edgy, and we discuss fun topics. This week’s topic is going to be the difference between orgasms and ejaculation.
So come join me. It’s going to be a lot of fun. And that’s at 9 p.m. And I am Goddess Michelle, your melodious and sometimes malefic divinity.
And you can find me on themasterofatrix.com. I am also on the Hell site at The Divine Me, showing off my love of Megan Thee Stallion. And you can also find me on Blue Sky at themasterofatrix.bsky.social. And I am just pleased as punch to be hanging out with y’all tonight. I love that.
And you know what? I alphabetted wrong. I skipped Demi and fucking Erika. Well.
Yeah, you did. Miss Erika, would you like- Well, you introduced yourself instead of Erika, so I kind of understood. Would you like to introduce yourself, Erika, and share your socials and where everybody can hear you? Absolutely.
Thank you. I’m Mrs. Erika from IntelligentPhoneFantasy.com. I co-host a podcast. We have such great podcasters here.
I am amongst many talented ladies. I am a co-host with Olivia, the weekly hotspot that comes out Mondays at 1 p.m. We have some really great guests. And when you want to go on a safari, hit us up.
My socials are erikanchantrix, no matter where you look. And that’s it, I think. Love it.
Love it. And I am Demi. You can find me at sensualcocktease.com and here on Fridays at Simdom Fridays.
And we have a special drink for tonight, don’t we, Krista? We do. It’s called Word Play, kind of a combination between the word of the year and the games that we’re going to be playing. And it is two ounces of Ciroc apple, an ounce of Mott’s apple cider, and an ounce of cinnamon syrup.
I love that for Mott. It is delicious. Oh my god, I’m drinking it right now.
Oh, Mott, how cute. Ciroc is my brand. Their apple is fucking phenomenal.
It is. I haven’t had the apple. It’s really good.
Amazingly good. Yeah. Highly recommend.
And that tastes really, really good during the fall and winter. It is getting way too cold for me. So I’m going to be looking for some ways to warm up.
Well, that’ll definitely warm you up. I think she might have been hinting at something else, Krista. Maybe.
Maybe. That’s a good starting place. That’s right.
It is. I agree. So tonight we are going to set some intentions for 2026.
For one, I can’t fucking believe that it’s already December. The year has flown by. Wow.
I made the intention intentional. And I wanted to be more intentional with the relationship that I have with people, the connections that I make, and the things that I’m doing in life. What I learned was I needed to start being more intentional with myself.
And that was a huge fucking learning experience for me. So I thought much harder about my word for next year. But first I want to hear from the ladies.
What words are you throwing around in your head or have you decided on a word yet? Bianca? I’ve been throwing around the word transformation, but that can be kind of scary, because what kind of transformation is going to happen in my life that I’m not in control of? Evolving was another. I want to evolve as a person, as a mistress, in all areas of my life. And then somebody sexy, Miss Michelle, said maybe evolve was better for me.
And I’m really thinking that evolve just might, or ascend, ascend, excuse me, had a little drinky drink already. Like ascend, you know, ascend to higher levels and just be the best that I can be for this next year. Still, still working on it, though.
I love that. What about you, Becky? Now, I am still tossing around words. You want to hear something horrible? So first of all, I have two word stories.
First, I do not remember what my word was last year. I went through and I like, listen, I sat down. I always do every year.
I’m like, what do I want my word to be? And I become very, very intentional about what I want my word to be. And I have no fucking idea what it was. So that’s my first story.
My second story is I, one of the reasons that I am so intentional about the words that I pick is because I picked plucky one year. Plucky. And let me tell you, the universe was like fucking fat and just threw me all of the hardship that I could ever have.
So I don’t know exactly what my word is going to be, but I’ve been tossing around magical because I think that having the ability to view anything, the mundane world with eyes of magic, make you feel empowered, make you, you know, change your mindset. And I think I can bring a lot of magic to the year by doing it that way. So, yeah, I’m leaning towards that one.
But I’m still, I’m still checking around, seeing what I like. Yeah. Being plucky with it.
