We started our discussion with a little science. I shared how listening to music and masturbating to completion are both beneficial in lowering our heart rate and blood pressure. Combined, this sumptuous power couple can create more intense orgasms which aid in the release of endorphins and can help increase the production of dopamine. Speaking of couples, on their own or combined, they can aid in better bond creating when done with a partner(s). Before you cue up your favorite playlist and whip out that new toy on your next date though, you should probably practice masturbating with music first. Read on for the recap of our ideas on how to best utilize this winning duplet!

Masturbation REMIX ft. Music

The general consensus was that the way you choose to incorporate music into your routine is largely dependent on your current autoerotic rituals. We discussed how analog self-stimulators using the beat of a song to time their strokes, pulls, rubs, and/or caresses can be an excellent way to spice up their routine. Similarly for the more tech driven solo sensualists, timing their vibrations, thrusts, and rotations to the rhythm of a tasty jam could be just the thing to take their QT to the next level. Contingent upon the capability of your pleasure implement, you could have a friend or a pair of mischievous Mistresses program their favorite songs into your device for a fun surprise.

Masturbation Management Through Music

Also noted during our discussion, was how one could also use music as masturbation management. By using the duration of a song to time out the length of their masturbation sessions you open up so many avenues for edging and cock control. For instance, you could build a playlist for a specific duration of time and edge your way to the end of it. If you really want to challenge yourself, consider adding a ‘choose your own ending’ element to your musical masturbation. Lasting up to or through certain songs on your playlist will dictate whether you’re allowed to release, deny yourself, or ruin your orgasm. If you decide to go this route, then the next section of this recap is paramount.

How To Build Your Ultimate Self-playList

While we mainly discussed what songs constituted a ‘jerk-off’ or ‘jilling out’ jam designation, there were a few ideas bandied about regarding how to build a great masturbation playlist. First and foremost, choose songs that sound pleasing to you. Cotton Eye Joe has a great beat, but it may not be the best choice if your goal is getting off at the end of it.

Next, make use of songs with varying tempos in order to keep your session fun and dynamic. Ballads are super pretty and a great way to keep yourself going during a lengthy solo tease and denial session, however a playlist of only ballads may start to feel a bit one note after the third entry.

Finally, challenge yourself by not shying away from songs with a long duration or complex rhythms. Especially if masturbation for you is a form of sexual endurance training. They are an excellent way to enhance orgasm edging sessions, so put Barracuda at the top of your Self-playList today!

Masturbation Playlists

Still not sure where to start when building your ultimate Self-playList? Use ours for guidance and inspiration:

Beat Off Beats Playlist

It’s a Spotify playlist, so it’s free to listen to with ads as long as you have an account.

As a special bonus and thank you for all the listeners that gave their input on our masturbation playlist, I’ve included this playlist of masturbation anthems that are near and dear to the participating Mistresses of this week’s FemDom Friday:

Multi-Mistress Masturbation MAY-hem Playlist

I hope this recap has inspired you to utilize music the next time you’re ‘dancing with yourself’ and that you’d be so kind as to share your thoughts about the topic in the comments.

Be sure to tune in to next week’s show hosted by our Discord Maeven, Harper!

Hope to see you there, but until then:

Yours Indulgently,

Goddess Meshelle