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Krista! There we go. Bessie’s here. Hey girl, hey.
How’s everybody? Hi, Miss Krista. Happy Friday. Oh, all my beautiful friends.
Bianca. I know, right? And then we get to hang out and talk. We do.
We get to talk about cogs. My favorite chew toy. So you know how for people who like have an oral fixation and they make those little plastic chew toys basically for people that you can like gnaw on? I have one.
It’s great. I just really wish that I had. It’s shaped like a like a crystal.
I want one that’s shaped like a penis. Yeah. I want to chew on it.
It just seems like a good shape, you know, because it’s bulbous on one end and you know, you got the shaft and just really give me something fun to gnaw on. Right. Well, if you want to, if you really want to have fun, what you do is you get just a cheap rubber toy and you leave teeth marks in it and then you leave it about for when you have a guy over.
It makes them wonder. Yes. Just be like, I have an oral fixation and this is how I deal with it.
And he’d be like, uh, okay. It has a really good effect if you like, you bit it half in two to, you know, it’s just dangling. Oh yeah.
I had a friend who had a really, really bad oral fixation. And so she had a actual like a chew toy for a dog and she would chew on it because she was like anything else I chew on, I destroy. And you know, you’ve only chewed on like one or two pins and had it bust and get ink all over your face before you’re like, Oh, I need a better option.
Oh gosh. For what I’m going to chew on. And so one year for Christmas, I got her a dildo to chew on.
It was great. She did. And then she told me that her husband asked her to stop doing that.
Stop doing that. Traumatizing me. It traumatized him to see her chew on a dick.
And he was like, I would like you not to do that. Pretty, pretty, please. For the sake of my mental peace.
Those can’t be like safe. They do to make chew toys, but for humans that are more safe. Yeah, I have one.
It’s great. I love chewing on it. It’s like, but I want one that shaped like a penis.
We will have to get you one. That’d be great. We’re gonna have to get you one.
What’s your favorite color, Harper? Purple. Mine too. Fuck yeah.
I love a good strong, like saturated jewel tone. Yes. Yes.
Oh, yes. Jewel tones are pretty. Mm hmm.
Jewel tones are in this spring too. I know. I’m gonna be so excited.
Welcome. Oh, there’s Hadley. Hey, Hadley.
Hello, lovelies. Hey, Hadley. I got up in my kitchen with some butter and a pack of spices, but I don’t want to talk about it publicly.
Sounds like a pink night. Butter and spices. Somebody’s in for some fun.
Love it. How’s everybody tonight? Good to be here. Good.
Good. Wonderful. We’re actually just talking about chew toys and penis chewing.
Purple. A lot of people like purple. Yeah.
Purple. Oh, I love purple. Chew toys.
I called my very first submissive chew toy. Oh, I’ve known multiple people named, well, nicknamed chew toy. So, yeah.
It’s a good name. Chew toys, it’s a good thing to call a person. I like this.
It implies. Good thing to be. Hold still.
Bite and scratch. You’re lucky. Keep an eye out for the very reason you never know when you need to sink them in.
That makes me miss Becky. She loves to be bitten and scratched. I know.
Or is our favorite sociopath. It’s her birthday. She’s off seeing the world.
It’s her birthday weekend. Oh, yes. Yeah.
I hope she’s putting her life. She deserves. Yes.
She’s hiding from me. She knew I was going to make people sing at her. No, she was afraid of her part of the episode because of you, Harper.
The listeners have been spared. Well, welcome, everybody, to Femdom Friday. I am Goddess Dummy.
You can find us live every Friday at 9 p.m. east of the Enchantrix Empire Discord server. But you must be 18 or older to join. Listen to the replay every Saturday on your favorite podcast platform.
I want everybody to go around and introduce yourself. We’re going to start with Miss Harper. I am Harper.
You can find my blog, fetishphonesexblog.com. My most recent post is about the giantess fetish, and I’m very proud of the title of it. It says, Fee-fi-fo-fum. Giantess fantasies are lots of fun.
Come on. That’s awesome. You can follow me.
I love it. On Twitter slash X, I am Enchantrix Harper. No I. I’m on Bliski Harper Enchantrix.
There is an I in that one. You can also find me. I’m on Tumblr.
Why not go find me over there? I definitely know what my own account is. Harper Enchantrix is over there. That’s what it is.
What else? Oh, I’m the host of Whore School, which is your adult sex education podcast. Airs live every Sunday from 11 to midnight on the East Coast. It’s 8 to 9 on the West Coast.
Figure out your own time zones. And also, I wanted to say, I see Miss Ava has popped in down there. I see you.