Being plucky with it. That’s right. Don’t be careful with your words, guys.
Remember, the whole idea is to live into the words. So you don’t want to give the universe any tricky ideas. Yeah.
I, um, I don’t know. So the whole thing of doing a word of the year is instead of doing a New Year’s resolution or several, you just choose one word that you want to embody the upcoming year. I overthink it and had a bunch of different ideas and words running around through my head all year.
And I finally, I finally settled on one today, actually. But this is a word that I was throwing around in my head since April. And it’s intuition.
Last spring, Becky did an oracle reading for me and one of my pets. And the card that she chose for me was inner trust. And inner trust in your intuition.
That was when I decided that’s going to be my fucking word for 2026. And it’s been in my head. I’ve tossed around a bunch of different words.
But I think intuition is what I’m settling with for 2026. I’m going to trust my intuition and lean into that because it’s never steered me wrong. What about you, Erica? You know, I was just thinking, Demi, I think about enjoying my life at this point.
I am very blessed to have found LDW and to be able to be afforded to have a lifestyle and that I enjoy and enjoy what I do. But hearing the inspiration from you ladies today, instantly the only word that came to mind, well, actually two, I’ll tell you the second one, because that was just me being silly. The first one is freedom, right? What do we do here, ladies? We offer people freedom to be who they are.
In many ways, I have found freedom in being who I am here. I am all of me, not just part of me, right? I’m the businesswoman. I’m the creative director.
I am the mistress. I am all these things which really fulfills me. And I like to bring that freedom to those who come to us, even if it’s only a freedom, a respite for that hour that they join us, knowing that, and I just want to spread that.
And I hope with the weekly hotspot, we’ve kind of do that as well with our audience. My second word was going to be coccupied, because I want to be occupied by CoC more in 2026. As a matter of fact, that’s usually why I’m not around on Friday’s night.
So sorry, ladies can’t come to FEMD on Fridays. I’ll be coccupied. Michelle, thinking of you, girl.
Yes. Right on. Right on.
I love that. What about you, Harper? You know, I had the hardest time trying to figure out what I wanted, any like word or theme or thing, because there’s too many things. They’re all good.
They’re all good words. But then I was like, okay, if I have to narrow it down, it’s going to be something like rejuvenation or revitalization, like an infusion of fresh new energy, coming at things from a new direction or perspective or point of view with greater energy and drive. So something like that.
I love that, Harper. I’m kind of afraid to ask Krista. I don’t know what she’s going to say.
You never know what we do. Actually, I have two. I love it.
The first one is deliberate. I want to be more deliberate with what I do, how I go about doing things. And the second one goes really well with that.
And that’s diligence. Love it. In order to be deliberate, you have to have diligence.
So I think the two words go very well together. Yes. Krista, I love that.
Right. Go, Bessie. Right.
That’s awesome. I really, really, really love that. I didn’t shock you too bad.
I know. I almost felt like little Johnny on the spot there for a second, you know, the teacher never knowing what he’s going to say. OK, little Johnny, go ahead.
Tell them your two words from pregame, which is why you said that you were scared of what you were going to say. No. Well, you know, I was not aware of what this was really about at pregame.
So I thought it was like fun words, things that tickled me or things that I really enjoyed from last year. And the one word that just really I loved came from Demi, which was cock fish. I never had a term for a guy telling me that he had an eight inch cock and he had a three inch cock.
And now I do a good cock fish. And we were like, girl, you do not want to live into that. Oh, I’m not.
That’s not my that’s not my word for this year. But I do love that word from last year. Cock fishes are fun to tease and torment, though.
Oh, yes. And we don’t want a cock fish. That term will be in this blog that I’m going to be releasing in the next day or two.
And I will be giving Demi full credit for it. I love it. I love it.
Cock fish is a great word. What was the other word that you were going to? I don’t remember. It was twat waffle.
That was my word. I love it. Oh, my God.
I love twat waffle. That is a wonderful word. Brave, little honey.
You’re right, Ivy. Twat waffle is just a great utility word. It really is.
