If you missed the last Femdom Fridays live event in May, you missed a heck of a fun show! We got together and talked about some very queer sex and masturbation, the dawn of Pride Month, and went over the Enchantrix Empire 2025 Sissy Pageant. Don’t worry, I’ve got all the details on what we discussed, so let me tell you everything. Or at least sum up a bit. Keep reading to find out all about Pride Month, Queer Masturbation, and the Sissy Pageant.

Pride Month

For those who’ve been living under a rock, this year Pride Month in the US is not officiall recognized, but that’s ok because Pride isn’t about recognition! Pride is the opposite of shame; in a world that tries to tell us all that the ways we express our sexuality and gender are wrong and shameful, Pride helps us reclaim our power and sense of place in the world through radical inclusion and celebration. Where else can you enjoy radical inclusion and a celebration of who you are? Here, with the Mistresses of Femdom Fridays, of course!

Queer Masturbation

After I defined for us what cisnormative and heteronormative mean (the automatic, socially enforced assumption that all people are both not-trans and are straight), I went further and defined hetero sex as ‘Penis in Vagina Sex’. The reason we define things so narrowly is so that we can more easily discuss concepts outside of what is heteronormative sex, and also, to help us break down the idea that there is such a thing as ‘normal’ sex or masturbation. If we’re going to talk about queer masturbation, then we have to discuss all masturbation as a practice that defies hetero sex! Keep in mind that society defines sex very narrowly (remember when President Clinton asked for a definition of ‘sex’ and no one could provide it? That was because on the one hand, yes, that was sex, but on the other hand, it wasn’t PiV sex, and so it broke various unspoken rules about what ‘counts’.)

The always sexy Ladies of Femdom Fridays had a lot of very fun and sexy ideas about how to make your solo sex time into some truly queer masturbation! From involving a handful of slips (thank you Ms Krista) to Ms Becky’s discussion on Outercourse, we covered the range. Ms Hadley told us she’s queer, “all the flavors of queer”, so anything she does counts as queer sex or queer masturbation! The general consensus was that anything could be queer masturbation if you did it right. Ms Demi told us that she loves incorporating items that heighten the senses, “using a pair of silky soft nylons to stimulate and tease your nipples is a sensual way to start your masturbation session!” Now that’s how you make even your seemingly ‘straight’ sex queer enough for Pride Month!

Panties and Lingerie

One way to make any sexual encounter more queer is to add more sexy panties and lingerie! All the attendees agreed that men in panties is very sexy and incredibly hot. And that, yes, adding a little gender exploration to your sex is a great way to embrace the ‘no shame allowed’ energy of Pride Month! Each of the Femdom Fridays Mistresses shared their advice for first time panty exploration, and showed off the range of opinions you’ll get if you ask a group of women a question about panties! Ms KayMarie admitted that she just doesn’t wear panties, but does wear bras, so all the panties are for her sissies. Ms Hunter told us about her panty collection, and admitted that she loves high cut jeans, and panties! Meanwhile, my advice to first time panty wearers was to get a tape measure and measure your hips, then look up the brand size guide online before you go shopping, to make sure you get the right size! Ms Meshelle’s advice was to go with cotton so your panties will breathe well.

Enchantrix Empire 2025 Sissy Pageant

The Enchantrix Empire Sissy Pageant is a beloved event that we’ve put on in past years for our sissies, gender non-conforming folks, trans ladies, and other gender explorers who wanted to try out a little crossdressing. We’re open to all expressions of femme and femme-adjacent fun! You can read the official announcement on our Daily Cock Blog (Enchantrix Empire Sissy Pageant 2025), but to summarize, you’ll need to do a thirty (30) minute session by phone, text, Discord, Teams, Google Meet, or smoke signals with the Mistress of your choice and then email Support@EnchantrixEmpire.com to enter. From there, you’ll get to submit your three pictures to the EnchantrixEmpire.net Sissy Pageant Group, and you’ll be given four (4) interview questions to answer. Both the pictures and the questions are important! You do not need to ‘pass’ to enter the Pageant, nor do you need to reach extreme heights of feminine expression! Just come and have fun with us, you will not regret entering the Sissy Pageant!!!

Farewell Masturbation May, Welcome in Pride Month June!

I, for one, can’t wait to see what we’ll be doing for Femdom Fridays in June! Whether it’s “Rune June” in honor of Ms Becky’s unique pronunciation of ‘ruin’ or Pride Month, I know we’ll have way too much together. Join us on Friday evenings at 9 pm Eastern in the Enchantrix Empire Discord Server, and stick around in the server to chat with the Mistresses and enjoy the memes.

Your Queer Masturbation Mistress, Harper