Hi. I see you. There.
Follow me and listen to my podcast. Oh, welcome Miss Ava. I just, um, yep, she popped out of this off the speaker.
And Hadley, would you like to introduce yourself? Sure. Hi, I’m Miss Miss Hadley. And you can find me here, clearly.
I’m on Twitter as Empress Hadley. And Blue Sky is hadley.bettencourt.bsky with their little tag. And I am at, probably my favorite of the places, is Iwilldominateyou.com. It’s my little blog area that I’m working on.
And it is my anniversary month. So for approximately another 23 hours, if you do a text or discord call, they give you five extra minutes with 20 or more for a paid call. And if you do a whole hour, I’ll give you 10.
Because it’s my anniversary and I’m feeling special. And that’s pretty much it for right now. Thanks.
Happy anniversary. Thank you. Went quick.
Welcome back, Bianca. Would you like to introduce yourself? Can you hear me? Am I here? Yeah, we can. Okay, sorry.
I could not hear anything earlier. Then I went to restart and I had a hellacious update. That was fun.
But I am Bianca, MissBiancaEE on X. And EnchantressBianca on Blue Sky. You can find me on KinkyPhoneFantasy.com, BimDomFridays here in discord. And all ways you can communicate with me, reach out.
Let’s talk about it. Happy anniversary, Hadley. Thank you.
Miss Krista. Well, hello, everybody. I am Miss Krista.
You can find me on X at KristaEnchants, BlueSky at MsKrista, which is MZ. And my blog is PhoneSexFetishBlog.com. I’m also the host of Kinks and Drinks on Saturday nights. And you can also contact me via email, Krista at EnchantrixEmpire.com. Awesome.
And Michelle. Well, hi there, everyone. I am your melodious divinity.
You can find me on X slash Twitter at TheTheDivineMe. You can also find me over on BlueSky at TheMasterBatrix.BSKY.social. And thank you, Hadley, for dropping that. You can also find me on my website, TheMasterBatrix.com. That’s a great place to figure out what I’m all about, what I’m into, you know, all that kind of stuff.
So reach out. You feeling freaky? Want to see if I can match your freak? Hit me up. Fucking love that.
I love that. We’ve also had Miss Cat join us down here in the chat. She’s one of our newer ladies.
Just pointing it out. Howdy, Miss Cat. Oh, hi, Ava.
I haven’t met these girls. Hey there. Right.
We got some sexy ladies in here. Welcome, welcome. Demi, you can find me at SensualCockTease.com or by email, Demi at EnchantrixEmpire.com. Or here at Discord at LDW.
We are going to talk about cocksucking. I want to hear from the chat. How many of you, if you’re brave enough, how many of you are cocksuckers? Don’t be afraid.
Don’t be afraid. I think a bunch of our chat. Yes.
Oh, fuck yeah. I love that. Out to our listeners.
We have Callie, Patty, Miss Cat, one, two, three, John, Sissy for training. Demi, Presenter2K, Jay Hotch, Pete, and Ivy. Welcome, welcome.
Yeah, so I was inspired. Tonight’s topic is inspired by Miss Harper. Bianca, that is, I love that.
Dropped a Enchantrix Empire Discord emoji in the chat. Someone give me some information. We love our cocksucker.
Harper wrote a blog on Suck Patrol, the daily cocksucker. Actually, let me just drop that link in our chat. And the title of that blog is Does Your Mistress Suck Cock? Mistress Harper wants to know.
And I saw this blog pop through a while in a session. I was like, holy fuck, let’s read this together. So we read it together, and it inspired a conversation, several conversations between me and this slut that I was talking with and a few other subbies that I’ve had the chance to talk with since then.
I thought it was a great blog. So I wanted to talk about it. You’re going to make me blush.
You write some amazing blogs, Harper, and a lot of times, I’ll see some blogs that you write, and we’ll read them together and have awesome conversations. So if you guys aren’t already with Feedly, do that. Harper has a blog that shows you how to access all of our blogs.
So you can stay up to date with all of them. But this one in particular… If you’re in the EE server over here, if you look at the new blog content channel, as long as the bot and Feedly don’t fuck up again, it will auto post new posts from Feedly. So it shows up right there.
All you have to do is click on it and then go and comment. Comments are love, by the way. Comment on all our blogs.
Comments are love. It’s true. It helps our SEO.
It proves that you were reading and that you were paying attention to what your mistress wanted you to. And it entertains you. You might even learn something.
Right. And we really do love reading it. We love that boys and girls don’t leave comments.