It really is. There’s so many times I message Kitty and I’m like, oh, my God, these twat waffles. And she gets it.
Everybody’s a twat waffle. What about a twat sucker when they are so twatty they suck? Twat sucker. Like that.
That’s pretty good. Inspires some really good images, too. In the brain.
Cock womble. Oh, that’s a great one. You are loving this.
Cum breath. Love that. Ass monkeys and all the other good stuff that goes along with those words.
Patty says, stop it with your strange words. Whatever. You like it.
You like it. I knew a dick breath one time. Yeah.
That’s a great name. That is a great name. If everybody got to do two words, then I can do two, right? Of course.
Of course. I can match that. You can do three if you want.
Well, now, let’s not get crazy. That’s quite decadent there. But my two words, my first word is abundance.
Because all of the things that I want to get this year, like more orgasms, give more orgasms, eat some really good food, you know, all the experiences that I want to have. I want to have a lot of them. So abundance is my first one.
And then my second word is opulence. Because I deserve. I deserve really nice things.
I deserve really nice fabrics against my body. I deserve fantastic skincare. Oh, all of those things that just make you feel good sensually.
I deserve that. So opulent. I mean, abundant opulence for goddess Michelle this year.
Those are my words. Opulence is so good. I thought you were going to go for coccupied because in the pregame meeting, see, you guys are all trying to come up with these fancy ones for now in front of everybody.
But I heard. Just one. But also, I don’t just want dick.
I want pussy too. I want it all. Give it to me.
Michelle wants it all and you deserve it all. I love it. The chat shared a few words on our blog earlier this week.
And, Mott, I really liked your word. I am pro-noia. Am I saying that right? It’s pro-noia.
Great word. That was a really good word. I know.
I was so surprised. I thought it was. I thought surely it was going to be something like bordering on the edges of inappropriate.
But he did great. Great job typing it up and cleaning it up. Good for you.
That the universe is conspiring to help them. It’s the opposite of paranoia and work. Yes.
Yeah, I love that. We also had Demi owns me who shared their word is dedication. Dedication to goddess Demi.
Thank you. Thank you. And her happiness.
Such a sweetheart. So, yeah, I want to see in our chat. What are your words? I’ve seen prisoner post up there way back up there about me being a sociopath.
Now, come on. I know that’s kind of rude. Because I tested as a sociopath doesn’t mean I am one.
You did test as a sociopath like a lot. Yeah, I know, but. Was that on the quiz? Maybe don’t call a sociopath a sociopath to their face.
Yeah, you never know what I might do to you if you do that. Get yourself in trouble, prisoner. I’m telling K Marie.
That’s right. I am very good friends with K Marie. You’re in trouble now.
Just imagine the punishment that she’s going to delve out just for me to you. Ivy put I think I might have landed on resilience. Oh, that’s a very good one.
That is perfect. Ivy type for you. I hear you.
I hear you. Patty had asked about. What is the intention of deciding what these words are? What are you hoping to do? So I was trying to tell them it’s about what you focus on.
Like, if you have a negative mindset, then everything around you is like crappy and shitty, right? Because you’re focused on everything is awful. And it’s like as if the universe is a giant machine that goes. Yeah, OK, sure.
What you see and what you feel about the world is what you end up experiencing, which can suck if you have mental health issues or a negative mindset. So by picking the word of the year, you’re giving your brain a framework to look at through the whole year. What you focus on, you say, yeah, like, isn’t that like the point of setting intentions, though? You set your intention because you want that to become your focus.
You want whatever it is that you’re pouring and feeding that energy into to become your reality. And it can’t become a reality if you’re not focusing on those positive things. Yeah.
And then when they’re picking the word of the year, you get to live into whatever word that you pick. So there’s so many different ways that you can accomplish. Like, I can be magical in truly magical ways, right? So I can live into that during any challenge, during any, you know, for any goal that I have, instead of making a long laundry list of goals that I want to achieve, I can just keep my mind on magical and bring the magic to every single situation.
My church, yeah, my church does it. And yes, I go to church sometimes. All right.
I know, right? I go to a very spiritual, spiritual church. But they do a white stone ceremony where it is what you are picking is your new name for the year. You’re, you know, and you write it on your little white stone and you keep it forever and ever.
I like that. I like that. I think your word, the thing with your word is it doesn’t have to make sense to anybody but you.
Yes. It’s your word. So choose something that works for you and you don’t have to, you don’t have to explain it to anybody.
You know what that word is. You know what it means. You know what your intentions are behind it.
Really, the goal is setting something that you want, you want to use to remind you of your, your goals for the year, things that you hope to see throughout the year. Things like that. Choose something that works for you.
Becky needs the confessional. Oh God, could you imagine? We need to, maybe we need to do that sometime. Yes.
That would be so fun. I’ve been asked about how do you find balance without being toxically positive? That’s a good question. Harsh realities we’re in without being bound by those hard issues that are real.
So I told her it’s toxic positivity is rooted in a refusal to acknowledge reality. So you combat it by seeing the world and acknowledging that it is what it is and making your intentions that I misspelled, damn it. And then your plans around your intentions flexible so that you can work with reality instead of merrily sticking your fingers in your ear and going, la, la, la, la, la.
Oh, excellent response, Harper. Yeah. Hope that helped, Ivy.
I’ve never seen so many women who’ve seen my unit speaking at the same time. I like it. Yeah, we have, haven’t we? We’ve all seen your penis.
We’ve seen quite a few. Professional. We’ve all seen whose penis, what? Oh, the doctor’s.
Have you seen the doctor’s penis? I have not. Oh, no, I have not. But I have not.
Well, I would like to play a fun little game with you all tonight. Oh, penis time. Okay, Mott, you gonna show us? Um, yes, yes, yes.
In a session. Oh, God, girl. With consent.
But I would like to play a game of friendly feud with you all tonight. I’m going to let Miss Bianca go first, please. Ooh, all right.
Oh, I found a really good one that I like a lot. It says, name a crime that most cops have probably committed themselves. Speeding.
Public indecency. And drug abuse. I know, we’re supposed to go in order.
I’m sorry. Oh, oops. Are we supposed to go in order? Whoopsie.
We didn’t. I don’t know what order we’re in. It’s supposed to be alphabetical.
Okay. In the chat, we have speeding, lying, drunk driving, red light running. I’m gonna say it.
I’m gonna say it. I said it. Yeah.
Oh, ooh. Yeah, that, yes. That was my answer, Becky.
That was my answer. I was gonna say assault. Absolutely.
For reals. Drug dealing. Well, they do.
That is a true statement. Did y’all say narcos? Come on. I saw the shield.
I saw the shield. I know what them up to. Do we need them at the top? Yeah, very good.
Basically, any criminal activity that can be done, cops do. Yep. Just saying.
Impersonating a police officer. Number one is definitely speeding. I think that was a no-brainer, though.
I’ve seen them, like, driving like normal, and they turn their little lights on in order to run a red light, and then turn their lights back on again. Oh, yeah, they do that all the time. I’m not there.
So Texas just passed a fun law about, it’s a bathroom law, basically, but it’s an anti-trans law. So now all of the police officers that wear panties underneath their uniforms are technically breaking the law. Oh, my God.
You know a couple that wear panties? Oh, I love it. Oh, my goodness. Bad, bad boys.
Come after you. Becky. Wait.
Did we look at the card? I totally just spaced for a second. So, yeah. So number one was speeding.
Then we have stealing, littering, jaywalking, and assault. Yep. We knew it was there.
Basically, everything is free-for-all. I didn’t realize what a big deal jaywalking is. What the actual fuck? It’s amazing that it’s actually a crime.
It’s amazing that it’s a crime. They use it down in Florida. They use that so they can search you.
They’ll say that you jaywalk so they can actually have an excuse to search you. Oh, Florida, how I hate you. Oh, they do that everywhere.