We appreciate that. Honestly, all of the blogs here are really, really good. Just read them.
Read all of the blogs. I love reading the blogs, every one post. They’re so amazing.
Everybody’s so fucking smart. Smart, sexy, sassy, all of the above. I was going to say, Bianca’s sexy as fuck, right? Right? So Harper’s blog inspired a lot of different conversations.
For me, I can only imagine how many conversations everyone will have after reading her blog. But tonight we’re going to talk about cock sucking and whether or not it’s a dominant or a submissive act. Because this is one topic that kept coming up in my conversations.
And I had some very one-sided answers from some of the people that I talked with. A lot of people that I talked with were like, no, I would never ask you or think that you would. And I’m like, well, because I wouldn’t fucking suck your cock.
I wouldn’t. The only person sucking a cock in this relationship is you. You’re going to be on your fucking knees sucking cock for me.
But I do think that Adonis is the absolute fuck out of a penis holder by sucking his cock or even just talking about it, just describing the way that she would do it. The hint, the insinuation that this might possibly at some point in the future be a thing that could be earned if a submissive act was good enough. There you go.
Just dangle that carrot right in front of them. Yes. Yes.
It’s amazing. They will twist themselves into like a little sweet pretzel shape over the possibility that maybe they might eventually earn one single solitary token lick. I love that.
I think they might be lost before we even get there. Well, if they do that, then I don’t have to suck it. Right? I’m like, I’m not sucking.
You know what? You can’t even say it hard for me. God. So I want to hear from you.
In the chat, is sucking cock a dominant or a submissive act? Or both? Let’s start with Miss Carr. Well, I am a firm believer that it is both or it can be both. If you are a sub and you’re on your knees and you’re sucking a cock for me, that is a very submissive role.
However, if you are a cock and you’re sitting in a chair while I suck a cock, from my bowl, then it becomes kind of a submissive act for me. So I have to say that it can be both. Now, a sub, it’s always a submissive act.
And no, subs don’t get their dick sucked. But they get to witness it. I mean, that’s good enough.
They’re so lucky for that. Honestly, they should thank you. They get to be in the same room and witness that.
How lucky. It’s like a show. And I do a very, very good show.
Oh, I bet you do. I’d pay to see that. You know, a few years back, I saw somebody give a blowjob and I was not going to have this person be better than me.
So I went out and got some bigger toys. And I learned how to deep throat bigger cocks. Oh, fuck.
Yes. Okay. Okay.
Okay. So second question. Does tightness matter? God, yes.
Thank you. Nobody wants to suck on a chicklet. Fuck, yes, chicklet.
I’m going to use that. Can I use that? Sure. I wouldn’t want to suck your cock if you look like you have a chicklet stuck to some gum.
The gherkin pickle. Ava. We’re not going to do that.
I love it. So definitely, size matters. That’s my opinion anyway.
Well. I don’t want to suck on a pyre hydrant either, though. I’ll just say that.
Oh. Or, no. Must be perfect.
But I have a whole lot better chance of sucking on one of those than I do a chicklet. Must be perfect. Hadley, describe perfect.
Yes, my dear. Perfect. Well, it depends what I’m in the mood for.
I am an outlier on this crew. I know that. But I mean, don’t get me wrong.
If you look at a bag of baby carrots with envy, like, don’t come at me with that. I don’t need your quarter-inch of raging fury. But I know if I fuck you on Saturday, I don’t need to still know about it on Wednesday, because your dick was too goddamn big.
I’m not interested in that. Lay me down and put a tape measure from the entrance of my vulva. Like, 10 inches is my damn rib cage.
Right? I don’t need all that. 10 inches is good. Really? Hadley, you and I really need to write that blog together.
That’d be so fun. I would love that. Yes, let’s do it.
Yes, we really do need to do it. I do. I do love a fuck.
I really, really do. You have, like, an inch girth. I’m really, I’m really fucking interested.
What I know for sure is that, like, at seven and a half inches, I can, I and my partner can fuck as hard as we want to fuck. And it won’t hurt me in a way that is going to make me feel like I need to watch what the hell I’m doing for the next 48 hours. Like, 12, I don’t mind.
12 hours, I wake up sore in the morning. I mean, I’m all about that. I love some rough sex.
But if I actually feel like there’s been some rearranging, or perhaps my cervix is trying to rehome itself by my kidneys, I don’t enjoy that feeling. Right. There is such a thing as too fucking big.
There is. Yes. Girth is where it’s at.
There you go. Yes. I want to put you through a lot of in-depth, you know, exploratory surgery or anything like that.