So before cars, roads were for pedestrians. And so it was pedestrians. And then if you had a horse and a wagon, you still had to give way to all the pedestrians.
And then cars came along and they were like, well, how do we sell more cars? I know. Make it so that people aren’t allowed to walk on the roads. Isn’t that dumb? And whatever you do, don’t go to Japan.
It’s a $500 fine for jaywalking. They take it very seriously there. Oh my god.
Yes, they do. Oh my god. Welcome to Thumbnail Friday, let me know what you learned.
I’d rather be arrested than they take my money, right? Exactly. Risk me, officer. Becky, why don’t you pick a card for us? Yay, I was hoping so.
All right. Name something most men try to do in a sexy way, but they just look foolish instead. That’s some great answers.
Sorry. That’s a great one. Write romance novels.
Writing women. Oh, yeah. Fucking amazing.
You proved Breastily. Some men just can’t do that sultry look. Some can, but a lot cannot.
Right, like a sexy little smoldering look. They usually just look like they’re undressing you with your eyes, which is a lot different. Do you guys know who Paul Olima is? No, enlighten us, Miss Becky.
He’s a TikTok star, and he does. He’s a really well-known creator, and his entire platform is essentially he’ll take these videos of these guys trying to do sexy little videos. He makes fun of a lot of different things, but he’ll do a series of making fun of these sultry-looking videos, just completely ragging on these guys.
They’re so good. I’ll send them to you guys sometime. Okay, but have you guys seen some of those guys? I saw Gardening with Johnny.
He’s a firefighter from Manchester built, but his hobby is gardening, and so he does gardening videos, and he takes those, you know, the sexy cooking video things where people are like slapping their meat and then sliding it on the grill, and it’s all seductive. He mocks those by doing it with gardening, and so there’s like a supercut out there of him slapping bags of potting soil. I need to find that.
That sounds amazing. Gardening porn. Oh, what was his name? The guy that used to do… He used to do porn videos, and he was just such… He did the most innocent little ones.
Like he would be like, point of view, I kiss you softly to sleep after giving you an orgasm, and it’s just like him leaning down, tucking the covers up, kissing your forehead. He had a Pornhub account and everything. It was so good.
I know it’s not wrong, Jeremy. No, it’s Chris something or other. Chris, oh, he was so great.
I’d like to ask a question if we’re done with that one. What is the answers? Okay, the answers are dance, flirt or wink, drip. Miss Bianca got that one.
Pose for selfies, flex their muscles, and twerk. Poor guys. Stick with the dick.
That’s right. Well, thank you so much for Miss Demi for sharing these cards. I saw one that I think is going to be so much fun.
Are you ready? What might you hide something you wanted to smuggle into prison? Where you might hide something that you want to smuggle into prison? Let’s see how many convicts we have. I’m gonna put it in my badge. I’m gonna put it in my badge.
Badge, Ivy, your prison wallet is your what, darling? I know what a prison wallet is. Don’t ask me why. I do know what it is.
Tell us, Ivy, what is it? In the butt, Bob. In the butt, Bob. That’s right.
Where else? Prison wallet? In your partner’s ass. That is a good answer. I like that.
Any more? In my mind. What are you going to smuggle in? That hot fantasy of flying into the universe with me, doctor? In your hair. That’s a good place.
Oh, that’s a very good one. Yes. What kind of hair? Just kidding.
I don’t have hair anywhere. I don’t have enough hair. No.
Well, there’s a pro for you if you want to smuggle things into prison. Grow your bush. Braid it up.
Braid it up. Tie it up. Fluff them up.
French braid that shit. If you have big boobs, you know, cleavage is another good place to hide things. They’re right underneath your boob.
One time I brought a pack of cigarettes, a lighter, a bowl, pot, and some extra money in my bra. There you go. A titty purse.
I love how you said one time. How many times were they, Becky? No kidding, Becky. You know, if it wasn’t prison, I used to, you know, the old toys that had the batteries.
You take the batteries out and you could put things inside the toy, like pot, whatever. And if you get pulled over, cops will never open one of those up. Because they’re chickens.