No. Like, in practical terms. Ivy just said too big is very subjective.
And I agree with you, Ivy. It’s completely subjective. It’s absolutely subjective.
It’s an opinion. I just, I know where my, I know where my cervix is located. And I know that when I dated a guy who had eight inches of dick, if he got real enthusiastic, I got disinterested.
Because it fucking hurt. Ta-da! So he’s over eight, probably eight and a half. But that’s too much cock for me.
It hurts. It hurts. I dated a guy with 10 inches of dick.
And he had to wear a Doc Johnson brand. Oh, I can’t. I can’t say that.
Sorry. But. He had to put a love donut on his dick to keep the last few inches from not hurting me.
Because he had 10 inches of cock. If I had known you then, Demi, I would have sent him directly to you. I would have jumped on it.
Grommets. Gotta have a grommet on his cock so it doesn’t go all the way in. Yes! Called a love donut.
And they put their love donut. I also knew a guy, you know those stackable toys that we buy when we’re 18 years old so that we can stack the rings, the colored rings, up that little pole? Like the largest one on the bottom, or the bottom two, can also be, in addition to an educational collegiate level toy, is also great for a love donut. Okay.
Keeps too much dick out. I would think that those Peruvians have gone from cock sucking to cock fucking. No, I do.
I do fucking love. I just want to be able to suck all the cocks, but hurting me, I gotta fat that shit off. Yeah, I do totally, totally get that.
Well, see, if his cock’s too big to fuck, sucking it becomes the preferred option, right? Because then you can lick it a little bit, and maybe spit on it, and laugh at him, and tell him, well, that’s about the best you’re gonna get, buddy. Yep. Sucks to be you, your dick’s too big.
Oh, too bad. Denied. You know, I have never met a guy that didn’t mind just even having the tip suck, though.
I did. You better be fucking grateful. Did years ago.
Oh, you did? Oh, he would have never got another one. No, no. So I dated this guy, and, you know, make out, tease a little bit, never go any further.
Finally, I kind of teased his cock over his pants, pulled it out, teased him with my tongue, sucked him just a little, just enough, just enough, then got up and left. The look on his face, he was like, you sucked the soul out of my body, and I still remember him saying that, the look on his face. He texts me still to this day.
I want that on a fucking plaque. I will to my grave. I fucking love that.
Never let him come, which I fucking love. And yes, so I don’t think you always have to let them come. They don’t always need to come.
Oh, god, no. Oh, no. Oh, I agree.
No, no, no, no, no. I just like it when they do. You do.
You can take it from the stereotypical, oh, if you suck his dick, then you’re submissive. That immediately flips that script. It’s like, oh, really? Who’s submissive? Which one of us is begging? Yeah.
Because it’s not me. Yeah. I make it a point not to ever put it into my mouth until I see his eyes roll back into his head.
Yes. Ooh, let me get that little note down there. Until I see those eyes roll back, shit, you ain’t getting no mouth.
You’re going to get a little tongue. Ooh. Just tease that tongue a little bit.
Or a lot. I mean, I love Dominique Harper. Yeah.
Loving it. Me too. I like the insinuation of, I might suck your dick, maybe, if you make me very, very happy.
I have very rarely actually been like, yeah, I’m going to actually put my mouth on you. Because I love a mindfuck. I love a mindfuck like nobody’s business.
I will fuck with your head and dangle. Oh, well, you know. I don’t know if I, I’m just not turned on enough to really suck your dick.
I think I need you to lick my pussy for a little bit first. Fuck yes. This is not doing it for me.
Maybe if you eat my ass, then I’ll suck your dick, right? Ooh, 100%. And you just keep, you move the goalposts. I know, it’s not fair, Anne, so you move the goalposts and you tease the shit out of them.
And never actually follow through. You can own a man. You can control him so easily.
And then you never have to suck a cock. Fuck yeah. Me too.
It’s easy. There you go, Hadley. She’s like, it’s so fucking easy.
You do it in my sleep. I love it. It’s easy to own.
Jay Hatch says, I love it when it’s not fair. Oh. Good.
Yeah, guys like it when it’s, because you’re not calling me because you’re like, oh, I want this to be highly realistic and an egalitarian relationship in which a person who loves me and I love them and we care about each other on a deep, intimate partner basis. No, you’re not calling me for that. You’re calling me for the tease, for the game, for the fun of it.
Because I’m going to make you cry. Because you just know, right? That if I ever did put my mouth on your dick, you would immediately orgasm. You would come so hard.
You would cry and see the face of the divine. You’re very welcome. But I’m not gonna do that because it’s not, it takes away the fun of it.
If you come, we’re done. And now it’s boring. And I don’t like it.
Oh, okay. That’s an interesting perspective. It seems like it’s the general perspective here.
That’s interesting. What’s your yours, Michelle? Well, you know, Master, Matrix, Pleasure Dom, I absolutely love flooding a person’s system with pleasure and getting them to a point where they lose control. So domination for me is I’m taking the control of that situation and causing you to think maybe you have control for a moment, for a moment, up to the moment when you don’t.
So that’s kind of how I approach cocksucking. Is that it’s all, yes, it is the tease, it’s the buildup. And it’s the you thinking that you have control over your orgasm.
And you really don’t. Because I decide when you come. I control that.
So if you’re with me, like you’re going to be denied if that’s something that you enjoy. But that orgasm that you’re going to eventually have, that’s mine. All you know that when you do it, it’s mine.
So yeah, cocksucking for me, when I’m in the position of giving head, being kind enough to give you head, by the way, kind enough to give you incredible head. That’s not just going to stimulate your cock, but your whole body and open up that hole for me, because you’re going to give that to me once we’re done. Oh, hell yeah, Michelle.
Hell yeah. So you’re going to make them, you’re going to draw it out and you’re going to make them fucking explode. When you are ready, you’re going to take what’s yours.
And then you’re going to fuck them. You’re going to fuck that slut hole. Fuck yeah.
If you do cocksucking, if you want me to suck your cock, just know that that’s the start. And I’m not going to let you finish until I’m ready for you to finish. But that’s where I feel most powerful is having the control over that orgasm and claiming that orgasm because it is mine.
You think you’re coming for you, but no, you’re not. You’re coming for me. The sound of your orgasm, what comes out of you when you orgasm, that is all mine.
That is worship too. Kind of like a sensory overload. Yep.
How is this not porn? It’s not. You’re not saying anything. We’re being very matter of fact.
At least I am. I love that. Between, I mean, between High River and Michelle, like best of both worlds, right? Like whether you want to be teased and denied and put through the ringer and all of your taps, you get both.
I fucking love that. Oh yeah. I can’t imagine the same time.
Oh, I think me and Harper would destroy that. Woo. Yeah.
But what a way to go. Yep. Woo.
Lord, he would melt. Several very important synapses would just cease functioning. See, that’s what I want.
I want that orgasmic blue screen of death. I want the shit that Reboot can’t fix. Yes.
Yes. What about you, Bianca? Yes. We were, we, uh, first blog and she had a part in there that said, would you ask your mistress if she sucks your cock? Well, if she’s your mistress and you’re asking, that’s like an automatic, no, you will know by our dynamic, especially like if you’re in a real world lifestyle, you look at me and say, are you going to suck my cock? That’s an automatic no, because at that point I can’t, I can’t, I just can’t, I can’t look at you the same way, but I do like sucking a nice, beautiful cock.
Okay. And the men who I am with, because I am a little switch sometimes, they know that I enjoy it, but you have a man and you have his dick in your mouth and he’s got a nice stick and his eyes roll back and he’s shuddering. He has no control any longer.
No much, how bad of a dom he is or anything like that. He is the weakest he ever is going to be right before you get his cum. And that’s when you stop.
I love that. And you get yours. Bianca is spitting.
Right at. Yeah. Because I can still be in control when I’m getting my pussy eaten.
But oh, 99% chance he is going to be, somebody could walk in the house right now and take a drink of his drink and walk out the house and he would not know it. Like I said, let them eyes roll back before you do anything else. Oh yes.
Then you own him. Love it. And someone was saying how it could be both at the same time.
And yes, it can be very submissive and dominant. And oh, I like that. It’s a very hot topic y’all.
Right? It is. It really is. I love it.
Putty in our hands or mouth. That cat. Indeed.
So Hadley was teasing us before we came on the stage and telling us a little bit about her experiences before. And I want you to share a little bit more with everybody, please. For sure.
So once upon a time, I was doing a lot of community education for a local kink group. And I did a workshop for the dominant perspective on fellatio. And it was well attended.
And I have absolutely have had conversations with people who insist that if you’re sucking dick, that it’s always an act of submission. And you can’t reason somebody out. Yeah.
You can’t reason somebody out of an opinion that they didn’t reason themselves into. There’s no reason to believe that. And anybody who attended that workshop will tell you that I do not suck dick from a submissive perspective.
Or do anything else, really. If you’ve talked to me for two minutes, it’s probably not going to be a shock. From a submissive perspective.