I am furiously making notes. Not that I plan on getting arrested or smuggling drugs anytime soon, but information is a good thing. You ready for the answers? I think everybody got at least one of them, right? So in a cape, up your butt, underwear, bra, shoes, hair, and inside a book.
Nobody opens books anymore. You might get patted down. What is this, a book? What’s wrong with your phone? They didn’t even put vag on there.
You know that’s the first place we’re putting stuff. No, the best way to get stuff into prison is the guards. Just pay the guards and they’ll bring it in for you.
Just so you know. That’s for anybody that’s trying to break the law, whatever. I need some quick pro tips.
There you go. There you go. I’m telling you.
No more sociopath coming out of me, I guess. But yes. I have a stupid question.
Did we put Craig in here? Yeah, we did. Never mind. We did.
I see him. He’s right there staring at me with his goofy face. Should we do the hot seat now? We should.
Are you prepared to have your buns roasted, Erica? Yeah, hold on. Let me finish this other shot I got. Thanks, Harper.
You’re welcome. All right. I’m all juice stuff, ladies.
Juicy. Miss Bianca, why don’t you take it away? The first question we have is, Miss Erica, do you like lesbian sex? But what I think they meant is, do you do any kind of girl-on-girl action? A little sapphic play? Well, I did have a smart ass answer. I was like, I do like it when lesbians have sex.
I like it when anybody has sex. But you just touched upon a point that Olivia has been trying to get me to jump the fence for a couple of years now. And she’s enlisted some enchantress mistresses that are more than willing to aid in the endeavor.
Other than a hot makeout session in college, it’s just I haven’t found the right woman. I’m not saying no. I just haven’t found the right lady.
How about that? Love it. Mm-hmm. Volunteers.
I love the ladies here just raised our hands. They’re like, we volunteers, tribute. Yes.
Absolutely. Well, I can tell you when you do find the right woman. Watch out.
Absolutely. Never say never. I practice what I preach.
Hey, Mistress Erica. What do you enjoy most about when a submissive fucking begs you for the strict? No mercy, Mistress Erica. Just hearing you say no mercy, Becky, has perked up my nipples.
Aside from how my pussy throbs when I have that opportunity. What’s not to enjoy, right? But let’s be realistic. I need to know you first, right? I need to be able to trust you and you me if I know you or your mistress.
I am more than willing to unleash my best for us. Love that. Perfect answer.
Yes. Mistress Erica, when or at what point did you decide that this is what you wanted to do as a career? Oh, that is a great question. It was pretty early on.
I would have to say a few months, maybe within the first six months. I did this, anybody who knows my history, I did this as a stopgap, right? I said, I’m looking for something to tide me over till I find what I want to do. I was starting my own side business doing accounting type things.
And I thought this would be really great to start, to tide me over until things picked up. Well, I absolutely fell in love with it. My biggest concern was whether I can translate what I do personally in person over the phone.
And about six months in, somebody I was talking to was really very vulnerable with me and told me how important I had become to them. Being able to be free, again, the freedom. And I realized this is what I need to do forever.
I’m actually helping people through their journey, not only sexually, but in other ways. It’s a beautiful thing. I love that.
It’s my turn, isn’t it? It is your turn, honey. Yes, it is. Alphabet.
All right. So, Miss Erica, you started in 2017, and everybody knows that you enjoy your profession very much. We also know that you like to push boundaries in your time with LDW.
Have your boundaries expanded? And if so, in what ways? Keep up the good work. We all appreciate it. Oh, I know who wrote that.
That’s Erica Owns Me, wrote that. I can tell his writing style from anywhere. Thank you, darling, for that.
That’s very sweet. I think I’ve always been, very early on, a very compassionate, understanding, open-minded individual, dealing with, you know, my personal family, friends who, you know, some are transgender, some are gay, all walks of life. I grew up in the Navy, so I’m very used to very different types of cultures.
And I have to say, though, being here, I feel my compassion for others have grown. My patience for people have grown. I’ve never been this patient.
I really get to see the intimate side of people, and it is such an honor. And I have to say, other than really hitting home hard on humiliation, which I’m freaking loving, I only was able to dabble in a little bit. I love Giantess.
Who knew? I never did Giantess stuff before. I love it. Yeah, that is fun.
Giantess stuff is so fun. All right. I guess I am up on the one that I didn’t want to have to ask, but here you go.
What do you think is the best way to become a full-time sissy submissive for a mistress in a 24-7 DS dynamic? Well, Gunet, your question is very in-depth. And thank you for sharing so much of your journey with us. It’s really impressive.
From my point of view, you’re doing all the right things. I always say, you immerse yourself with the people that you want to be like. So if you want to be more kinky, you want to find that relationship, you hang out with kinky people.
So at this point, understanding your question, I would say, let’s take a deep dive in you. Talk to your mistress. What is it about me that I’m not attracting what I’m looking for? We all have weird idiosyncrasies that we may not realize we’re actually wanting something, but putting off different vibes.
Like, I don’t want this. Also, too, you might just be hooked up with the wrong kink community. In my journey, I’ve come and gone through a couple of them.
They just weren’t the right fit. So it may not be you, or it could be you. So let’s discuss it further.
Excellent response, Miss Erica. I think that’s very helpful for whoever asked it. Well, I have a question for you.
What is the most rewarding part of being a mistress? Well, I think part of what I’ve been saying today is a part of that. How impactful that I am with other people. And I wrote a great blog, if you want to read more about it.
It’s about the secret of my ultimate power as a femdom. And that is really writing on the chalkboard of someone’s life. I often talk about fem Mary.
She used to come to me for a lot of pain sessions. You’re not a man. You never will be a man.
Swat, swat, swat, right? But over the time we start talking, and it was just an off-the-cuff conversation. I said, well, you know, Mary, I really don’t see you as a sissy. I see you as somebody who’s punishing themselves for being a male.
And I see that you really are maybe transgender. I feel transgender from you more than I see, you know, eroticism with lingerie or any of that. And that changed the trajectory of her life.
She has never been happier. I cry every time I think about her. She calls me regularly and she says, it’s just an acceptance of who she is.
And that’s what I think is most impactful. Oh, how wonderful to have such an impact on someone’s life. What we do is very important here.
The next one could be paraphrased too. Last part of this question is, do you think that my wife would have confided that she was tired of me being a panty waste to anyone? Or would it be too embarrassing for her to admit that to any of her friends? I know what little slut wrote this peewee. And you went on for like 200 words about your fucking journey.
You want some humiliation? You want to tell, you wanted somebody to read that entire diatribe? Well, to your self-serving diatribe about how your ex-wife cuckolded you and your bisexual sissy desires that almost every damn mistress here today and adage chantress knows about your debauchery. Take that dildo. Go fuck yourself and shove your face into the pillow that smells like Frank.
He just came in his pants. You’re welcome. Oh, yeah, that was great.
All right. You better call him and apologize for doing that. Oh, yes, absolutely.
Absolutely, Harper. I hear you. So how, Mistress Erica, does your approach to voice calls differ from your approach to camp sessions? Well, it’s quite easy.
I have to stand or sit at my stand-up desk to see you on the video. Otherwise, I usually sit back on my chaise lounge and kick up my heels. Well, I do do a lot of prep beforehand.
You know, if somebody’s new and not used to it, I give them suggestions and stuff like that. But you know what? It’s always so great. I’m always so appreciative.
Waggle your little dickily and Mistress Erica’s fucking happy. Yes. All right.
I have a very serious question, and it’s going to be really hard to answer. OK. Mistress Erica, bacon or sausage? You guys are so silly.
It’s bacon. I know I’m being set up for a huge sausage joke here, but honestly, it’s just bacon. Cheetah, watch your little sausage.
You hear that? Straight from Mistress Erica’s mouth. Absolutely. Miss Erica, what is your ideal cheesesteak comprised of? Of course, some great Philly cheese, a Amoroso roll, provolone and American, please.