I’m just not wired for it. I have tried. That’s the other thing.
If you know, I tried. I feel like I should be able to switch and I’m angry that I can’t. But here I am stuck on the top side.
But yeah, it was about cock sucking from the dominant perspective. Because like several of you ladies have said, it’s not that I’m opposed to it. It’s not that I don’t enjoy it.
If we are in a relationship that includes sex, that’s about making each other feel good. And I pride myself on being good at most things that I attempt to do. And cock sucking would not be any different.
But if I’m sucking your dick and you still think that you are in charge of a fucking thing, you are not paying any attention at all. Like, there’s no face fucking me. If I allow you to do that, we’ve known each other for years.
And you’ve probably paid dearly in other ways. But, you know, attitude of gratitude. I don’t see how you can look at somebody and think that you’re dominating them when their hands are on your nuts.
Your dick is in their mouth, which, spoiler alert, is where we keep our teeth. Right? So yes, that’s a good point. Oh, thank you.
Yeah, so I’m not sure. I mean, if I’ve got a submissive attitude about it, then great. But like, as far as like positioning or on your knees, there’s a couple of options.
Like, you can be on your back. If you’re really lucky, you’ll be on your back. And I will have restrained you securely to whatever’s around us.
But I don’t see how that is automatically a power position. That doesn’t make any sense to me at all. Receiving pleasure doesn’t mean that you are in control of the person who is providing it.
That’s another thing that I don’t necessarily like. You gave me pleasure, therefore I win. Yes, yes.
And if providing pleasure means you, receiving pleasure means you win, then is your attitude that providing pleasure makes you lose? And so that I’m just not going to get any? Fuck you. No. So with all of those attitudes and things, I did perform fellatio on my collared submissive at the time.
And it was all going unexpectedly to the audience until I reminded them that I had my teeth around as nuts. And he explained to them that while he knew in his heart that I would never, ever, ever, ever, ever do anything actually harmful, that I did somehow manage to make him wonder every single time if today might be the day I kept the souvenir. So I feel like none of those things point to submission.
And it didn’t happen very often. But I let him get off that way a couple of times of the relationship. So there’s my input about fellatio from a dominant perspective.
It can be a really, really nice way to reward somebody who’s done a really good job. You know, if you have a relationship with this person, then yeah, it can be a part of your regular, like, you get me off with your mouth. I get you off with my mouth.
Yeah, sure. But yeah, if you’re more of a toppy person, like Miss Hadley, like me, even if I’m flat on my back with my legs spread, letting you give me oral pleasure, it still doesn’t make me submissive. Exactly.
Right. I’ve got my hands in your hair. I’m so dominant, I never orgasm? Fuck that.
Right? Like, who would speak on it? I have a three orgasm rule. You’re gonna get me off three times before I even end up letting you get off. I’d love that.
I had somebody one time who told me, it was a male dom. Because I’d mentioned something about the fact that, you know, a blowjob isn’t inherently submissive. And he’s like, oh, you won’t be saying that once you’ve got, I’ve got my cock down your throat.
And I was like, I have teeth. I don’t know why you think that this makes me, makes you dominant? Right. It’s an act of trust on your part to put yourself in my mouth.
You trust me that much? I don’t think you should. But okay. For the positioning that, Hadley, you were mentioning positioning can sometimes, you know, change that dynamic.
And I have to agree with that. Because like my favorite position for, you know, dominating someone, if I’m blowing them, is sitting on their face. And being bent over doing that.
Because I mean, it’s really hard for you to like maintain your wood and not lose, you know, well I shouldn’t say lose, but like lose control. It’s hard for you to, you know, not to keep control of yourself. If I’ve got my beautiful puss-puss in your face.
That’s going to make that very difficult. I wouldn’t be able to control myself if you had it in my face. I like that position just because if he loses focus, well, you just tap him, you know, right there on them little jewels and tell him to focus.
Get back to work. Yes, exactly. You get me, Bestie.
You do a good job. I’ll do a good job. Okay.
And also, I’m not letting you put your mouth on that yet. You don’t get to put your lips on her just yet. You get to sit here and enjoy what I’m doing to you.
And hopefully not come until I tell you to. How long are you going to make it? Probably not there. There’s also the mouth strap-on, you know, to wrap around there.
Their mouth and just ride it. That’s always fun. Oh, that is fun.
I also kind of like the humiliation of it, too, a little bit. Yeah, you want it, don’t you? Oh, this is all your mouth is good for right now. Watch me do it again.