And I like it made hoagie style. Now, for extra bonus points, who knows what hoagie style is for a cheesesteak? Well, I definitely don’t. Me neither.
If Doctor’s still here, he should. Doctor, seriously. The sub bun, is that what it is? The length of the… The Amoroso roll is a type of roll from Philadelphia.
Yes. Doctor Wolf got it right. It’s just like a submarine sandwich they call here down here.
So it’s lettuce, tomato and onion. But the cheesesteak comes with the cooked onion. So it’s lettuce, tomato and mayonnaise.
It is. We still going alphabetical? Yeah, whose turn is it? I’ve lost track. It’s me? Great.
So I get to ask the question of, if you had access to a time machine, what historical figure would you have sex with? Ew. Ew. I seriously try to think of an answer, but I went through a bunch of disgusting bag of bugs up until recently.
I don’t want to fuck anybody. I’ll be a nun. Maybe JFK.
He was kind of a cutie. JFK. I’m sure he was clean as well, right? Yeah, maybe.
If you go back like 100, 200 years, I’m too much of a history buff to be like, yeah, let’s jump on that sausage. Ew. What, you wouldn’t want to do Churchill? Girl.
Yeah, I wouldn’t fuck anybody else but a cactus. Oh my goodness. Never mind.
Harper said the germs, the fleas, the personal hygiene. I know. Can you imagine? Ew.
That’s exactly what threw my head. I am with my people. I just wouldn’t go back very far.
Maybe go back to the 60s or something. You could find somebody that wouldn’t be too bad. Yes.
How about Jimi Hendrix? He was a musician. The way he worked those fingers. You don’t even need a dick.
It was legendary. Jim Morrison as well. Oh, I forgot about him.
Yeah, I already had a little dick. Do you think that was true? I don’t know. Only one way to find out.
Right, you have to find out. That’s what the time machine’s for. And if you didn’t like the first one, you know, you got a time machine.
So go find somebody else. It’s true. What if the time machine had a shower? I’m sure where you’re going does.
Well, I guess I’m asking the last question. Is everyone cool with that? Sure. Miss Erica, do you ever get nervous before a scene slash session? If so, how do you go about calming down? I guess I did get really nervous when I first started here.
Like I said, I was concerned how can I translate what I do in person to this distance domination thing. But now it’s not so much nervousness. It’s nervous excitement, especially if you make an appointment.
And we’ve been talking about the session. You can guarantee. Oh, sorry.
I’m sorry, everybody. That’s my alarm to tell me that I have to hang up on my ignored slave who is sponsoring my visit here today. He has been sitting in my dark room on mute because I’m actually in my office now.
Wonderful. Yeah, absolutely. But what was the question? Yeah, so it’s nervous energy.
And I get excited thinking about everything that we wrote about. And I start formulating kind of like an outline. I’m not like a real scripted girl.
I like an outline like, yeah, I want to see how many spanks he can take. Or I want to try to see how many edges he’ll do. Or whatever it is that we’re working on at the time.
So it’s sort of like channel it into joyfulness and excitement. I love that. Thank you so much for your awesome advice, Miss Erica.
It’s much appreciated. Thank you. Thank you.
And thank you all for having me here today. I love it. This was a fantastic day.
You’re free on a Friday night. Come join us again. Absolutely.
Every Friday night. I’m not coccupied. I will be here.
And you’re welcome to come to any of our other shows too. Yes, absolutely. Oh, I love horse.
I like to listen. I like to listen to horse cool later. I’m sorry, Harper.
It’s way late. But Miss Christy, your podcast is fantastic. It looks like so much fun.
I do have to stop by some Saturday. You’re welcome. Anytime.
Thank you. Thank you all so much for joining us tonight on Femdom Fridays. We will be back next Friday.
9 p.m. Eastern here on Discord. And make sure you check out Miss Krista tomorrow night. Also here on Discord and on Podbean at 9 p.m. Kinks and drinks.
Bye, everyone. Bye. Everyone.
Bye-bye. Good night.