Oh, if you really want to up the humiliation on that, just tell him that, Oh my God, that’s the best stick you’ve given me. So, in my arsenal of toys, I have a Packer, which is a, it’s a, it basically works like a strap-on cock, except it’s made to resemble a flaccid penis. And it’s for people who want to seem as if they have a bigger bulge, or for like trans men or not gender fluid people who want to occasionally walk around and be like, what up? Yeah, that’s a big dick down my leg.
And it’s called Mr. Limpy. That’s the brand name. It’s Mr. Limpy.
And I got the extra large Mr. Limpy. So flaccid, this thing is like seven inches long. It’s enormous.
It’s like an inverted codpiece or something. It’s so cool. Like it’s a floppy penis and balls.
It’s so great. And so one of the things I want to do, I want to put it in my strap-on harness and then let somebody suck on, suck my cock until it gets hard. Oh, that would be so fun.
I love watching it grow. So being able to kind of simulate that would be the best. Yeah, except it’s silicone.
It’s never going to get hard. I thought I could sit there and be like, I thought you were good at this. What is the opposite of cock worship in that case? Cock desperation.
Somebody who’s like, I’m really good at sucking cock. I am always good at it. I’m like, really? Get me hard.
I love that. That is so demonic. I love it.
It’s unhinged. I love it. Just watching them try and try.
Come on, hurry up. What’s taking so fucking long? I thought you were good at this. And with it being flaccid like that, you can take it and just kind of smack him around with it too.
Yes, good slapping. I was wondering when we were going to get into that. Then you get to dick slapping.
Yes. I went to a BDSM party and I was wearing my packer because I felt like it. It was full of a whole bunch of male doms and, you know, they’re always dickheads.
And so one of them starts up with this shit. And I pulled my dick out through the zipper in my jeans. I was like, what, this? And I gripped the head of it and I pulled because it’s stretchy.
I pulled that thing like two feet away from my body. It’s stretched real good. Every single organic penis haver in the room flinched.
I’ve never seen a man dominate a whole room full of men and made every single one of them go, oh. Everything shrinks. All the organic men, they went from, you know, decent average size to a little bitty guy.
Like the turtle head, just kind of poke back in. It was so fun. I fucking, God, I loved doing that to them.
I was like, that’s right. Flinch. I do love it.
Like, I, I love just wearing my, my strap on, like, not even like to fuck anyone with it, just to wear it and like swing my dick around, do a helicopter, stroke it, like fucking. Love it. I will.
I will sit there and just like. It’s empowering. Broke my.
It is. It’s like, it’s like who, I forget who it was. It was some celebrity who was like, yeah, to feel in the mood for like going out and being really like powerful on the red carpet or whatever that she would get all dressed up in her gown and her shoes and then hold a sword and walk around with it for a couple of minutes going.
Yeah, I love that. Same thing. Yeah, yes.
Yeah, like. Highlanders. Man in the mirror.
Yeah. Just helicopter my dick. Fucking love it.
Helicopter dick. Love it. I do.
What were you gonna say, Michelle? Oh, just that I love the helicopter dicking. And also I’m, I, that’s why I love Fudanari scenarios, because I love that whole like growing a massive cock and it being contingent up on how well the sub can turn me on. Like, oh, you want a big dick? I’ll grow one for you, but you got to turn me on enough for that to happen.
Like, it’ll get bigger the more you excite me. So put on those panties, get dressed. Let me feminize you and then give me a sexy strip tease.
That’s hot. Mm hmm. Kali said, Kali said, I don’t know why, but the image of wearing a face dildo gag and being forced to sword fight with a mistress wearing a strap on came to mind.
That does sound fun. I love that. That’s hilarious.
That’s my gift, Krista, by the way. That’s fucking hilarious. Sign me up.
I want to have a dildo gag. Women with unrealistic large cocks. Yeah.
I mean, if you’re going to bother, you may as well. Right. Go big or go home.
Right? Me too, kitty, kitty, kitty. Who’s got fantasies? Me, man. Kitty, kitty.
Yes. I just looked at the time, fuck, we were going to play a game and we got cute with the cock talk. This is what happens when you bring up cock talking and the possibility of us getting to have dicks for a little bit.
Like, come on. I know, and so fun. We could seriously talk about it forever.
We don’t have enough time for a game, but we do have time for some announcements. I know, I’m so excited. Miss Bianca is hosting next weekend, next Friday.
Yes. So excited. Do you want to talk about body worship? Yeah.
Yeah. So we’ll be talking about body worship. What it means to your mistress or you.
It’s February. It’s also my birthday month and I’m in love with body worship. I think that’s the main thing that can get to me.
I’m going to start off in February, hot and heavy with some talk about body worship. Different types and what we like and boundaries, et cetera. Limits.
Love it. Hell yes. Over the moon.
Boundaries, don’t stop until I tell you. Limits, same thing. Same answer applies.
I tend to do that. I’ll use the same meaning for two different words, but yeah. Does anyone have any announcements? It is Bianca’s birthday weekend, so make sure you say happy birthday to her when you see her on the umpire.
Also, don’t forget to get your questions in for our February mistress hot seat. Miss, the lovely Miss Sasha. Yes.
Yes. Oh, she’s so sexy. You can find a link to that on the Femdom Fridays blog, right? Up at the top? Yep.
Or right there. You just popped it in the chat, yeah. Or right there.
That’s another good place to find it. Mistress hot seat, ask me anything. Almost anything.
Yeah. Almost. Almost.
Well, you can ask it. It just may not get aired. I mean, can we ask her intrusive questions about Canada? Because I know she’s well-versed about that.
Is Canadian bacon? Yes, I’m going to ask you, why do they call it that, girl? I don’t know. I still haven’t figured that one out. It looks like ham with meat.
She has opinions about the word bacon. It does. Right, do the Canadians just call it bacon? Yeah.
Yeah. I did. Like Brazilian nuts? In Brazil, they just call them nuts.
Yeah. I went to Belgium and I asked for Belgian waffles and they’re like, what? Yeah, they’re just waffles over there. They didn’t know what I was talking about.
I was in Havana and some guy asked the tour guide where to get a good Cuban sandwich and the tour guide said, Miami, we don’t eat that here. That’s awesome. I do have an announcement as well.
Tomorrow night, I am going to be debunking the myths of sissygasms and the real deal on sissygasms. So join me for that. It’s going to be a lot of fun.
Oh, yeah. Wait, what was our drink of the day? I’m so sorry. We didn’t have one.
I didn’t have one. Okay. Sorry.
Nope, I didn’t do one. Drinks, no game. Just cock sucking.
Nope. I know. It was all about the dick eating and the dick sucking.
Oh, did she get distracted by the cock sucking? Maybe. Well, my drink for the night was was crown royal and coffee. So we can just go with that as the drink for the night.
Oh, I like that. Crown apple and coffee because it was cold. I took a late night, I took a late evening swim and it is cold outside.
So I wanted to warm up with some coffee and crown. Oh, yeah. Girl, that’s delicious.
Oh, I have one. Keeping it simple. Yeah.
So horse school on Sunday, I’m going to talk about the giantess kink macrophilia, which includes growing, shrinking and other aspects of the macrophilia fetish. It’s one of the more gaining in popularity, yet still a little bit fringe fetishes. And I love the giantess fetish.
It’s love it. It’s so much fun because it is creative as hell. And you can combine it with pretty much anything.
So size difference? Yes, please. Join me. Horse school Sundays from 11 to midnight on the east coast, eight to nine on the west coast.
The chat will be in the community kink dot com chat room. And if you’ve got questions about macrophilia. Hit me up.
Yes, I’ll answer them on the air. Lots of fun. I love it.
I love I’m a tall girl anyway. So it makes it even more fun for me. Did somebody say you can’t? No, never mind.
No, you can’t. Terri Beth. I love it.
I will have a I have had confessions. So every Monday on my blog, except for this last Monday, there will be a confession posted that is submitted anonymously. So go ahead and go to sensualcocktease.com and submit your anonymous confession to me.
But I am actually confessing to you this Monday. And I think you all will be very interested to read my very, very, very naughty confession. It has to do with pencil.
Check it out. Just keep your hands on your lap. So while you read it.
I don’t know if I’m reading it. I’ve got the dummy out. She’s talking to the subs, right? Yeah, just the subbies.
Yeah, just read as much as you want. Yeah, I’ll be reading that with the dummy fully charged. And it will not be fully charged when I get done.
When you do that, can I call you, Bestie? Maybe listen in on speaker. Can we all get on a group call and get our toys out? Oh, well, that sounds like fun. Right? Count me in.
I love it. We can swap controls with each other. Oh, that would be really hot.
Let me calm down here. I know, me too. Oh, it just got warm in here.
Right? Right. Well, thank you all so much for coming to Femdom Friday. And make sure you join the Enchantrix Empire Scourge server every Friday at 9 p.m. Eastern.
And have a really safe weekend this weekend. And you guys, I love you all so much. We’ll see you next weekend with Miss Bianca.
Yes. Good night, y’all. Thanks, everybody.
Bye.
